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What is love ?

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« I am dogged by this curse of impossible love. »
(A cry of distress among many others)
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How to describe Love? It is as invisible as air, and just as essential to life. The man ignores it but if he is deprived of it, he literally suffocates.
Our life, our dramas flow from this reality: from the child for whom the mother represents this vital need, to the man for whom the woman represents this plenitude. At first she lends herself to this substitution, often even calling him "my baby"; then little by little she refuses by becoming a real mother. The man is happy to be a father but confusedly feels that he is losing something... that he is going to look for in other arms.

What is love ?

Floating picture

Love is the essence of life

 « Love, this divine light, this original vibration, is an incessant flow, celestial nourishment. Love, the lack of which is the source of all evil, is the all-powerful energy which bathes the world. She passes through you according to what you are able to let pass, to collect, to offer.
 You imagine yourself incapable of loving your enemies or your personal asperities. But it is not through your will that you can love with that love. She is in the abandonment of yourself, because this Love does not come from you. She is not born from your heart. She is offered to you without discrimination. You just need to open yourself to it and share it without hoarding it for yourself. Then you will love without the will to love. Then you will no longer say: "I don't like So-and-so; he is my enemy." Then you will be full of tenderness for weaknesses, shortcomings.

 Each form of love is a fragment of this immense incandescence in which the world is bathed, in which you yourselves are bathed. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « Here we understand that everything on Earth and in the Beyond depends on only one force: Love. Every act of our life must be imbued with it. »
( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )  LoupeAuteurContributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE ou DEATH

 « The most powerful cement that can unite men is love. At the highest spiritual level it triggers Communion, this natural fusion which opens the door to the Whole. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « In Manila, I met Loretta Castro. She is rector of two universities. This morning, she takes us to the prison, a kind of narrow passage that separates rows of cages arranged as if for big cats! Our guide admits that she herself hesitated for a long time before entering. "But when, finally, I made up my mind, I was overwhelmed by the explosion of joy that I brought to it!".
 As I leave, I say to Loretta, “
You have courage to come here alone!" She simply replies: "No, I don't need courage; I love them." »
('Sister Emmanuelle's Farewell')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Sister Emmanuelle on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH

 « The toughest fiber must soften in the fire of love. If it does not melt, it's because the fire is not strong enough. »
(Gandhi)magnifying glassAuthorContributions of Mahatma Gandhi on the subject of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH

 « The true, the great kindness is that which is expressed by the grace of a smile, a look or a gesture from the heart. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « In Paris, in a courtyard, a young North African was standing, leaning against a wall, looking aggressive. I would have liked to speak to him, but the Arabic of the ragpickers would perhaps have seemed ridiculous to him. In a flash, the memory of abbot Pierre came back to me. I tried to put my heart in my eyes as I turned to him. Surprised that a French woman shows him this friendship, he looked right, then left to whom I was talking to, it hurt me! I had to go back to my house.
 When I left, he was waiting for me. He took a step towards me, and I towards him. He held out his hand to me and I held out mine. He didn't speak, I didn't say anything… but our two hands tied with such energy, our gazes plunged into each other with such warmth that each of us heard a message : “You are my sister and I love you." “You are my brother and I love you." »
('Sister Emmanuelle's Farewell')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Sister Emmanuelle on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH

 « We will never know the long-term effects of a smile or a word of encouragement. »
[ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « Strong with the complete gift of his being, Jesus came to share with men this kingdom of heaven which he had conquered. He came to tear the veil on the beyond. He came to say: "Believe, love, act, let hope be the soul of your actions. Beyond this earth there is a more perfect life. But it is not enough to aspire to it. To achieve it, you must begin by realizing it here below, first in yourselves, then in humanity. By what? By love." »
(Édouard Schuré, 'Death and beyond')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Édouard Schuré on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH

 « ...I understand a little more what Love is because I begin to love its imperfections and because I forgive it with joy. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Les neuf marches')  magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

 « We experience a lot of emotions, but we always end up discovering that the main thing is to love without judgment. Love is simple. To love is to help, to give or to receive, as the case may be. »

(Australian Aboriginal Life Principles)
 magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Marlo Morgann on the subject of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or HEALTH

 love makes happy

 « Love transforms life;
what was Earth becomes Heaven. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « And to the only one who can say to you: 'I feel so happy', open your house for life, because the happiness that comes to her face is a sign of her quality since it comes from a rewarded heart. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

 « It is by their tears of joy that we recognize the angels in the making. »
(Karen Goldman, 'The Book of Angels')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Karen Goldman on the subject of:

The WAY , LOVE or LIFE


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Love is of divine essence, it emanates from the source of our being☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :
Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Father Creator. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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 His feelings

When I love, a powerful well-being comes to me from within, overwhelms me, upsets me. I become a channel between Heaven and the one who awakens this love in me. The flower, by exhaling its perfume, is the first to be intoxicated by it.

  « When you give, you receive. » says St Exupéry

 « [when you really love)
It is not you who love. It is this Force which passes through you, to generate love in you and around you. Love is an energy that flows from every heart ajar linked to First Source☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :
Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Father Creator. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 His importance

 « Above all, I was shown (when Betty ended up on "the other side") that love is supreme. Without him, we are nothing. We live here to help each other, to take care of each other.

 All our efforts to express love are commendable: a smile, a word of encouragement, a small sacrifice. These acts make us grow. Not everyone is worthy, but when we find it difficult to love someone, it's often because they remind us of something inside us that we loathe. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

 « The soul wants to feel, and thus to know itself. Through his own experience. The highest feeling is the experience of oneness with All That Is. It's the perfect feeling of love.

 Perfect love is to feeling what perfect white is to color. For white is the inclusion of all colors. Likewise, love is not the absence of emotion, but the sum of all feelings. So to experience perfect love, the soul has to experience every human feeling. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 « Universal Love is God's Plan☆ Excerpt from the page: "The purpose of life" :

God's Plan

« The Creator created man with the intention of making him His companion, whether in heaven or on earth, or on any plane of consciousness. »
[a reading by Edgar Cayce]

« The very dense, during successive degradations, leads to the very subtle, the impalpable. At the seventh level of transformations, God waits.
 Will return to God those who, from the state of matter, have distilled their nature. As fire is compatible with fire, as pure water mixes with pure water, human nature, stripped of its heaviness, of its densities, must rediscover its origin: God. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

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 Dear loved ones, do not be surprised by my teaching which is always the same
(love)  ; it is that really there is the crux of the whole raison d'être of the relationship between men.

 The little child does not concern himself with the means his parents will use to support him. «  Love ! » don't worry about anything else. An infinite Love watches over your life. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « The only thing that matters in life is love. Fear helps you survive. »
[ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « The mediums can testify to this, whether we are in communication with the deceased or guides, all tell us: "Love, nothing but love! You have to love! Love!" »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

Testimony of a doctor brought back to life in extremis:

 « I was taught one thing, the only thing that really matters in the final analysis is that love is the basis of all things. In its purest form, this love is neither jealous nor selfish, but unconditional.
 Sharing this essential message - so simple that most children accept it without hesitation - is now the most important task before me.
 Everyone I've met for years who's had a near death experience
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Contacts with the afterlife" :

The considerable progress made in the field of resuscitation has elicited fantastic testimonies. And at the same time, the advent of the Internet has not only made it possible to confront them, but to reinforce them with a continuous stream of authenticated cases.

It is also remarkable to note that these testimonies corroborate what the religious texts and mediumistic messages assure us .

 NDE, EMP, EMI... What is it?

  « The NDE or EMP ( Experiencing Temporary Death in french), a subject well known today to the general public, are experienced by people («experiencers. ») who, following an accident or health problems, find themselves clinically dead for a few seconds or minutes before being revived. If some don't remember anything, others make strange testimonies of what they experienced during this period of time. What is interesting and what has drawn attention to the phenomenon is that these experiences, reported by people of different cultures and religions, have commonalities
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, speak of this unconditional love. Describing it is the first obstacle to describing their experience. »
 LoupeAuteurContributions of Pr Alexander on the theme of:

LOVE , DEATH

 Love and sexuality

 « Sexuality is a force of the body, stored in the cells. It spreads to all levels of being, and its first stage is that of the flesh. This force is so misunderstood in your society that it is overused, ironized, abused and, in this decline, there is an absolute negation of what is most sacred in man. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « We must never confuse universal love, which corresponds to the sixth degree [there are seven octaves of vibrations] and which is a purely spiritual force, with the 'love' of the third animal degree, which is the expression of animal instincts. This "love" is characterized by the desire for possession and seeks only the body. This love always wants to take, to have, to possess. The love of the sixth degree proceeds from the divine unity, this is why this love is universal, it always gives, never takes, needs no physical manifestation. It radiates, and illuminates. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

 « The Love is revealed in an exceptional way through the sexual act, meditation or the absorption of drugs. Doors open, if the mind is not ready, they close immediately. This feeling can be dangerous because the body cannot be neglected for too long, and the weak mind that has encountered it will seek it again and again, in defiance of others and of itself. Do not try to force these doors. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

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  Peace descends upon you,
  but give it to others!
  Grace flows through us
  and we never tire.
  THE LIFE WE LIVE – THIS IS THE GRACE WE GIVE YOU.
  The fire you receive is thirst, Pass on this thirst!
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « Every act of love leaves its mark on the one it touches. What you have done for me, I will return to others. »
[ Maguy Lebrun ]

 « Whether your mission requires of you the deepest poverty or the greatest fortune, you receive what you need. Like the canal which remains indifferent to the quantity of water which passes through it since the water does not belong to it, you must consider everything that destiny gives you as coming from God and good to transmit. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]


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Love being essential to life, suffering becomes anxiety when we do not feel loved. When we no longer feel affection for those we are around, but jealousy at the happiness they display, as if to taunt us.
Faced with our silent and often bitter pain, family, colleagues, neighbors only approach us superficially, quickly.
Depression sets in, because man cannot live separated from others.
But we can't force ourselves to love them...
So what to do?

Try to understand the why of life, of its difficulties

Since the dawn of time, people have given themselves reasons to explain the harshness of existence. But the wisest are rarely listened to because although their messages corroborate each other, they do not go in the direction of enjoyment, possession, consideration.
What are these messages? Here are some ... but they are on every page of this site.

Don't fall for easy, conventional advice

“You have to have fun, go out…” As if that were possible when you’re feeling bad.

A psychologist will certainly not tell you that your suffering (hence the need for Love) is inevitable because it is linked to life itself. He will prefer to invite you to question yourself by evoking his classics: an emotional deficiency in childhood, introversion, needs to be met, a lack of self-confidence, the fear of being abandoned, emotional immaturity... to conclude on the urgency of therapy.
The truth is much simpler: love as it is understood today cannot satisfy a sensitive soul who needs Love to survive in the coldness of our modern societies.
 « Your drama is to dream of love in a climate of ice. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Accept suffering!
  she is only temporary if we don't focus on it

It is very important not to refuse suffering or reject it. Quite simply because trying to push a rock out of your way would only add discouragement to your suffering.
There is only one solution, one only: accept it and turn your attention away from it
 for example, by adopting an animal
 or by joining associations  ; a wonderful opportunity to meet people who suffer from the same affliction. Suddenly they will reassure you: you are not an extra-terrestrial, and you will be able to rediscover friendship, this other side of Love.
Because you will only find friendship of heart among people who have suffered.
Besides, if you want, write to me , I will answer you - if I am still in this world.

Avoid mirages

Like believing that life is made for being happy ... or that you absolutely must succeed  !...

... and the clichés that cut you off from the world

"I'm cursed...", "I fail at everything...", "Why is God doing this to me?", "It's true, love doesn't exist...", "People are all...", etc, etc...

Evacuate your suffering

☞ It is necessary to evacuate that which suffocates us

... and love yourself!

Yes, love yourself! Accept yourself as you are.
Go discover deep within yourself why you deserve to be loved
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Father Creator. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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To love is not "to desire to" , but "to devote oneself to".
In other words, be happy to know that others are doing well. And for that, do the best for him; even if he ignores it, even if our gestures are badly perceived.

Love

(Frederic Francois)

Let our heart speak
Let our heart love
The rest is unimportant, I think
It takes thousands of days
For a lifetime of love
The rest doesn't matter, believe me
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To love is to never be alone again
To love is always tonight and always tomorrow
I know it hurts sometimes, but still
Love is the only way to really exist

{Refrain:}
I love you like crazy, I love you
I don't know where it takes me
But I'm fine everywhere if you're there
I got it all figured out I love you, I love you
And every day your eyes teach me
To be happy for the first time

To love is to need to be loved too
To love is to give always, to offer your life
To love is to cry with joy beside a cradle
And it is to hold in your arms the most beautiful gift
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 « Love, really, is to make your happiness depend on other beings. It is to see one's good outside oneself. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « To love is to forget oneself, and the woman who forgets herself and sinks into her love is sublime. She finds in this annihilation her crown of light and the immortal radiance of her being. »
(Édouard Schuré, 'Death and beyond')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Édouard Schuré on the theme of:

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  You see the miracle coming only if you forget yourself.
  This is the secret of secrets.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « Love, what is it? give way to the benefit of the other.

 On Earth, the love that is closest to absolute Love is the love of a mother for her child. »
[ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

 « True love, which is inwardly a total gift of self, differs radically from the sentimentality of many who believe they love. This love is capable of miracles incomprehensible to human understanding alone. Thus a mother close to her suffering child accomplishes as much as the doctor called to her bedside. The healer, even false, the doctor, even bad, can accomplish spectacular cures if they feel, even for a second, a real love for the patient. »
[ R. Bernard, Grand Master of the Rose Croix ]

 « If for a moment you could substitute your neighbor for yourself and do for him what you have done for yourself! And for you, only what you do for him. Man, on this condition alone, can say that he loves his neighbour. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Floating picture  « An artist said: love is calm, peace, tranquility. In my opinion, he made a mistake, he confused it with the siesta. »
(Colouche)

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  « The spirit is androgynous, it chooses whether it will incarnate as a girl or a boy. Then he plans the outlines of his life. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « Love, when it is clothed in its finest qualities such as fidelity, respect for others and their well-being, is the noblest expression both between men and women, and in union of two men or two women.
 All human beings have within them a more or less developed male or female part. Besides, there is no sexuality in our world (celestial), the spirits are asexual. There is therefore no punishment here for homosexuals who have chosen this difference in order to progress.
 Realize that homosexuality is not a disease! It comes from the nature of the spirit and its choices of incarnation. A spirit that was a woman in a previous incarnation, having made the choice, for reasons linked to the necessities of its evolution, to reincarnate in a man's body, can keep an attraction for men deeply rooted in its unconscious.
 The guide proposes to the spirit, at the time of the incarnation, to change sex to gain for example in will to act, or in sensitivity. The spirit can also choose this difference as a difficulty in incarnation.
 But it can just as well be imposed on him. For example if the spirit in a past life incurred karmic debts
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

karma

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Karma is a Sanskrit word for fate. It is sometimes evoked during dramas that seem incomprehensible and unfair, but it can manifest itself in pleasant events. We can say that it tends to restore a balance.
There is no bad karma. Everything that happens to us is fundamentally good, because karma has only one goal: to awaken, to raise our consciousness.
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 « It is great justice to warn man: you will reap what you have sown. No one inflicts punishment on you, no one condemns you, but you sew your own shroud according to the meaning you give to your life. For the responsible man there will be no "day of (self-) judgment", because it is from day to day that he judges himself. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

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by committing offenses against those who had this tendency. Remember that an executioner will sooner or later be a victim. The spirit will therefore know by reincarnating a certain number of trials, the first of which will be to accept itself, because it will have preserved in the memory of its perispirit, the animosities of its past lives. But the objective is always to give the spirit the possibility of evolving towards more tolerance, acceptance, non-judgment, and therefore love.

 In the same way, parents progressing in their incarnation will have to learn to accept their child as he is, in order to develop in them the capacity to love, to be tolerant (they could also have, in their choice of incarnation, decided to have a disabled child). This experience will result in spiritual advancement or failure.
 The spirit of a homosexual also has a goal to achieve: to fight against his addiction to sexuality. The plurality of relationships, dissatisfaction, instability are vices to be overcome, addictions to be overcome, in homosexuality as in heterosexuality.

 The love that exists between two beings of the same sex is a real energy that carries them into the beauty of feelings when these are formed in respect for the other, in everyday support, where love is actually present. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]