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«Travel is monotonous for some
 and exhilarating for others.
 Jumping on the march is dangerous and strongly discouraged... »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]


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A useless gesture

 regrettable...and regretted

Testimonials

"I gave up suicide"

"Sadness is now part of my life."

"How I regret my action!"

  Observations on these testimonies

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Negative Astral Influences

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Aggravation of an addiction

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So what ? How to live ?

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In summary

Every day, from all over the world, cries of despair are heard. :

“My life is a failure”, “My life is empty”, “Life is bland, for me suicide is the only solution”, “My life is worthless and I am thinking about suicide”, "My life is ruined", "Life has become unbearable for me", "My life is a series of dramas", "Completely lost in my life...", "I'm passing next to my life”, etc.

My personal point of view

I went through these anxiety attacks. Faced with the silence of heaven, I looked for answers, and it is ultimately this that resonates within me: I deceive myself when I weigh an event that affects me against what I call my life.
My life, my true life is that of my soul, and it is much larger. For her, only my attitude towards the situations I go through is important. This is so true for me that today I prefer to be the one hurt than the one who hurts.

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Here you are faced with the test you wanted to overcome when you came to earth.
You have already suffered so much, don't give up so close to your goal.
Please, at least browse this page.

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 « In some lives, one problem follows another without respite. Before being born, the soul had chosen a very difficult life path in order to evolve faster (or redeem a fault or return to face a failed test). Except that she then had an expanded field of consciousness (a total vision), in an infinite space-time. But on Earth, her consciousness is no longer at all the same; in particular, her perception of lifespan... which can then seem unbearable to him. »
( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )  LoupeAuteurContributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE ou DEATH

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If we contemplate suicide, it means we are completely mistaken about our reason for being on earth.

We are not here to "profit".

To believe it is to sink into a false path, as into a swamp; from illusion to disappointment, from dissatisfaction to disgust. And when you stop, in the middle of nowhere, you think you've wasted your life.

Listen to the truth:
we are there to confront our soul with tests in order to reveal it to itself. And if they seem unbearable to you, it's simply that you ignore your strength.

« Each ordeal has a threshold,
  depending on the strengths of each,
  and the Spirit will never demand the impossible. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 ☞  The threshold of suffering

Throwing in the towel would only postpone this advancement, which will fulfill you and of which you will be proud once you return to the other plane of consciousness.☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 « Do not flee the Earth and what it imposes on you. When you were born, you entered into a real contract with this other you that you do not suspect. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')

 Decision, life plan

 « Everyone on Earth knows the experiences he agreed to go through while his soul personality was in the cosmic interlude. As harsh as they may seem, the lesson that needs to be learned is central to the evolution of the soul-personality.
There is no circumstance, there is no situation, however tragic, that does not have its raison d'être. »
[ R. Bernard, Grand Master of the Rose Croix ]

 « You want to know if, when you decide on a reincarnation, you have really chosen all the evil that is going to happen to you. But to decide on its future incarnation, if any, the soul already has the experience of one or more past incarnations. Meditation in the world of light shows him very clearly the lessons missed. Then, she chooses according to her criteria the time, the place, the family, the color of the skin, etc., then she reincarnates. »
[Edgar Cayce, 'In the Light of Light']

 « The circumstances of the departure were established in the life plan with the help of the spiritual guide. Everything is planned, except in the case of a suicide . »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

suite...
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Suicide is not a solution
but one more problem!

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 « The perpetrators of this act discover it too late,
  life goes on. »
[ R. Altea, "A long ladder to the sky" ]

 « The physical body is only the temple through which the Entity can dissolve the conflicts and knots that it has generated and that its soul intensely wants to resolve. The death of the body does not allow this process to stop and to believe that “killing” it will put an end to the problems of life is a further illusion. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

« On Earth, physical, mental or emotional suffering is a normal experience; suicide does not end the suffering. »
(J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

The WAY , LIFE or DEATH

 « If man knew the true purpose☆ Excerpt from the page: "The purpose of life" :

The goal of existence is to pass
from the navel-gazing stage to self-abstraction.
We understand that one lifetime is not enough.


« Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

 In evolution, the mineral will become vegetable, the vegetable will become animal and the animal will become human. It is the long chain of life. »
( Hélène Bouvier, médium, "Mission des âmes dans l'au-delà" )

 « The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, then after our death, in the various worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « The soul-personality must become aware of itself. In reality, there is no other reason for the human presence on earth. All circumstances, all emotions, all experiences are aimed at this one end.
 Follow Jesus' advice: "Seek first the kingdom of God (in other words, progress towards knowledge) and everything else will be added to you." »
[ R. Bernard, Grand Master of the Rose Croix ]

- And what is according to your views, the purpose of our life?

 « Amassing experiences. Man asks more of life than food and food. Some consider themselves satisfied when they have ensured their external well-being; but most yearn for something more. Behind their actions and gestures, there is an ideal. »
(Henry Ford)

following...
of his existence, the continuity of life after death and the consequences of suicide, he would not end his life. »
[ Message received by Alain Joseph Bellet, medium ]

 Disappointment, misunderstanding

 « When a person takes their own life, one of the first things they realize is that they are not dead. It is dominated by a painful impression of heaviness because its nature still includes earthly attachments. In a sense his soul is not entirely free. Caught between the physical world and the spiritual world, the soul is alive but unable to communicate with loved ones or anyone else. The soul regrets having shortened its days, it discovers what was the nature of its destiny and how its existence would have been useful and rich in meaning if it had remained alive. In the spiritual dimension she learns why she had to go through the experiences that drove her to suicide.

 Plus she feels the pain and anger of those she left behind. Haunted by his gesture, she remains in limbo. »
(J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

 Pain, anger...

 « The first awareness is often accompanied by incomprehension and revolt for those who thought they were definitely dead. The others are surprised by their survival and by the torments they no longer thought they would feel when killing themselves.
 They find themselves next to their loved ones. Feeling the unbearable suffering they have caused, they make signs to demonstrate their presence and to be helped.

 (...) The spirit also sees the events that were programmed in its plan of life
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 Decision, life plan

- How and when are the spiritual goals that we must achieve defined?

 « You all live a more or less long period of wandering in the spiritual world between two incarnations. It is relative to your efforts to progress. When your degree of evolution allows it, you choose the outline of your next life on earth, with the approval of your guides. A life plan is established, with the choice of your family and its social environment, your professional, sentimental, friendly, material and financial lines, as well as your health.

 Part of the life experiences are determined in advance according to your achievements or weaknesses of past lives. They will become unmissable events, highlighting the main weaknesses to be eliminated. Nevertheless, the majority of your experiences will reveal themselves through the free choice of your attitudes and behavior. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

following...
and the consequences of his departure in the lives of those close to him. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

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 ☞  The drama of this generation (Edgar Cayce)

  ☞  Message addressed to young people (from Heaven)



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A useless gesture

 regrettable...and regretted

Testimonials

"I gave up suicide"

"Sadness is now part of my life."

"How I regret my action!"

  Observations on these testimonies

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Negative Astral Influences

Aggravation of an addiction

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So what ? How to live ?

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  In summary


 « You should never end your life.
We must keep hope. »

(David Louis, medium, "Beyond the Clouds")

A regrettable gesture
...and regretted

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  « A suicide victim realizes on the other side that he could have overcome his ordeal. Alas, his act is irreversible. »
( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )  LoupeAuteurContributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE ou DEATH

« Death is not a prison from which one must escape. It gives meaning to human existence, drives us to make productive use of it as long as it is given to us.

 Facing a problem makes you grow, whether you solve it or not. »
[ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « Suicide solves nothing because problems are obstacles that we have to overcome. Whether we are on one side or the other, these problems will loom before us. It is our way of facing them, our state of mind, which determines their more or less insurmountable character. »
[ R. Altea, "A long ladder to the sky" ]

 « Africans, broken from childhood to deprivation, rarely put an end to their days. But in Europe, the suicides of young people are multiplying. When difficulties and suffering take place in a previously easy life (or continually frustrated), there comes the temptation to sink into what one hopes will be nothingness. What am I to make them accept the experience of those whom pain has made grow? »
('Sister Emmanuelle's Farewell')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Sister Emmanuelle on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH

 « (...) Your ordeal consisted of a chain of circumstances which were to give you, not the necessity, but the temptation of suicide. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

 « During a mediumistic contact, Jean's spirit became concerned about his wife's suicidal thoughts:

« She would have to start all over again! »

 I remain convinced that when a person ends his life, he ends the fulfillment of a spiritual purpose on this earth. She will have to make the choice to come back here.

 There are many causes for this act, but what I know is that the soul regrets having ended its life when it sees the suffering of its loved ones who have remained on earth. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet (medium) ]

 « Respect your time on Earth. There will be a time when the Holy Abode will call you back. Understand that your loved ones will probably get there at a different time from yours and that your journey on Earth may take a little longer, but your love is eternal. »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

 « The idea of ​​suicide should not even cross our minds. This act can only spoil the opportunities that earthly life offers us so that we can flourish. And later, thinking back, we would mourn those forever lost potentialities. Look for hope. Despair is never justified. We are here to learn, to experiment, to make mistakes. Our toughest trials will one day prove to be our best teachers. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

 « Among Hindus and Jains, committing suicide is considered as serious a sin as killing another.
 However, under certain circumstances, it is considered acceptable to end life by fasting. This practice, called prayopavesha, requires so much time and willpower that there is no risk of it being done impulsively. It also allows time for the individual to settle their affairs, reflect on life, and draw closer to God. »
(Excerpt from Wikipedia)


Home and site MAP > Suicide > Points
A useless gesture

 regrettable...and regretted

Testimonials

"I gave up suicide"

"Sadness is now part of my life."

"How I regret my action!"

  Observations on these testimonies

    ____

Negative Astral Influences

Aggravation of an addiction

    ____

So what ? How to live ?

    ____

  In summary

[ A gesture regretted ]

Testimonials


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We will see in these testimonies that people in a suicidal phase are blinded by their pain. They see themselves alone, drowning in their ordeal; and no one to understand or love them.
They fail to realize one essential thing: that life is difficult for most people. They look good but are fragile. The suicide of a loved one can easily plunge into uncontrollable distress. Even the one who seems the most solid, the coldest, can then sink into depression.
It is essential that the person considering this fatal action realizes this.
Because she will suffer a lot on the other side seeing the damage she has caused (unconsciously) on those she loves. And she will see them because when the body dies, the liberated soul only changes vibrational frequency. She does not die☆But just as two television channels do not interact with each other, the soul can no longer manifest itself in the earthly vibration. Neither to express regrets or console, nor even less to resume one's life. The situation is dramatic on both sides (see below “How I regret my action!”). .

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 “I gave up suicide”

“I only thought about myself. But my mother would have spent the rest of her life without me. My suffering would have ended, but it would have only just begun for my loved ones.
 If you are thinking about suicide, know that there are people who love you and who are thinking of you. You're struggling today, but tomorrow everything can change. We can't know.”
☆ Extract from a report - produced in October 2023 jointly with Germany and the United States -, attempting to analyze this evil which kills as many people as road accidents but about which we talk very little.

 “Sadness is now part of my life.”

 According to studies☆Below, extracts from a report - produced in October 2023 jointly with Germany and the United States -, attempting to analyze this evil which kills as many people as road accidents but about which we talk very little. , a suicide forever changes the lives of around twenty other people.

Testimony of a young woman, Patricia, whose husband committed suicide 15 years ago, after 13 years of living together:

 - I think he was really tired of existence. He had no more energy.
 Yes, “tired of living” describes well Andreas's state in the last months, perhaps even the last years.
 (...) Suddenly losing the person who mattered most in my life was extremely painful, even physically. I found myself in a state... where I could no longer think clearly.
 (...) A part of me is still in mourning. Something very violent happened to me, which I cannot erase like that. This sadness is now part of my life.

 Patricia found support in a discussion group, which she started running on a voluntary basis 12 years ago. In all countries, associations come to the aid of bereaved people.

A woman testifies during one of these meetings:

- I am happy to finally be able to do this work on myself, after my mother's suicide 40 years ago. I feel like I'm no longer alone. For years I felt like I was the only one going through this... such a situation.

 Another woman adds:

 - Pain reminds me that I am alive; I continue to live for my brother.

 A man describes “endless suffering”:

 - I see a photo, I hear a song, and the memories come flooding back. I want to smile and I start to cry.
 I believe there is no recipe. It's so personal that there is no ready-made solution.

A woman notices shyly :

 - We can express ourselves in this group. But unfortunately, it's very difficult to do it in another setting.
 Here we can talk openly about what happened to us and what we feel. But we don't find the same listening in those around us.

 "How I regret my action !"

   (Testimonials collected by mediums)

  ☞ Sophie's suicide
☆ Excerpt from Anne Givaudan's book, "breach of contract"

- Sophie's suicide -


 « It all started where I thought it would finally end.

 Death was neither before nor behind me. When my son came in and discovered me, I thought I was going to die a second time. I felt his immense dismay and stupor, as if it were happening to me. I then began to suffer the pain of every person I loved who discovered my lifeless body.

 Feelings of helplessness, anger, abandonment, the pain of betrayal, everything that inhabited each one hit me head-on and transformed inside me into an intolerable pain.

following...

  ☞ Carole's suicide
☆ Excerpt from Anne Givaudan's book, "breach of contract"

- Carole's suicide -


  Slowly, Carole sank into a universe that no longer had any meaning.
 Her parents tried in vain to get her to talk. The girl no longer wanted to speak or even eat. His parents, overwhelmed with concern, had called on the best specialists and psychotherapists. Carole no longer wanted to live.
 She had decided to end her life and nothing would stop her.

 It was in her mother's medicine cabinet that she found the solution: small boxes of sleeping pills lined up in front of her, neat and attractive. Her mother, who was sometimes anxious, had these pills regularly prescribed for fear of running out of them during one or other of her trips, although she only took them occasionally. The forgettable pink and white pills now slid easily down Carole's throat as she savored the moment when the nightmare that her life had become would finally come to an end...or so it did. she thought. Everything seemed simple to him and death, at this moment, did not seem dramatic to him, quite the contrary.

following...

 « Mom I love you, forgive me, pray for me, help me. I shouldn't have left you that day. I was bad in my skin, in my head, in my body! »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

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 « Tell the humans of Earth that, contrary to many ideas that circulate on your planet, the person who commits suicide does not go to hell, but ask yourself: What is hell but the suffering inflicted upon oneself by those who feel guilty?
 The physical body has little to do with the hell that humans create for themselves. He is the temple through which the Entity can dissolve the conflicts and the knots which it has generated and which its soul intensely desires to resolve. The death of the body does not allow this process to stop and to believe that “killing” it will put an end to the problems of life is a further illusion.

 (...) I finally found the companions who had guided me so far, sincerely thinking that my task was finished. I would finally be able to join the planes of Light to which I aspired.
 I then read in their eyes that my mission and the repair of my story were not yet complete. During eighty years of earthly life, I was going to have to accompany and help, from the invisible, the “living” with suicidal ideas.
 I decided to accomplish this last step with all the love of which I felt capable. I thought I knew everything about helping others without realizing that in my pride as a rescuer
(Steve was a firefighter), I forgot the main thing: (as a guardian angel, I had to) accept that the other does not hear us, without feeling helpless. Detach yourself from any idea of ​​failure and success… »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')

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 « Let us not hide from ourselves that suicide victims particularly suffer the hardships of this region ( lower astral ). They have abandoned their physical body by an artificial means, but all the feelings attached to it remain unchanged. Natural death brings with the destruction of the body, a partial extinction of these feelings. To the torments given to the suicide by the sensation of a sudden emptiness which forms within him, are added those of the unsatisfied desires and passions which have led him to commit suicide. »
[ Rudolf Steiner ]

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 « (...) They looked for his mother in the whole house, and they finally found her, hanging in the attic.

Questioned by a medium, his son, who died shortly before, regrets this gesture of despair:

 "
Were it not for the grief caused me by his fatal resolution, I would be perfectly happy. Poor and excellent mother! She could not bear the ordeal of this momentary separation, and she took, to be reunited with her son whom she loved, the road which was to keep her away from him, alas, for a very long time. She thus delayed this reunion which would have been so prompt if she had resigned herself, humble, in the face of the ordeal which was going to purify her." »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

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 « My death was long and I dragged a long time in the freezing water of the river. Before dying I simply saw, in a flash, my life unfold, from that moment of my fall from the bridge until my birth and my conception... I suddenly knew that life had always wanted me and that my birth was no accident. I had wanted everything, down to the smallest detail. Only my death was not part of my story.
 It was like an evidence, a moment of grace that goes beyond any logical explanation, a moment when we know that our existence has a meaning.

 Timmy is dead and his adoptive parents mourn him. His mother in the pain of this loss no longer sees the children who remain and who, in turn, wonder if the dead are not more loved than the living.
 Timmy wants to tell them all that he's not dead but no one sees it, feels it, or hears it.
 »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

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 Frank's Suicide:

 « "What am I for? What good is this life? I don't know what to do with my life in this rotten world that makes no sense!"
 "Why does a God allow all this?"
 "I hate this world where the powerful always have the last word.
"

 I decided to drown because I saw no way out of my story and I couldn't stand seeing misery and death all around me without being able to do anything about it.
 The sea in front of me seemed to be my ultimate solution. A kind of dissolution of my existential anxieties. It was not an easy act for me, it took courage to decide to die.

 But it didn't take long for me to realize that life doesn't end just because we decide it does.
 A universe similar to the one I had just left presented itself to me. I believed that the fishermen had saved me and I found my cabin and my questions as I had left them. However, some details surprised me. The monsoon rain did not wet me, but above all, on my notebook were written words that I had never written:

 "Me Frank, I am going to die of malaria and I am forty-five years old but, before leaving, I wanted to say this: Life is unique and sacred, it is a gift that helps us to live the material, for breathe into it Love. With this in mind, we choose roles, all very different from each other but none, ever, is useless."


 These words may not mean anything to you, but to me they were crystal clear. I realized that I had put an end to my life, out of despair, while a few years remained for me to understand and heal my soul.
 I must also learn how to love and emanate some peace around me, without acting, just by the simple fact of existing. Not believing that you are master of the destiny of “others” is an important step
 Everything seems so simple seen from this side of Life…

 « Tell the humans of Earth that Life is not what they often imagine. Even alive physically, an entity which is unaware of the flexibility in front of the various situations which are presented to him is in Death. Death is not the disintegration of the physical, it is the sclerosis of the soul, the rigidity of our inner being, the will to control.
 »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')

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 Mado Maurin addresses her son, Patrick Dewaere (French actor) who committed suicide:

 « To accept the death of one's child is to bring it into the world a second time. Our revolt is the only shadow that can still reach him in this homeland where we will meet again.
 What is most difficult for me is that my son has voluntarily cut the thread of his life, and this is what will keep me on my knees before the Lord until we meet again. »

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 « That (collective suicide of three teenagers) has so many consequences that we are ashamed of not having looked within ourselves for the hope of a better day.

 Dear parents, We know that you have forgiven us. The fact remains that every day we feel your pain.

 We come through this medium to send a message to young people who will read this book:  
"Do not commit the irreparable. You who have the blues, do not let yourself be carried away by depression, by despair. Look at what life can still offer you, and while everything may seem hopeless to you, in the belief and faith in God, you will see the light clear your path. We regret our lack of trust in God." »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

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 « (...) Once I was put in the hands of a guru. I had to go all the way to India to realize that they were laughing at me, and that they wanted miracles where there was nothing else to do but wait patiently. Once sure that they wouldn't get me out of there, I decided to end it.

 The unexpected was that by wanting me out of life definitively, I didn't know that we couldn't. I was supposed to be no longer present, and I was, so to speak, more alive than before my death. I had, by my regrettable act for my family, immediately had the vision of their sorrow and their thoughts. And I was touched by the concern they had never ceased to have for me.

 Dead, I was sunk in dismay at being alive and no one to hear me scream it. Who could have thought such a thing? Who could say that without being laughed at and sent back to his hallucinations? »
(Testimony collected by Maddly Bamy, "To love without expecting in return")  magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

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« Andy showed me that he hovered over his body.
 He couldn't believe he was dead, because he felt fully alive. He told himself that he had made a terrible mistake, and he tried by all means to return to his body. Unable to do so, he began to cry!
 Then Andy waited there, unsure what to do. When his father found out, he felt bad for him and for you (the mother who consults the medium). He watched him talk to you and saw you break down. He heard you think you always knew this was going to happen. Feeling your love, it horrified him to have put you in this state.

 You see, the spirit has free will, and it can choose to incarnate too soon.
 When this happens, the person will generally be inhabited throughout his life by the feeling of not being in his place.☆ Excerpt from the page: "Despair, depression" :

The feeling

not to be of this world


This feeling is natural... since we are not of this world. For our soul, the Earth is a place of exile, and in moments of suffering or loneliness, it longs for the world it left behind.

 « Your drama is to dream of love in a climate of ice. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Each being is a citizen of two worlds, that of time and that of eternity. Paradoxically we are in the world and yet we are not of the world. »
( Martin Luther King )

 « You are embodied spirits experiencing matter for the time of an earth life. You do not belong to this world but to the spirit world. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet (medium) ]

 « All your life you think you are your body. At times you think you are your spirit. It is at the moment of your death that you discover Who You Really Are.

 Your son's soul did not have the necessary maturity to go through what awaited him. Often this constitutes too heavy a burden and the soul searches for a way out. »
(J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

The WAY , LIFE or DEATH

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 « As I awaken from my sleep of the dead, I heard the cries of pain, I panicked and I was forced to see that by panicking nothing was happening.

 (...) The man is not mistaken when he says that after an amputation he continues to feel the limb that was cut off. I had cut my life, and yet I felt it. »
(Testimony collected by Maddly Bamy, "To love without expecting in return")  magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH



 Observations on these testimonies

(extracts from a report - produced in October 2023 jointly with Germany and the United States -, attempting to analyze this evil which kills as many people as road accidents but about which we talk very little).

 « The first sign of distress, warns DR Michael Rosmann, is worry. Worry encourages our body to arm itself to face a threat. But if stress persists without ever diminishing, we end up completely exhausted. Until depression. »

Dr. Reidenberg presents the condition of patients going through a suicidal crisis:
 « They often describe a state of unbearable distress. Psychologically and often also physically. We are talking about a state of extreme despair which is accompanied by deep sadness, and a conviction that the situation will never improve. They feel imprisoned, locked in pain and in this terrible situation, this psychological distress. They see no other solution than to kill themselves, because at least it will be over.
 Suicidal people may think they can't be helped. This is totally false. We can be helped. Likewise, their perception can lead them to think that they are a burden to others, or that everyone ignores them. But here again, this is a mistake.
 (...) Some patients say that they are most often in automatic mode, as if they are anesthetized. »

 « The stigmatization of suicide has serious consequences because it prevents people from getting help in time, deplores Dr Émilie Olié.
 For effective action, society must allow those who need it to freely express their suicidal thoughts. It is therefore essential not to be afraid to talk about the risk of suicide, to question each other. »

Dr. Daniel Reidenberg confirms this:
 « We can help suicidal people. It could be through therapy or simply a sympathetic ear. Sometimes it will be a matter of stopping by to see how they are doing and being there for them.
 Very often future victims give indirect signs before taking action or express morbid ideas: they evoke a feeling of despair, say that there is no longer any future for them, that their existence has no no more meaning, that they no longer have a reason to live, nothing more to offer to their family or their friends, to society, to the rest of the world. »


Home and site MAP > Suicide >  Points
A useless gesture

 regrettable...and regretted

Testimonials

"I gave up suicide"

"Sadness is now part of my life."

"How I regret my action!"

  Observations on these testimonies

    ____

Negative Astral Influences

Aggravation of an addiction

    ____

So what ? How to live ?

    ____

  In summary


Negative Astral Influences

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« Few know it, but malevolent spirits can encourage the person
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Low-astral" :

 Incitement to suicide:

 « Some spirits who thought they were definitely dead feel anger that they failed to end their life and suffering. The negative feelings they express prevent them from being in acceptance, and on the contrary in revolt.
 The vibrations they give off then are very low, especially when they have put an end to their earthly life with the idea of ​​punishing a person, to make them suffer. They can then influence her and even project suicidal ideas onto her. »
[ Message received by Alain Joseph Bellet, medium ]
following...
to end his life. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

 « Spiritual influences and disturbances do exist.
 At all ages, when the vision becomes limited and the trials are more important every day, the human being ends up considering suicide as a solution to all his problems.
 If they find in them negative affinities, malevolent spirits can influence a person in this direction. »
[ Message received by Alain Joseph Bellet, medium ]

finger  Influences of spirits on the living

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A useless gesture

 regrettable...and regretted

Testimonials

"I gave up suicide"

"Sadness is now part of my life."

"How I regret my action!"

  Observations on these testimonies

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Negative Astral Influences

Aggravation of an addiction

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So what ? How to live ?

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  In summary


Aggravation of an addiction

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  « Difficulties encountered in the educational, professional, affective, sentimental or family path are all sources of instability which disrupt integration into society and prevent people from finding meaning in life.
 Worry about the future, failures, difficult dialogues encourage you to withdraw into yourself or take refuge in partying, drugs, alcohol, tobacco, video games and other addictions .
 This dependence increases the problems; The pain of living gradually plunges into depression, and the suffering caused causes increasingly lasting anxiety attacks. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

 We know that alcohol, drugs or anything that destroys the brain, leads to death, but we say to ourselves:
"No big deal, I'll be rid of this life!"

But death does not rid us of life nor addiction:

 « Man creates addictions to food, alcohol, tobacco, sex or drugs, and wrongly believes that when death comes he will be free from them. However, having become a spirit, he will experience the suffering of not being able to satisfy his needs. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, medium ]

 « The grip of drug addiction on its earthly victims is ruthless. But the power of narcotics extends even more tyrannically beyond the grave, for desire and addiction are implanted in the soul itself.
 Such spirits frequently obtain partial satisfaction by controlling suggestible physical persons [sensitives] and causing them to become addicted users of such and such a drug (Cf. Testimony of a parasitized drug addict ).
  Entities that had been subject to this slavery in the past sent us many warning messages. »
(Dr. Carl Wickland, 'Thirty Years Among the Dead')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Carl Wickland on the subject of:

The death

 « Substances (drugs) that force a soul to travel a path where it becomes unable to face its history, destroy not only the physical envelope but also the more subtle envelope of the astral body.☆ Excerpt from the page: "The beyond" :

The astral body

 (or spiritual body or etheric body)

  « The spiritual body is the exact replica of the physical body, because it develops in symbiosis, first in the embryo, then in the child, then the adolescent.

 (...) At our death, while the physical body will crumble into dust, our spiritual body will continue its existence. Despite its somewhat ethereal appearance in photographs, the soul is not something totally immaterial. It retains a certain consistency. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet (medium) ]

following...
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 Thus, it often happens that the repair requires one or more incarnations during which the entity will only plug the holes in its subtle bodies. She will experience an obvious feeling of stagnation. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

 ☞  Prolongation and aggravation of addictions after death


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A useless gesture

 regrettable...and regretted

Testimonials

"I gave up suicide"

"Sadness is now part of my life."

"How I regret my action!"

  Observations on these testimonies

    ____

Negative Astral Influences

Aggravation of an addiction

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So what ? How to live ?

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  In summary

So what ? How to live ?

 If committing suicide does not change our suffering,

what to do with a life that drives us to despair?

The first thing is to understand why we are here☆

Excerpt from the page"Why Life" :

«If you don't understand anything about life,
 how can you love this life? »
[Edgar Cayce]

 We can not.

 « Whoever has failed and does not understand finds it difficult to survive. At this point, you have to open your consciousness. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

 « At the beginning, the germ of the soul is already no bigger than a seed. But it is a spark of Divine Essence.

 By its essential nature, it is immortal and indestructible. But just as a seed must be planted in the darkness of decaying soil for it to sprout, so the germinating soul must be planted in matter. »

[ Franchezzo Farnèze & Pierre Jovanovic "The explorer of the beyond" ]

 « A being is never born for nothing, no existence is vain or free. The souls that inhabit our bodies did not come down to have a good time. We each have a role to play, a mission to accomplish, which is not known to us from the outset.

 Every existence is precious, every moment is capital. »

[ "Annaëlle Chimoni's book" ]

If you think your life is bland, tasteless, listen to this.
Your life is extraordinary, believe it. Every moment on this earth can take the being within you one step forward (or backward) .



Understand the purpose of life☆ Excerpt from the chapter: "What's the good of living?" :

  " I look for. I'm looking for an explanation for earthly life. Children are constantly being born, learning, working hard to fully develop their bodies and minds - and after a relatively short time, everything is consumed: they are fed to earthworms. What meaning can that have?

 The Bible says:  
"Seek and you will find; knock and it will be opened to you."

 I obey! I started looking everywhere. In books, ancient manuscripts, with people who seem enlightened.

 (...) And I found! Here and there, my inner hearing recognized the voice of truth in the words of a book or the words of a person. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

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 « The soul came to the body, and the body to life in order to evolve. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

Well, we are on Earth to learn and evolve.

 but why do we need to evolve?

 « The mind must evolve towards more tolerance, acceptance, non-judgment, and therefore love.

 (...) We must evolve in our personal relationships, favor love , honesty, patience and renunciation .

 (...) We have several lives, and we come back to earth to evolve spiritually. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

 « The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
 The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations through more or less difficult life experiences. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

 but... why ??

'Cause it's God's plan

« The Creator created man with the intention of making him His companion, whether in heaven or on earth, or on any plane of consciousness. »
[a reading by Edgar Cayce]

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To be on Earth and to have realized that we are there to evolve is a blessing.



even the incomprehensible☆ Excerpt from the page: "The intolerable :

«There are really areas where we have to rely on faith to continue our journey. »
(Gandhi)

   Numb birds, the prison is open,
   and you dare not fly.
   I frighten you, so that you fly.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « You want to reduce everything to your understanding, that's where the abyss of confusion in which you find yourself plunged comes from. Divine justice is beyond you; do not seek to understand why this one is happy and this other unhappy. There is only a semblance of privilege. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 To a woman who complained that life had tried her hard by giving her a blind and mentally retarded daughter, Edgar Cayce replied:"Don't bemoan your fate. Instead, thank God for giving you the opportunity to face yourself. »
[a reading by Edgar Cayce]



We feel abandoned
  but we are never alone☆ Excerpt from the page: "The difficulties of life" :

Our relationship with Heaven

Help and protection from Heaven

**
 YOU ARE NEVER ALONE.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « Angels are all around us, unseen and eager to help us, but God has given us agency and they will not violate it. It is only by soliciting them that we give them the authorization to help us. »
[Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

 « We are silent, we are not seen, but our main concern is to help you. So come talk with us on your walks. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

 « The problem is that people no longer believe in God. They only believe in themselves, so they do their little will, and of course, it doesn't work, or not for long. So they say that life is bad, and stay in their corner. So there, you know, God does not insist. He knows how to push the door if you leave it open, or even a little ajar, or even closed and He sees light coming through below. But if you close your heart and stay in the dark, well, he won't force the lock. Because it leaves man free to choose. »
(F. Caragnon, "Jade and the Sacred Mysteries of Life")



You have to (re)find the reason for living ☆ Excerpt from the chapter: "Find the way within yourself" :

  « Listen to your inner self. Hush… do you hear that? This sound you hear in your heart is you, the inner you speaking through your innermost feelings. Feelings that you often overlook and push away in ignorance of their source and the information they convey. These feelings come on the wings of angels and light up the path before you. Do not take them lightly and do not trample them with your decisions to go ever higher in your world of dreams. »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

 « Through the ordeals that everyone goes through, a path of peace and wisdom opens up. It is this work within our consciences which conditions our lives then, then, our after-life. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
 « What all religious or esoteric teachings call the way, is for those who are tired of being wrong.

 The path begins with a complete reversal of our way of seeing. When you have known enough rich, admired and unhappy men and women, you know that money and success do not bring happiness and that there must be "something" to understand and find. »
[ Arnaud Desjardins, 'The paths of wisdom' ]

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A useless gesture

 regrettable...and regretted

Testimonials

"I gave up suicide"

"Sadness is now part of my life."

"How I regret my action!"

  Observations on these testimonies

    ____

Negative Astral Influences

Aggravation of an addiction

    ____

So what ? How to live ?

    ____

  In summary

Summary on suicide

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The unfortunates who committed suicide

 . quickly realize the vanity of their gesture. Far from sinking into this nothingness they called, they are fully aware of their new state
 . they realize that they burned the life that was offered to them precisely to overcome these trials. And that they will have to come back
 . they are appalled at having spoiled or destroyed the lives of those they love,
 . they realize that their addictions have followed them! and that they can no longer even satisfy them.

 Their remorse is such that they beg God to give them a chance to make up for it as soon as possible.

 As for us who remain, do not feel guilty, our loved ones hid the extent of their distress and did not risk opening up to us. But above all, once the process has begun, it is difficult, if not impossible, to defuse the spiral.
Let us pray ardently for them ; let's talk to them; we do not hear them, but they hear us. Let us express our love to them, forgive them and above all, encourage them to turn to the Light which they vaguely perceive and which is calling them.

☞  Suicide, don't condemn it