What is life?

A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

[ Full testimonial of the incredible experience

Death, a taboo subject

The death in society
Prefer ignorance

« The death ! Let's not look at it, let's sing, let's dance,
live with our eyes on the rear view mirror: Genesis, big bang, evolution, history, growth. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« Men, having been unable to cure death, misery, ignorance, have taken it into their heads, in order to make themselves happy, not to think about it. » (Pascal, 'Thoughts')
Yaqui Indian sorcerer: « What is wrong with human beings, and has been since time immemorial, is that, without explaining it clearly to themselves, have the impression of being immortal. They behave as if they should never die. Sorcerers have a voice that constantly whispers in their ears that everything is ephemeral. » (Carlos Castaneda, "The Definitive Journey")

« By making death and the act of dying a taboo subject and by keeping children away from the dying and the dead, we are creating unnecessary fear. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« No one seems ready to discuss death. Yet it is the most natural event, the one inevitable moment we will all go through. One of the main reproaches of the dying is their family's refusal to discuss this subject with them.
Some tell of their deep embarrassment when they find that their friends manage to avoid them. A patient told me that he had the impression of being plague-stricken when he walked in the street, because his acquaintances changed the sidewalk or hid in carriage entrances. "Death is not contagious, he complained. But I have the impression that most of my friends think otherwise and avoid even saying that word."

However, each time I have the opportunity to be in contact with terminally ill patients, they ask me the same question: "What is death?" I can only share my beliefs with them. "Death" is only the transition from one world to another. But each in our own way are afraid of the unknown. » [ R. Altea, "A long ladder to the sky" ]
« Our society worships youth and progress, and death is a subject avoided, passed over in silence. Our society talks about it as if it were an unnatural or immoral act. We consider death as a disease to be overcome, but it is not an enemy to be overcome, it is an integral part of life, and even, it gives meaning to existence. Because by setting the limit of the time we have to live, it pushes us to make productive use of it. One must learn to see death as an invisible but friendly companion in life's journey. Whether one dies young or old is less important than living the full years one has had. And by "living", we don't mean frantically accumulating experiences and wealth, but rather living each day as if it were the only one we have left. We mean to find a peace and a strength that makes you assume the disappointments and the sufferings of life by always striving to discover the means of accessing joy: to rejoice in the budding of the leaves in the spring, to marvel at the beauty of the rising and setting sun, comforting oneself with a smile or a caress, being dazzled by seeing a child grow up, sharing the enthusiasm and unabashed confidence of children for life. Live.

To rejoice in the chance to live each new day is to prepare for the final acceptance of death. Because it is those who have not really lived who take death the hardest, those who have neglected the real things in life (loving and being loved, contributing to the happiness and well-being of others).
Let's LIVE! to never have to say, "My God, how I wasted my life!"

I learned these lessons from my dying patients. In their suffering and death they understood that we only have NOW. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

☞ Messages from the dying

« Olivia fumes. It has been three years since she entered this pediatric oncology service and still does not understand this impossibility of talking about death; between colleagues already, and especially with patients.

- We never talk about death! Yet we see it every day. She is there, in front of our faces! » [ Stéphane Allix, about mediums ]

The death in society

« It is difficult to accept death in this society because it is not familiar there. Although occurring all the time, we never see her. When a person dies, we take him very quickly.
We keep children away from death, believing we are protecting them. But we are doing them a disservice by depriving them of this experience. By making death and the act of dying a taboo subject and keeping children away from the dying, we are creating unnecessary fear. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« Death has become a gruesome mess. The sick die hidden in hospitals, with only machines that have taken the place of relatives and friends for company. We have forgotten how to die, because this event is no longer part of everyday life. At the same time we have forgotten how to live. » (Dr. Melvin Morse)

« It is our societies that have made death a taboo, something that we hide, obscuring the fact that life continues afterwards, that we continue to evolve indefinitely

The fulfillment of our being

« The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, then after our death, in the various worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

Very often there is a huge contrast between the well-being of the deceased, which blossoms in the afterlife, and the sometimes inconsolable sadness felt by those who are left behind. The message delivered to me by the deceased is therefore always the same: « I'm doing well ! Tell them to stop crying! »
When too much sadness persists among the living, it becomes a heavy burden for the dead concerned, slowing down their evolution. This demonstrates the limits and the absurdity of our current conception of death. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

Prefer ignorance

« During my NDE I went down into what we call the hell , and it was very surprising. I saw neither Satan nor the devil. My descent into hell was a descent into a world of human misery, of ignorance, a miserable eternity in the night of unknowing.
But each of the millions of souls around me had a little star of light always available. But no one seemed to notice, they were so consumed by their own sorrows, traumas and miseries. »

de Mellen-Thomas Benedict ]

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We reject the very idea
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What is death, really?

Display a false optimism
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Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

« The body and the mental run away from it. The soul hopes so. »

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What is death, really?

The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

« Death can be seen as the curtain that separates the existence of which we are conscious and that which remains hidden from us until the curtain rises. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« It's imperative to understand the difference between the experience of a soul and that of a human being. For the human being, being - and remaining - on Earth is vital; leaving prematurely is a catastrophe. For the soul, being on earth is a trial, and leaving early is a deliverance. » (A Guide) ( Christine André, 'The path of a soul' )

Contributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE ou DEATH
« Everything passes except true love.
We will meet again, we will see each other again,
if not in this life, it will be in the next
or in another form of life.
Wherever we go, love will lead us to each other.
Farewell, my darling son. » [ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]
« I am amazed that so many people still believe that death is the end of all existence. » (J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

Contributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH
« The Light explained to me that death does not exist. We are immortal. We are a part of nature, of this living system that recycles itself endlessly. » [ Full testimonial of the incredible experience

de Mellen-Thomas Benedict ]
« For the medical profession, death is a failure. For a friend or a relative it is a disaster. For the soul, death is a relief, a release.

(...) For the soul the tragedy is to be in the body, so of course it sees life very differently. It is the source of much of the frustration and anxiety one feels in life. » [Inspirational message to Neale Walsch]
« Sovereign death liberates and lifts the soul up to the open doors of Heaven. The body is deserted, but the soul, happy to escape, knows that it will never cease to exist. Death is his friend, the one who holds the key to his prison. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

The fear of the Unknown

« The feelings that we have cultivated during our life, we take them with us when we die and they condition what we are going to experience on the other side. But above all they determine the duration of our passage between our reality here below and the beyond. The more these feelings are weighed down by our fears, the longer our passage will be! » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« It is the amount of fear, regret, hatred or jealousy that an individual carries with him that determines whether upon death he will find himself blocked and unable to access the light, or whether a sufficient amount will reach to penetrate to him and will allow him to receive the help of the guides. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]
« Many are those who fear the unknown and what appears to them as absolute darkness.
You approach us with uncertainty. And yet, here, there is nothing but light, joy, beauty...
There will always be someone to whisper to you: "Look towards the light", and you will be drawn towards it. You will hear enthusiastic chatter. For those who wait for what you consider your death will wait for you to celebrate your birth.
The fear of leaving your loved ones behind will go away...because you will continue to see them. And you'll still have the opportunity to get involved in their lives...watch them grow...and help them. » [Rosemary Altea, "Free as the Spirit"]

We must have another vision of death

- What about people who die by accident? Had they finished their experiment?

- Do you still imagine that people die by accident?

- Are you saying that is not the case?

- Nothing in the universe happens by accident.

- If I could convince myself that this is true, I will never mourn again...

- Mourning for them is the last thing they want you to do.
If you knew where they are, and they are there by their own higher choice, you would celebrate their departure, you would let your heart fill with joy. » [Inspirational message to Neale Walsch]
« The possible death of loved ones seemed to me a terrible punishment. I couldn't imagine being able to live without my husband and my mother. At the end of 2010, in a few months, I lost both. Here is what my guides told me, following these two consecutive deaths: "Remember, you agreed with those who left to live this experience. It was you who chose it, in agreement with them, because it is a beneficial experience for your development." » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Certainly you suffer from seeing the estate sold and dispersed. What will you do with the love of the estate? It is the hour of the moult which is always painful. But the time comes when old things receive their meaning and which was to make you become. » [ Saint-Exupéry ]

« Knowing that our dead are not dead, that they continue to live in the afterlife and that we had agreed with them beforehand that they would leave for the good of our respective evolutions

The fulfillment of our being

A billionaire, who returned from a near-death experience considers the stele of the War Memorial :

« At the moment of their death, these soldiers had left the battlefield, its horrors and its appalling carnage, to find themselves instantly in their spiritual state, visiting their towns and homes where they were trying to make contact with their loved ones.
They saw their wives and children, their mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, and friends very soon after their transition. They saw the postman deliver the telegram. In spirit, some even attended their own funerals. And always, they tried to connect with those they loved, who sometimes felt their presence.
Some people heard inner or outer voices trying to establish communication. Others felt as if they had been touched by someone invisible, when it wasn't a furtive kiss, a hug, a caress, a perfume, or a scent.
Still others have seen them: they appeared to wives in their homes, often at the foot of the marital bed; they appeared to their children in their bedrooms or on the playground. They seemed to be made of a very fine mist, always magnificent, radiant, and above all healed.
Many grieving people who asked for a sign received visits from butterflies, birds, or were immediately approached by a pet. They then instinctively knew that their deceased loved one had sent them a sign.
For their part, the "departed" let them know that crying was a good thing, that they were well, that they would always be by their side, that they loved them, that they would see each other again in heaven," but that "life went on" and that it was "time to say goodbye."
In their grief, many people were consoled by these inspirations, but how many reacted bitterly, with anger or fear, too disturbed to accept these messages. Most thought they were hallucinating or going mad because they couldn't believe such communications were possible; or simply because they didn't believe in life after death.
Before, I didn't believe it either. »

Should we always be distressed about the death?

“The media announce the death of a beggar as a great catastrophe. But is this really a disaster?

- Well... it's terrible to leave like this in the cold and hungry.

« When we have just freed him from this horrible earthly journey? That he was rejected by everyone? Often by his own family... So when the moment arrives where he is finally free from his suffering, this is no longer the time to pity him, but rather to rejoice because his nightmare is finally over. It was before that you had to be attentive.

(...) You can't compare the human point of view with our own, so I doubt you'll be able to explain to your loved ones what I've just told you. » ( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )

Contributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE ou DEATH
Reflection of a Guide to whom a child who is dying is pointed out:

« What do we see from here?" (from the sky)
A little soul that is about to complete its earthly cycle. Isn't it better for her? Here love and tenderness await him; with you, long sorrows, long sufferings. What should be done ? » [ "To those who seek" ]
« Because I have always believed in new life in God after death, I have never felt real sadness when my loved ones died, including my parents. » ( abbot Pierre )

Contributions of abbot Pierre on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« (...) My grandmother died while saying these last words : "Ah! the light! So it was true!" » ( Marie de Hennezel, psychologist, 'The intimate death' )

The unbelievers

« Now is where your faith is needed, when you have to believe the incredible (the contacts, the exchanges them with their missing daughter) . You will meet many unbelievers who will always find an excuse not to believe, even with the evidence in front of them. It is normal, such is the life on earth.
We will never give physical evidence to be believed, but we will consolidate the faith. » ["Karine after life"]
« Materialists do not know that one must first believe in order to see. »

(Dr Olivier Chambon, psychiatrist,
"Extraordinary experiences around death")

Contributions by Olivier Chambon on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« At the unconscious level, the desire and the instinct to stay alive are unsurpassable. Many of us operate from the ego and refuse to even consider that life has an end. » (J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

Contributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

The following poem, by William Blatter, is taken from the site ofthe Cyclamen Association :
I'm standing at the edge of the beach,
A sailboat passes in the morning breeze and goes towards the ocean.
He is beauty, he is life.
I watch it until it disappears over the horizon.
Someone says next to me: " He's gone "
Gone to where?
Gone from my gaze, that's all.
Its mast is still as high,
Its hull still has the strength to carry its human load.
His total disappearance from my sight is in me, not in him.
And just when someone near me says,
" He's gone ",
there are others who,
seeing him appear on the horizon
and coming towards them, exclaim with joy:
Here him is !"

That's what death is.

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Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
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How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
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The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
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What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

One of their reasons for suffering

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

Unsettling messages...

« The messages will meet, so you too, all possible opposition reactions: contemptuous silence, ironic silence, hateful attacks, etc. You will let it happen, you will let it be said... We will continue on our way. » [ Heavenly message from Arnaud Gourvennec ]
« It doesn't suit everyone
that we know that life goes on. » ["Karine after life"]
« An unexpected event in life (the loss of a loved one, illness, etc.) suddenly makes the model in which existence had simply flowed until then unsatisfactory. Asking questions means taking the risk of having answers. Answers that can lead us to question our way of living.
So most people refrain from doing it. Or only when they are forced to do so. The vast majority go through life constantly postponing the examination of the great existential enigmas until later. » [ Stéphane Allix, journalist ]
« No one dies, everyone falls asleep.
But for what awakening? » [ Arnaud Gourvennec ]
« We often get the start we deserve, say it well, say it often to the members of your group. » [ Message collected by Maguy Lebrun ]
« Death is only a change of life. Dying doesn't make you lose consciousness, that's why some people suffer so much here. What cannot be paid for on Earth will have to be paid for here. » ["Karine after life"]

Dorothée Koechlin

Dorothée Koechlin de Bizemont, a medical journalist, became the French specialist on the American mystic Edgar Cayce after working for several years at the Edgar Cayce Foundation in the United States. , in her book "The Universe of Edgar Cayce", summarizes Cayce's readings on karma:

Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

karma

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Karma is a Sanskrit word for fate. It is sometimes evoked during dramas that seem incomprehensible and unfair, but it can manifest itself in pleasant events. We can say that it tends to restore a balance.
There is no bad karma. Everything that happens to us is fundamentally good, because karma has only one goal: to awaken, to raise our consciousness.

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« The good guy who has « only misfortunes” may have been a monster ten thousand years ago: today he faces the consequences of his karmic past.

This means that we are first and foremost the children of our works. Obviously, it's a philosophy that forces you to stand on your own two feet. Not everyone likes it! »

« You realize that these messages (which he addresses to his parents) bother a lot of people! Indeed, the more selfish one is, the less one wants to suffer and the less one accepts the meaning of these messages. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

« It is great justice to warn man:
"You will reap what you have sown." » [ "To those who seek" ]
« People prefer to think that after physical death there is nothingness, because the fact of believing in our existence implies a change of attitude in life, in ideas, and that annoys a lot of people. » ["Karine after life"]

Death, we prefer not to think about it

« I was allergic to other people's deaths because it reminded me of my own. » (Testimony of a former humorist collected by Maddly Bamy,
"To love without expecting in return")

Contributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH
« Many – too many! – are the beings who die unprepared. It is true that many of us prefer not to think about the big passage. Many refuse to live their lives with their eyes open; and these, as they were unconscious of their life, will be unconscious of their death. » [ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]
« After undergoing the change of death, a great majority of people are in complete ignorance of their condition, and remain bound for some time to the earth plane by their erroneous beliefs. » (Dr. Carl Wickland, 'Thirty Years Among the Dead')

Contributions by Carl Wickland on the subject of:

The death

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During a contact with a medium, a deceased takes exception:

"How is it that such important things are not taught in the Church? They are criminals not to talk about it. That would have saved me a lot of anxiety on this side in the early days."

« What a pity that religions do not want to speak more openly about our existence, it would help so much. » ["Karine after life"]

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A phase not to be neglected
The passage
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The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
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How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
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The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
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What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

To die is not to sink into the unknown,
it is to return to where we were so well.

The fear of death

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The death. Here the soul errs – when it is afraid.

[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]
« Most people are afraid of death; of being alone, of having to face the unknown. Dying in a hospital too often involves the loss of all sense of personal identity. No matter the circumstances, dying is always hard; but the fear can be greatly diminished in the familiar surroundings of home, surrounded by those you love and who love you. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« The fear of death exerts a profound influence on us. She explains midlife crises, age disparities in love affairs, aesthetic operations, the obsession with the line, youth, wealth….
We are so obsessed with the fear of death that we forget (the importance of) life.

(...) But if individuals knew that life is eternal, that there is truly neither birth nor death, then this fear would disappear. If they knew that benevolent spirits will help them leave the physical world and welcome them where they will find those they loved, what inner peace they would have... If they knew that guardian angels really exist, if they knew that any act of violence or injustice will inevitably be punished...
I was wondering how to convey these truths. Our fellow human beings go to pray in temples to affirm the immortality of the soul, but once the devotions are over, they fall back into the rut of rivalry, intrigue, greed, self-centredness... » [ Brian L. Weiss, psychiatrist ]
« I was in a big hall. I remembered having been there before in my sleep. Many people were gathered there... They were waiting for their loved ones who were returning forever or others who were just passing through, visiting for a few hours. You know, the famous border I told you about [ "There is a border where the dead and the living meet, but you have to be deeply asleep." ] Looks like a big station hall. At first I thought I was going to leave as usual, but no, my guide told me: "It's over, you're back home!" I was a bit flabbergasted! Everything seemed so simple!

(...) I was looking everywhere if I saw one of you, but no... I couldn't help but think of your grief... » [message collected by Sylvie Lorain-Berger (medium) from her deceased brother]
« Very young children often talk about death as if it were a temporary state. » [Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, "Living with Death and the Dying"]
« In reality, you don't 'die', you just leave this physical shell, like an empty eggshell. » [Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']
« We don't die. When the body comes undone, the essential shows itself. We imagined we feared death: we feared the unexpected, the explosion, we feared ourselves. The death ? No. There is no more death when you meet her. My brother said to me: "Don't forget to write it all down..." » [ Saint-Exupéry ]
« There is never loneliness for those who die.

I have seen the selfish or the miser, the very one who cried out so loudly against all spoliation, having reached his last hour, dividing his goods with disdainful equity. I have seen the pusillanimous wounded man, the same one who would have screamed for help at the first danger, once truly broken, reject any help from others if it could cause his companions to run some danger.

He whom death has chosen, busy vomiting his blood or holding his entrails, discovers the truth alone. Then begins the agony which is no more than the swaying of a consciousness alternately emptied then filled by the tides of memory. They come and go like the ebb and flow, bringing back, as they had carried them away, all the stores of images, all the shells of memory, all the shells of all the voices heard.

Certainly, I have seen men fleeing death, gripped in advance by confrontation. But that one who dies, think again, I have never seen him be terrified.

Why should I pity them? Why mourn their completion? » [ Saint-Exupéry ]
Dr. Charbonier confirms this:

« I report here, from memory, some last words of the dying. They testify to the calm acceptance before the great departure. Including this wealthy businessman who the same morning still resented visitors and caregivers:

« This ocean of flowers advancing towards us, do you see it too? Hey, do you see it? »
« Earlier, I saw my mother at the foot of my bed, whereas I buried her more than ten years ago! I believe she came to get me. I miss seeing her again. »
« I am leaving. Oh ! how beautiful ! That's wonderful !... »
« My God, they are all there, all my ancestors are there. THANKS. »
« This white light, how beautiful! I have never seen such a beautiful and white light. »

Nurses accompanying the dying also testify:

« I have noticed that very often, at the time of death, some people say they see deceased relatives or friends at the foot of their bed. It is quite common, but few people talk about it.
A grandmother thus asked us one day to look at the "luminous angel" who was supposedly behind us. She insisted so much that, not to upset her, we turned around, but of course there was nothing. »

« In the West we live in a spiritually underdeveloped society, in which we are taught from an early age that death means nothingness. In other words, that life is closely linked to matter. But experience has shown me that at the time of death we are quite ready to accept another reality. A reality that integrates the notion of survival. Many caregivers working in intensive care or palliative care, show that a few minutes before the deadline, the most incredulous becomes a believer, the most atheist invokes God. » [Dr. JJ Charbonier, "Indisputable evidence of life after death"]
« The man suffers from the physical disappearance of a loved one; clinging to the immediate, it is difficult for him to understand that life is eternal and one, and that it continues after death as much as before.

If everything that could be removed from an incarnation has been, then the karmic conditions

Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

karma

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« It is great justice to warn man: you will reap what you have sown. No one inflicts punishment on you, no one condemns you, but you sew your own shroud according to the meaning you give to your life. For the responsible man there will be no "day of (self-) judgment", because it is from day to day that he judges himself. » [ "To those who seek" ]
following... of "departure" come into action and the soul-personality withdraws from a vehicle that has become useless. Death is the most grandiose circumstance for man freed from the superstitions that surround this magnificent "transference." There is no worse foolishness than the fear of death. » [ R. Bernard, Grand Master of the Rose Croix ]
« During my lectures, I was surprised to meet people who, although having a very traditional religious point of view, seemed the most afraid of death. » (Dr. Michael Newton, "Days Beyond")

« The fear of death is the crux of all neuroses, but if people knew that life is eternal, that there really is no birth or death, then this fear would disappear.
If they knew that benevolent spirits would help them leave the physical world and welcome them, after their death, in a spiritual world where they would find those they loved, what inner peace would be theirs... If they knew that angels really exist, they would be less afraid (of life and death).

But how do we convey these truths? Our fellow men go to pray in temples, but once the devotions are over, they fall back into the rut of rivalry and indulge in intrigue, surrender to greed and self-centeredness, all of which retard the spiritual progress. » [ Brian L. Weiss, psychiatrist ]
« As I was preparing to visit Mississippi, I was pressured to cancel my trip because a band of guerrillas were plotting to take my life during my tour.
But if I had constantly worried about death, I could not have acted. » ( Martin Luther King )

Contributions of Martin Luther King on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
- Going to Pakistan is madness, said a friend of Gandhi. You can be sure to get murdered!

« No one can shorten my life by a single minute, he replied. She belongs to God. » (D.Lapierre and L.Collins, 'This night freedom')

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Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
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Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

The departure, the agony

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Display a false optimism

« There are still many people who imagine that a dying person 'feels better' if they are put in the ' everything is fine... ' mood: visit them with a good smile and encouraging words, and neglecting what is most painful to them, their emotional and spiritual torments. » [Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, "Living with Death and the Dying"]
« At the moment of agony, we must not be afraid to speak to us of the future dwelling place, that of God. These are the only words that can help us. For fear of frightening us, you try to hide the truth from us.
It's a great privilege to die in the company of God's friends. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
« It's true, a nurse continues, families always imagine that the patient will not bear the truth. They do not realize that he already knows it and that he carries it all alone. » » ( Marie de Hennezel, psychologist, 'The intimate death' )
A patient testimonial:

« (...) The days passed and a malaise came to be added to the heavy worry of my cancer. Why didn't my family react more? They were a little concerned, of course, but they seemed so cheerful and ready to talk about things that seemed so trivial to me...

It wasn't until much later that I managed to break "the conspiracy of silence" and have me recount the scenes of tears between my parents and my wife, their concern, their love. » [Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, "Living with Death and the Dying"]
« It is important to establish a positive spiritual climate at the time of death. This can be achieved by explaining to the person that we all have a spirit; that our identity does not die; may loved ones welcome us into the other world and may guides accompany us.
If a direct conversation of this kind is not possible, silent prayer or positive visualization will help create contact with the guides. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]
Explanation to the children of a dying mother:

« We talked for a while, saying that death was not the end, that the body that was buried or burned was the shell, just as the cocoon was the 'butterfly's home', but the butterfly was much happier and more free. Butterflies fly away and you do not see them, but only then do they begin to rejoice in the flowers and the sun. The two children opened their eyes wide, delighted to imagine this possibility. » [Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, "Living with Death and the Dying"]
« It is essential that the dying person and his entourage both accept the reality of death. To accept this reality is to give the right to the person who dies to leave his carnal envelope in peace, serenely. » [ Dalai Lama ]

A phase not to be neglected

« Her request for affection was as urgent as it was intense. For her, it was about being able to deposit in available ears the immense love that overwhelmed her. This need went so far as to forgive those close to her for not being able, for not knowing how to respond to it.
Such a surge is limited in time. A very particular time: the last moments of life, a few hours or a few days. At this stage, any emotional withdrawal is fatal. » ( Marie de Hennezel, psychologist, 'The intimate death' )

The passage

« The disappearance of light plunges man into sleep, which is an artificial death.

This agony of day in the shadows is a replica of what we experience at the time of death.
The earth becomes darkness; we no longer distinguish what is created, we then cross a dark region comparable to night. We are carried into space like clouds in a dark evening, then the celestial dawn finally rises for us; but we are still far from God, as far as the sun is far from the earth. We experience divine warmth, but we are only in the realm of angels. Blessed are those who by their virtues have been able to escape the painful realm, for the ascent of the supernatural life begins for them.

In this journey, we have for support us only our double

Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

Our inner being

« In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

Also, at the moment of their last breath, they are calm because they have perceived what is happening and the transition is perfect. They see a beautiful light that shines without dazzling, and feel no fear because they are with familiars. But sometimes they hesitate when they see the pain of those left behind. That's why we mustn't overburden ourselves, especially when we know the harm it does us. On the contrary, we must wish ourselves a good path towards the light. » ["Karine after life"]
A medium witnesses the departure of his father:

« Life does not stop. Death does not exist. We are in a moment of dissolution. My father's life is changing. It metamorphoses by detaching itself cell by cell from matter, and is in the process of becoming light again.
My father is being born somewhere else. » [ Stéphane Allix, about mediums ]
« The extinction of organic life brings about the separation of the soul and the body by the progressive release of the perisprital fluid from all the organs (the perisprit, is the fluidic envelope of the soul. Penetrating the body in all its parts, it serves as a vehicle for physical sensations). The separation is complete and absolute only when not a single atom of the perisprit remains united to a molecule of the body.
From this it follows that the suffering which accompanies death is subordinated to the force of adhesion which unites body and perisprit. The greater the affinity, the longer and more painful are the efforts of the Spirit to free itself; but there are people in whom the cohesion is so weak that the disengagement takes place by itself, that the Spirit separates from the body like ripe fruit.
In the material and sensual man, the one who has lived more by the body than by the spirit, for whom the spiritual life does not exist, everything has contributed to tighten the bonds which attach him to matter. Nothing came to release them during life. At his death, his Spirit, instead of surrendering, will resist with all its might.
In the man whose thoughts have become detached from earthly things, the disengagement is almost complete before actual death. The body is still alive, the soul has already entered into the spiritual life and is only held together by a bond which will be broken without difficulty at the last beat of the heart.

In violent death, the disengagement of the perispirit, which can never take place instantaneously, therefore only begins after death. The Spirit, suddenly seized, believes itself still alive, and takes its fluidic body for its material body. In those whose soul is purified, this state is of short duration; in others it may last for years. This is very common, even in cases of ordinary death. » [Allan Kardec]
« The somnambulist who thinks, who sees, who is aware of his moral freedom, does not believe he is sleeping. It is the same with the man who has just died and for whom death is the annihilation of being; now, like the somnambulist, he sees, he feels, he speaks; therefore for him he is not dead, until he has acquired the intuition of his new state. This illusion always leaves the Spirit in a certain anxiety. » [Allan Kardec]
- Do some dead people not want to leave?

« Yes, and there are many of them. In our society where spirituality has disappeared, a majority of people die without knowing what is next; it seems like they are a bit lost once on the other side…. » [ Stéphane Allix, about mediums ]

The violent death

« Even in the event of a violent death, we smell death advancing like a perfume that is initially distant and grows stronger as we approach it. » [ "Annaëlle Chimoni's book" ] « Death by accident or assassination are different because we find ourselves projected into the other world, without understanding what is happening to us, or why those we love are screaming and crying. They are chosen souls who come to welcome. » ["Karine after life"]
« My Guide tried to give me explanations, but I was revolted, or rather I didn't want to understand that I wouldn't be able to see you again.
I saw our house. I didn't want to hear that I would never come back there again. Never again? Why me? Why us? I was holding on to my life! I didn't want it to stop. My Guide told me that it continued, but differently. Differently? Where? Without you? All alone?

- Were you afraid?

“Of course. I saw my father and the dead I had known. But above all your mother, her tears, you my daughter and your words, your sister and her thoughts. All in misery and me who could do nothing!! » ( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )

Contributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE ou DEATH
Alain Guillo's (deceased) mother answers his questions:

« I didn't understand what was happening to me. Brutally separated from the earth's envelope, I only retained an impression of violent light accompanied by a bubbling of absurd, incoherent thoughts. I was afraid, yet I was not terrified, I could see and think.
When I understood that I was dead, the most intense suffering, the tearing, was you, as you can well imagine. I left you very small and, I thought, alone, homeless, given over to the convulsions of war.
I was in heaven, as they say, and very annoyed to be there. I had the feeling of betraying and being betrayed. There's no need to draw a picture for you about how I felt about this f... Destiny or this s... Providence. You too have insulted God. Multiply that by a thousand, that was my state of mind then. Nothing can express the revolt of a mother from whom her child is taken away. » [ "To those who seek" ]

Moorings

« If at the time of death an individual is bathed in fear, regret, guilt or disappointment, he risks finding himself anchored in planes with lower vibrations, which will restrict him, confine him. And it is difficult for the guides to help such spirits, because they cannot go against free will, nor penetrate into the density that negative attitudes cause. Therefore, spirits chained to Earth or confined to lower planes must release their attachment to the past and focus on positive thoughts and feelings, before guides and helpers can reach them.
When one achieves letting go, an expansion of consciousness and an energetic lightening occurs in the non-physical body, which suddenly finds itself free to rise towards the higher spheres. It is then possible to come into contact with the beings of light. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]
« He who has knowledge and who knows how wandering hinders evolution

The fulfillment of our being

So do not be afraid of your departure and do not be attracted by the illusion of your possessions. And above all, do not persist in wanting to stay close to yours in the illusion of matter. Because when you have joined the waves of Light, you will vibrate with another freedom, and you will be very close to your loved ones. Your energies will allow you to help them much more effectively. » (R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible') magnifying glassAuthor

Contributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH
« Your flight will reach the height that you will have made for it during your life. Each of your days must be a new feather pricked in your wings. The bigger your wings, the higher they will carry you. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
« Our death will be like our life. » [ "Annaëlle Chimoni's book" ]
« Flight at the time of death will be supported by the ethereal cushion of truly charitable actions, that is, actions motivated without any expectation of ego gratification. » [a reading by Edgar Cayce]

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We reject the very idea
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A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

The last exchanges

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

The last exchanges

The need to be alone

What's left unsaid

« Often, out of fear of death, we avoid saying goodbye. However, the one who is sick knows that he is going to leave. He also hides it so as not to sadden his family. Everyone has a presentiment of this departure and no one says anything. So many regrets afterwards!
If death were no longer a taboo subject, families could separate with more serenity. How many traumas have arisen from the loss of loved ones? How many unsaid sometimes cross the generations? » [ Alain Joseph Bellet (medium) ]
« (...) Patrick tells me he feels guilty about having to die. He feels, with all his being, his mother's grief. This grief, close to him, that she hides, but that he feels at times becoming unbearable.
I have often heard this form of suffering in those who are about to die and who perceive the pain of others. And I know from experience that this suffering is alleviated if one can talk about one's death with one's loved ones, if one can also cry together. » ( Marie de Hennezel, psychologist, 'The intimate death' )
« Never put off an important conversation, never delay the expression of your love. Ask yourself the question:
"If I were to die today, what regrets would I have?" . » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]
« Narcissa often thought of death. She knew her time was approaching, but she was afraid of it. His family obviously loved him very much, but I never heard anyone bring up this painful subject.

Apparently it was up to me to talk about it. So I asked Narcissa what vision she had of it. Seeing his fears, I explained to him that death was a beautiful phase of life. I told her that she had no reason to be afraid, that she would not be alone, that guides and masters would help her to rise, and that she would feel wonderfully loved.

I felt a certain apprehension in my approach, because I knew that she wanted me to assure her that she was going to recover. However, my Guide encouraged me on the contrary to tell her that it was time for her to know the truth, by insisting on the fact that the little time she had left should be devoted to her young daughter, in order to develop a bond positive with her, to leave her with beautiful memories and to lighten the regrets.
Later, I learned from other people that she had felt that I was taking away all her hope. One day, while I was in a hospital bed, distressed and in pain, Narcissa appeared to me in etheric form to thank me, because I was the only one who had told her the truth.

My Guides told me that I possessed clarity and visual intuition, but lacked an emotional understanding of suffering. My own struggle taught me empathy and compassion, which made me appreciate the complex effort that the ability to let go of physical existence requires. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]
« To enter into a relationship with a dying person is of course to hold his hand, to take him in his arms, but it is also all the occasions of bodily contact represented by care, dressing, washing... So many possibilities to convey a message, to make it feel like a person-to-person meeting.

Faced with someone who is dying, the spiritual dimension goes through the way you are physically in the room, how you sit down, how you are there. In a palliative care unit, you can't do much except treat the symptoms, the pain. All you have to do is offer your presence.

To this we must add that at the end of life the sensory perception changes. When the whole universe is reduced to a room, tiny details become important; a smile, another way of being touched... » (Marie de Hennezel, interviewed by Patrice Van Eersel)
At the bedside of a dying person:

« You can talk to him without hesitation; what you will have to say will be inspired to you. Every redemptive mission

who redeems the faults is certain of God's assistance. » [Heavenly message from Pierre Monnier to his mother]

The need to be alone

« Some dying people may be embarrassed to leave in the presence of loved ones. They prefer to die alone because the end of life is quite striking at the bodily level: the cheeks are sunken, the breathing is jerky, the eyes are veiled... » [ Stéphane Allix, about mediums ]
« Sometimes a dying person refrains from 'leaving' because one of his parents is too upset. So he stays alive, and it's terrible because he can't die in peace.
You really have to tell a dying person that he can leave when it is time for him, that we are ready to let him go and that we will be able to cope with the pain. Its very important. »

"Extraordinary experiences around death")

Contributions by Olivier Chambon on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« Idan was struggling both for and against his mother who wouldn't let him go. She remained at his bedside, only agreeing to leave him for a few hours, when my father relieved her.
On October 28, unable to stand it any longer, he had taken advantage of a few moments when my mother was away from her room. Alone at last, he had been able to fly away like a beautiful bird whose cage door has just been opened. » [ "Annaëlle Chimoni's book" ]
« I died one night, while Mom, exhausted, had fallen asleep at the foot of my cradle in an old rocking chair. I wanted to be alone for this departure and I knew that the anxious presence of my parents would have made the task much more difficult. » (A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')

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We reject the very idea
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A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
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The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

The help of the living

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

« Those who are dead need the prayer
of those who are alive. »
[a reading by Edgar Cayce]

The help of the living

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

« Help is possible in both directions: the deceased love and help the living, as for the latter, on earth, they can be brought to help those who, suffering in the other dimension, seek the exit towards the Light. » (Jeannine Van Camp, 'You will tell them')

Our thoughts help them

« First of all, souls don't understand. "I'm lost" they say to themselves, "What am I doing here?" The feeling of cold and loneliness..., then slowly, the realization that there is something else, somewhere else.
So, they must know, or be told, that they go towards the Light and the songs. They still glimpse the Earth moving away but the Divine is still far away. Yet now these souls know... Everything is at their fingertips. But how to do it ?
Without the prayer of human beings on earth, they will rise very slowly or not at all. It's long... long. The time depends on their work on themselves. » (A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")

Contributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« After death, the deceased often do not understand that they must leave the Earth to go towards the light. They feel more reassured by staying close to the places and living things they know. They can thus, if no one comes to rescue them, be trapped, stuck for a long time in a place they haunt, sometimes showing up to attract our attention, asking for help to finally reach eternal rest. When they are evil spirits, they can do harm. » (David Louis, medium, "Beyond the Clouds")
« Pray therefore for these souls, so that they understand the Love of God and agree to seize the warmth of one of his rays and, there, they will be saved.

If you only knew how abandoned these souls are. Yet God is there, on the edge of the abyss, ready to seize them, but they retract, flee, are afraid, do not understand. Pray. Prayer is a lever that pushes souls to grasp the hand of God.

They will only make the link between earthly life and their gray passage when they have reached the Light, however small it may be.
It will then be a very hard time again, because there, they understand and would do everything to start again very quickly and not make any more mistakes. But, at this time, they have a lot to work on here to hope to come down a little more armed.
Remember all of this. Say it. Tell others. »

« In the plane, I let my thoughts wander watching all these people sitting next to me. Do they know? All those who run only after material success, do they realize that during the great passage, they will not understand? They won't understand anything. Their soul will be lost in this place of "gray solitude".
How many knows that? As the philosopher says, "People are concerned with their future, rarely with their eternity." » (A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")

Contributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

Difficulties that we do not suspect

« Some remain prostrate in uncertainty. Those need help and love to find within themselves the balance that will allow them to open up to the other dimension. » [ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]
« Most of the deceased individuals turn in the history that they lived and remain to turn thus very a long time, of the terrestrial time. If we listen to the aids which do not stop spreading within us, it is the awakening of death. But it's a difficult decision to make when we don't have someone on earth to help us listen to this help that we are constantly receiving within ourselves. » (Testimony collected by Maddly Bamy, "To love without expecting in return")

Contributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH
« There exist in the astral souls projected quickly, without preparation, lost, wandering, but whose too low vibrations cannot allow them contact with their guide. This is where prayer comes in, that act of brotherhood that all believers should do for those who are leaving. » [ Maguy Lebrun ]
« (...) All these spirits do not dare to leave towards the light. They need help: explaining to them what to do, encouraging them to follow a guide. Curiously, they are more inclined to listen to the advice of the living than that of the more evolved spirits they can perceive. No doubt they are afraid of the universe they discover because they never imagined that life could continue beyond the death of the body. In this unknown but close to Earth world, they listen more easily to those who are still there. » (David Louis, medium, "Beyond the Clouds")

The importance of even a small amount of help

« In the West, the world of the invisible is not recognized as a reality. Cut off from this spiritual reality, a majority of people die imagining that there is nothing beyond and land in the afterlife without knowing what to do and without receiving help from the living who were close to them. » [ Stéphane Allix, about mediums ]
« Thought can have a direct effect on the dead. Our ideas can influence the course of their becoming post mortem. So when we mentally evoke a missing person, and as long as we are concentrated, we can be of great help to him. » [ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]
« When someone dies, it is important that their loved ones participate in the process; this will help them in their mourning but also to cope more easily with their own death. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« Our prayers can benefit mortals (outgoing) . If there is cause for concern for the soul of the one who has left us, if we think that his transition will be difficult or reluctant, we must pray for him.

Thus, those who have only offered their greed to the planet or have only been interested in material things, painfully pass into the other plane. Devoid of faith, unable to distinguish the light that leads to God, these souls do not take off from the Earth. » [Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]
Claudette Michel, an emulator of the medium David Louis:

« (...) We went to see her at the morgue, and there, I put my hands on hers. I spoke to her, explaining to her that she was dead and that she should not be afraid to leave her body and the Earth to go towards the light.
I suddenly had the impression of a great relief, and when later I was able to contact the spirits she came to say thank you to me at least ten times.

If each of us made these simple gestures with the deceased, they would probably be less likely to remain "blocked". It is a gesture of love. » (David Louis and Claudette Michel, "Beyond the Clouds")
« Taoist monks do not go in search of the dead by traveling in the astral. They seek to understand what hinders the evolution of the deceased by communicating with them through the intermediary of the young children of the family who consult them. They therefore use the natural mediumship of the youngest to come into contact with the "sick dead", and thus help him to come out of the earthly illusions in which he has locked himself up. Convince him to agree to meet the angels who have come to meet him at the borders of the "great light" (barrier impassable by a human during his lifetime).
We could say that this man was locked up "in hell". In most esoteric traditions, hell is represented as the faculty or obligation to satisfy the needs of a molecular body that no longer exists. » (Didier Dumas interviewed by P. Van Eersel)
☞ A deceased in distress

☞ Helping spirits find the light

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We reject the very idea
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A question of point of view
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Another vision of death
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Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
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The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

It was God's will (!)

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

It was God's will (!)

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« One night, after long useless efforts to save a patient, a nurse hears the priest say to the relatives: "It was God's will." The nurse, indignant, left the room abruptly.
Most people would react with deep resentment of God. And that is understandable! » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« God gives life. He takes it back… »

Implied "when He wants", "For reasons beyond us (and that we do not have to know)"

Such an assertion, at such a time, is doubly regrettable:

▪ because it inevitably turns pain into anger. Directed at whom? Towards God. And it is his minister – supeposed to represent him – who dissociates himself by designating him as an unpredictable monarch!
▪ because in this circumstance, people have a real need for the support of faith, and to be enlightened on the meaning of life and death. In this moment of silence and recollection, some might be prepared to hear profound truths.
Like these words of great wisdom:

« Death is not an end for those who leave, nor a punishment for those who remain. It is an opportunity for both to live new experiences necessary for everyone's development

The fulfillment of our being

We need to come to terms with the death of our loved ones and the personal transformation it entails.

The message of those who leave us is:

« You have to do without me. It won't be like before, but it's a new path. You will discover things that you would not have been able to experience without that." »

[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

When we don't understand what's happening to us, we say to ourselves: “That's life...” or “God wanted it” or “Why is He doing this to me?”
But life, nature or God do not intervene in human affairs. Nor when a tree falls or a forest burns.

It is up to us to grow in the face of what we face.

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We reject the very idea
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A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
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Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

The suicide, don't condemn it

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

_ _

A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

_ _

A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

_ _

A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

Suicide,
don't condemn it

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

A suffering

Faced with the suicide of a loved one, the bite of suffering is excruciating. We don't even have the consolation of telling ourselves that he was happy, that he benefited... On the contrary, we think of life, of the projects we were considering for him, with him.
Everything was so brutal, so unexpected. Who to give all this love to now? It suffocates us.

Yet if we had been warned, what could we have done?? Most often: nothing. We couldn't have done anything.

« Don't think that if he or she had loved you more, he or she wouldn't have ended their life. This is not true. These deceased did not reason soundly at the time of their act. Moreover, they suffer to observe afterwards the ravages they have left behind them. They often tell me during our sessions that they want you to have no doubts about their affection, that you know that at the moment of their departure they were suffering from disorders that overwhelmed them. At the time of their fatal gesture, they are only conscious of one thing: existence is unbearable for them, they are in pain, they want to silence this deep pain. Some come to experience such anguish that they have to give everything just to survive each day.

Relatives often torture themselves to figure out how they could have avoided the tragedy. Most people with depression conceal their suffering perfectly from those around them until it is too late. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

...from either side

But now we can help him. Our thoughts reach him directly, especially in this time of great disorientation for him. Forgive him. And let us send him thoughts of love. Do not doubt it, he will receive them, and it will bring him immense relief. In return, we will receive thoughts of peace.

« The spirit has free will and it can choose to incarnate when it is not ready. When this happens, the person will generally be inhabited throughout their life by the feeling of not being in their place. The soul does not have the maturity to go through what awaits it, so it looks for a way out (See chapter below "The Early Deaths" ). » (J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

Contributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

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In the event of an early death, who would blame the "baby " for anything ? According to all sources, however, it was he who, frightened by the difficulties of which he have clearly the intuition, preferred to give up.
So why reproach his gesture to a being who commits suicide? He had the courage to begin his life, and he would certainly have faced the problems...if he had found meaning in them.

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« (...) And judgment and condemnation are out of order because God, this force which is God, which is truly pure and understanding, will simply recognize and accept the decision of this soul to return to its source. » [Rosemary Altea, "Free as the Spirit"]
« I found a certain similarity between those who ended their lives. The imbalance first appeared during their youth, in the form of a slight depression. As the years passed, they found it increasingly difficult to bear their condition and hide it from those around them. It is not uncommon for them to resort to alcohol or drugs. Others increase the doses of drugs supposed to support them, unaware that the excess of such substances increases the suffering that torments them already. Some were not heard by the third parties to whom they confided their torments. No doubt because they did not perceive the deep malaise.

The great depressive has the impression of being already dead. His suicide only materializes what he feels. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« As a psychic, I have come into communication many times with the spirits of people who have committed suicide: there is no curse or particularly dreadful fate for the spirit to face. What can happen to him is that he doesn't pass immediately into the afterlife and to wander among us for a certain time. What determines the wandering of the spirit of the suicide is mainly due to the feeling of guilt that his act inspires in him. Especially if his relatives do not forgive him.

A girl had asked me: « My mother is dead, she committed suicide. Can you tell me if she's in the light? Quickly I felt that was not the case, but I explained to him that this did not mean that his mother was cursed, but that she was on a slightly more difficult path, held back by some heavy feeling. Then the spirit of the mother manifested itself to me: I don't regret my gesture but I can't move on because my daughter doesn't forgive me. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

Messages from suicide victims

Message from a young suicide:

« Conscious suicide is an act that causes suffering and puts us in a state of excruciating remorse.
When you cry, we see you, and it disturbs us. And do not feel guilty for our act, because this feeling puts us at fault. Forgive us for your suffering. In the beyond, our sensitivity is great. Don't judge us. God grant us his mercy, so you, be indulgent. Grant us your prayers so that our pain lessens and that your discernment allows us to rise. » (R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible') magnifying glassAuthor

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« (...) Know it, our thoughts are the only means of communicating with these unfortunate people. Send them thoughts of love, peace and forgiveness. » (J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

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A joint message from suicide victims ( addressed to a medium ):

« I ask you to please pass on this message which contains elements of great importance for us who have interrupted the course of our lives.

Many of the « living” are wondering how to help us. Tell them that:

Regardless of the ways in which we have stopped our physical life, it is essential that those who remain do not feel guilty for our death.

To think that these are events or people who contributed to our downfall makes no sense, even if we once believed it ourselves.

We ask those who have love for us not to suffer for us because this suffering weighs us down and darkens everything around us. All your thoughts come to us with great force because we are still very close to the matter of the Earth.

Pray, meditate for us, it helps us because the light waves that you send us in this way gradually dissolve the dark veils that cover us. However, do not make your prayers a duty, because the light that would reach us would be tainted and diminished.

Do not judge us solely based on the act we have committed but find the best moments we spent together. Remember the moments of joy or tenderness that we were able to experience together. See the beauty that was ours, the one we could no longer perceive ourselves...

Speak to us as we speak to a person we love, not to regret our departure or your present difficulty, but to honor the path we have traveled in your company.

Do not keep our traces like relics, do not recreate sanctuaries that freeze us in a painful past.
(sadness keeps them in a low vibration)

Help us to make our journey less painful through the acceptance and serenity of your hearts. »

(end of the book by A. Givaudan: "La rupture de contrat" )

☞ See chapter below "The Early Deaths"

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The death penalty

« As in the case of suicide, the magnetic fluid of the soul must remain within the earth's atmosphere until the hour of the person's natural death has come. When a spirit is expelled from the body by the death penalty, the personality of the criminal remains as it was before the execution. Arriving in the beyond, the soul is usually a prey to anger and fear, since, most likely, it ignores spiritual laws and has not reached a high degree of evolution. In the majority of cases, this soul will wander endlessly in the lower astral dimension with souls like it. As these tormented souls have a propensity for anger and hatred, they often seek revenge for their untimely death and roam the earth in search of manipulable humans who, under their influence, will kill or injure others.

If we kill a person before the soul has had its time on earth, we deprive him of any chance of amending and rehabilitating himself. It only takes a moment to see the light of God and be transformed. » (J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

Contributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

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« Sometimes the spirits of criminals and murderers, or of people who have been executed and animated by a desire for revenge, remain for a long time in the earthly sphere

Excerpt from the page: "Low-astral" :

wandering spirits

« Some spirits remain attached to matter. Their low vibrations keep them close to the reality of the living. They didn't « cross over”. Some are evil spirits, others are wandering spirits, and still others are ghosts.

Wandering spirits are in transition between our material world and the afterlife. They generally continue to live among us for a short time, but this situation can last for centuries! Indeed, the wandering spirit retains its free will ( as well as his personality and inclinations ) , and it depends only on him to cross the course. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
following... , where they attempt to continue their criminal activities. To do this, they control the physical bodies of mortals who are vulnerable to their influence. » (Dr. Carl Wickland, 'Thirty Years Among the Dead')

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« You have no right to interrupt the course of a life before the karma has been lived through. You kill these people and you have no right to. Let them live, on the contrary, and they will have a very heavy price to pay. They'll move on to another plan where they will suffer. They will not know peace, but worry and suffering. They will have to come back to earth and their life will be very hard. They will have to pay for their evil deeds with those they have caused to suffer. You have no right to kill, to interrupt the course of a life. God alone can punish. Not us. These people will be punished. » [message collected by Brian L. Weiss, psychiatrist]

The euthanasia

Maintain life at all costs?

« When a person is artificially kept alive, again I believe the divine plan is being fulfilled. Every disease or health crisis is accompanied by a growth, an evolution

The fulfillment of our being

An assisted suicide would be the best solution to end the suffering and give some dignity to death. But who can replace God? How do you know if a soul has not chosen to live this experience to eliminate karma?

Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

karma

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Anyway, when the time for the soul to withdraw has come, it does. Science cannot stop the great universal clock, even if it claims to be able to do so, or despite all the efforts it deploys in this direction. » (J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

Contributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

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« A dilapidated body can « hold on” thanks to a fierce will. If this will does not exist, is it good to keep the vehicle alive artificially? It is up to everyone to answer, in their soul and conscience. Freedom must in any case be given to the patient to choose. » [ "To those who seek" ]

Shorten life?

- Elisabeth, I want you to promise me that if I were to become impotent, you'd help me put an end to it.
« Never! I would cut myself into pieces to soften your end, but to provoke it, never.
In fact, Mom, everything now leads me to believe that nothing authorizes us to shorten life. »
Dr. Ross knows that medicine has an arsenal of painkillers at its disposal, but she believes that these drugs should never knock out the dying person. With all her intuition, she bristles against the unconscious agony. No philosophy could justify the wasting of such an important phase.
In fact, she's beginning to understand that the dying person's “return to childhood”, far from signifying a return to a larval state of consciousness, actually awakens hyper-attention and totally reinvigorated emotions, even under the guise of spoiling. [ P. Van Eersel: Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

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Abortion

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Is it slicing a life?

"I've never had a single case where a soul joined the fetus in the first trimester. » (Dr. Michael Newton, "Days Beyond")

« We remind you that the soul does not incarnate in the womb of its mother for four months. In the meantime, the fetus is still only an empty envelope around which the soul revolves. After this time, an abortion cannot take place. » (A Guide) ( Christine André, 'The path of a soul' )
« Thanks to my clairvoyance, I was able to see that an energy cord connects an entity to a fetus at the time of conception. However, I have never seen a spirit enter a body before the fourth month. Knowing that an entity does not incarnate until after the fourth month of pregnancy, and that a child's consciousness continues its existence in another form, can help alleviate the feelings of guilt that often accompany a miscarriage or termination voluntary pregnancy. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]

Is the choice ours?

« Understanding natural mechanisms allows man to free himself from them. And that's good, it's in the direction of evolution

The fulfillment of our being

In evolution, the mineral will become vegetable, the vegetable will become animal and the animal will become human. It is the long chain of life. » (Hélène Bouvier, medium, "Mission of souls in the afterlife")
« The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations through more or less difficult life experiences. » (R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')
continued... . Man frees himself from nature in order to be able to rediscover it, knowingly.
Whether or not to accept a child is an individual matter. » [ "To those who seek" ]
« It's up to the person carrying the child to say whether or not they want to keep it. It is a problem to be resolved on a case-by-case basis, and preventing abortion is not something that should be imposed on someone. This is an area where you have to relativize and eliminate guilt because it is an act that is psychologically difficult to accomplish. What the invisible teaches us on the subject also goes in the direction of de-dramatization: the spirit which has put « an option” on the fetus begins to frequent it to permanently inhabit it after four weeks of pregnancy. But when you eliminate an embryo, the spirit continues its existence. We don't kill a person, we don't kill life, which is always a winner because the breath is eternal. Besides, when we die, it is not uncommon to find in the afterlife those who had been lost during miscarriages or abortions. From the point of view of the consciousness of the soul, abortion does not have this weight and this gravity that we give in our reality, because it is part of the movement of a more global evolution.

On the other hand, it is necessary to recognize the existence of this spirit which inhabits the fetus as a being in its own right. To recognize a child is to say to him: « I cannot allow myself in my life to have a human being to raise now. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Even if a mother decides to abort, the little soul already knows it and despite this, she has already chosen this woman as her mother, even if it means that she will only be conceived but will never be born. I wish every mother would remember that.
The baby's soul loves you and will never hold it against you for not having brought it into the world. She already knew what would happen. » [Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']

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What meaning can such a loss have?
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Alzheimer's disease

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How do they feel?

- Where was my father when he had Alzheimer's? I mean, where was his mind?

Medium's response:

« Your father finds your question interesting and he will try to answer it as best he can.
He mentions that most of the time he was unconscious and he had the feeling of sleeping lightly. At times he was out of body, watching his body lying on the bed and the people in the room. »

- Did he distinguish spiritual presences around him?

« He had the vague impression of being surrounded by energies, but he did not know until after his death who they were.
Similar answers were given by other people in the afterlife who had suffered from Alzheimer's disease. Some had been immersed in sleep for its entire duration. Others often came out of their bodies and even attempted to transmit messages. »

- Why did he have to go there?

« He's not sure you'll understand, but believe it or not, he chose this experience before he came to earth. He told me that he had to suffer it in order to be released from a debt. » (J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')

Contributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

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« I was desperate. So much and so desperate (the actress had sunk into alcohol) that I had to inflict on myself this disease of forgetting what hurts you.
Alzheimer's, I can talk about it, even for the most authorized not to trust me, since I talk about the world of the dead.

A disease of forgetting

We choose to forget what hurts when we remember it so often that we wish it would end someday. So in the memory that is still active, there is imprinted a desire to forget what hurts, so badly that you feel that you are going to die if you don't forget it.

... non-selective

Memory does not sort out what to forget and what to treasure. A progressively active descent into forgetting small things, which one chooses to forget for reasons of shame or discomfort, or unhappiness intensified by remarks from others. Expectations are by far the most dangerous, because they generate frustrations or anger that do damage in the physical body after having done damage in the mind and in the soul.

People affected by Alzheimer's disease do not have the means to extract what was sweet in them and which would have allowed them to live in peace.

What to do with the patient?

» Letting him be without the need to remember anything.
Confinement in specialized houses is something that cannot be denounced because they are an effective relay for those who, in private, would have to take care of a sick person 24 hours a day.

The importance of kindness

There is no patient who does not like to be helped by smiling at him in the morning or by tucking him in at night. The disease of non-selective memory requires to be benevolent with the patient. Because the only thing he doesn't forget is the softness of a voice, an act of benevolence. We will only be able to taste his joyful smile because the love of the heart is the only remedy.
Confinement is therefore necessary, provided that benevolence is permanent.

I broke with this disease as soon as I woke up from death. Things started spinning inside me, and I wondered why I had had this nightmare of forgetting all my memories. You can't imagine how disturbing it is to live in a kind of place where people do things that you don't know the words to name. Words become riddles that we no longer know how to solve; therefore, we have no existence of our own, but a kind of habituation to being there. I let myself be treated at first and then I didn't know who was treating me. » (Testimonies collected by Maddly Bamy, "To love without expecting in return")

Contributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

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A transition period

« People who are in a coma are actually in a state of transition. They are not yet ready to move on to another plan… They have not yet made a decision. If they feel they have nothing more to learn in material life, then they are allowed to change plans. But otherwise they have to come back to Earth, even if they don't want to. This transition period allows them to rest. »

« This teaching was consistent with the findings of the survey of individuals who had survived the coma. Several of my patients who had almost died have told me about this type of experience. » [ Brian L. Weiss, psychiatrist ]
« I think coma is a kind of refuge, when it's too soon to die, because everything hasn't been settled, or you have to let those around you prepare for the ultimate separation. Some wait for a visit from someone, or for reconciliation. For example, one man waited 3 months in a deep coma for a visit from his 14-year-old daughter, whose family was preventing him from coming to spare her. The man was able to die the day after his farewell visit.

A mother wondered why her daughter, who expressed her desire to die just before falling into a coma, was still alive.
- Is there anyone around you who is not ready for Valérie's death? I asked her.
The woman searches but does not find.
- We sometimes think we are ready, but something inside us holds back the one we love. A part of us refuses and rebels, I suggested.

The next day, Valérie still does not react to voices or touches. Her mother then addresses her with emotion:
- My darling, we are here around you, we love you. You have brought us through your life, and especially the last days of your illness, so many things that we can never thank you enough.
Be blessed and go on your way. We remain with everything that you have left us that is so precious and that will help us continue our journey without you, go, go now.

At that precise moment, Valérie opened her eyes, looked at her parents. Then she gave them a little wave, saying "ciao", as she always did. Her breath then hung on this last goodbye. » ( Marie de Hennezel, psychologist, 'The intimate death' )
« Sometimes the soul decides it's time to leave the body. The process of clearing begins, but the mind (the ego) does not want to accept it. After all, it's the end of its existence. So he orders the body to resist. In this he receives much encouragement from the outside world.
At this stage everything depends on the desire of the soul to leave. And if she considers that she can no longer evolve through this body, she will leave and nothing will stop her, and no one should try to stop her. » [Inspirational message to Neale Walsch]
« Not everything went as planned. Idan was supposed to die immediately but he couldn't. For my mother it would have been unbearable, even my father could not have endured it. So his body remained, but his spirit had already departed. For eight months, plunged into a coma, he went back and forth between life and death to spare our parents. It has been a very tough time for all of us. Idan was struggling both for and against his mother who wouldn't let him go. She remained at his bedside, only agreeing to leave him for a few hours, when my father relieved her.
On October 28, unable to stand it any longer, he had taken advantage of a few moments when my mother was away from her room. Alone at last, he had been able to fly away like a beautiful bird whose cage door has just been opened. » [ "Annaëlle Chimoni's book" ]
« [...] During all this time, my mother had watched over me in the bedroom, where I heard absolutely everything that was said. I insist: you can hear every word when you are in a coma. It's a situation that can be terrible: you call, you shout, but no one notices. Like in the worst nightmare. » (P. Van Eersel, "Re-taming Death")

Contributions by Patrice Van Eersel on the theme of:

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- Your wife's heart may still be beating, the oncologist told my husband,but she's not really there anymore. It's too late to save her.
« Who is this doctor talking about? I wondered. I have never felt better. And why do my mom and Danny seem so scared and worried? Mom, don't cry, please. What's wrong? Is it because of me? I'm fine, really, dear mama, I feel fine !
I thought I was speaking out loud, but nothing came out. I had no more voice.
I wanted to hug my mother, console her, but I couldn't understand why I couldn't. » ( Anita Moorjani "Dying to be me" )
« Not all comas are the same! but they most often constitute a moment of "reflection for the soul", to help it revise its life plan. We explain to them and offer different return options. We also answer all their questions.
During this time, the earthly family can prepare psychologically for the death or return of their loved one. » ( V. Bobée et V. Germont, 'Follow your soul, it knows the way' )
☞ Comas, anesthesia

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A child, a companion, a mother... but also, yes, an animal. Losing a pet can lead to despair.irreplaceable

A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

Michel (deceased) addresses his father:

"Do you think we are really separated?" The energy that was mine came back to you and mom. It is always so. The love of those who remain and who weep and who call, attracts to itself a little of the loved one who is leaving. Something of him lives in their thoughts, inhabits their bodies. » (Marcel Belline, 'The Third Ear')

Contributions by Belline on the subject of::

LIFE or DEATH

« A loving and loved child never leaves his mother. Tell it as a certainty to all the mothers you meet.

I would add that, later, when you publish the messages, it should be specified that these are addressed above all to those who have lost a loved one and in particular a child. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

A feeling of indignation, of injustice

- Why did God allow a child to perish?

« The torments arouse tremendous awareness. We are only human beings, and monopolized by our worries, we tend to forget the real reasons for our presence here on earth. We are on earth to reach out to others, to know love. Admittedly, love is not without loss, but this loss is only temporary: love endures forever.

These evidences do not necessarily have the power to immediately comfort those who suffer, but they should nevertheless be meditated on. Overwhelm makes us more receptive to reality and ultimately promotes the evolution of relationships between beings.

When you lose someone close to you, he or she continues to share your days. Believe me, he just sits in his favorite chair. He's talking to you. His personality largely determines the kind of sign by which he will manifest himself to you. Do you really want to mope and wail? I believe that, for his part, the deceased would rather exchange memories of happy days with you. Of course, sadness will sometimes catch up with you, but don't forget that nothing can make your loved one more happy than your good mood.

Contemplate the photographs you have kept of him. I can assure you that one of them will come naturally to you: so he lets you know what he looks like now. So live! This allows him to continue his journey with you.

We must learn to love the loved ones who have left us in a different way. » (Allison Dubois (medium))

Contributions by Allison Dubois on the theme of:

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« Your conscience and that of your company would make a gigantic leap forward by understanding that death is not what it seems. True, the physical body is gone, but what you loved was the spark of light and awareness it had. Your human sees only the body, but you are so much more !
Continue to love your deceased, continue to talk to them, give free rein to your grief and then listen to the beloved, there, very close to you.

In human terms, death is associated with an end, disappearance and suffering. But it can be so liberating! Remember that the soul is reunited with its soul family, its “Home”, and is truly in its own light. » ( V. Bobée et V. Germont, 'Follow your soul, it knows the way' )
A mother who has lost « the best of sons” cites another mother as an example:

« His patience in his terrible sufferings, his resignation, taught me that to his example I should bow my head. I did, and from that moment, in the paroxysm of pain, I felt his presence. »

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« What a life lost, wasted! I am often told.

I nod, knowing that my interlocutor is on the wrong track. For I have often communicated with children in the spirit world who are 'dead' babies, 'dead' preterm or 'dead' at birth. I spoke with adults, men and women, also « dead” in their childhood but who survived, continued their life, continued to grow and learn, and who live happy and satisfied. In the spirit world, which most of us can only imagine, our life goes on. Children laugh and play, grow and learn. In the hereafter, a job awaits us, if we desire it. Many inhabitants of the spirit world have told me that they lead active, fulfilling, and exciting lives. My conversations with countless souls confirm that the pursuit of experiences means the pursuit of living… in the full sense of the word. » [ R. Altea, "A long ladder to the sky" ]
« Sometimes a parent asks me, 'What did I do wrong?'
We must understand that this is our path, the journey that we have chosen

Excerpt from the page: "Why life" :

« Do not flee the Earth and what it imposes on you. When you were born, you entered into a real contract with this other you that you do not suspect. » (D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')

« We all wanted to come here, and we chose our own destiny. Everyone has what they need. We knew the physiognomy we would possess. All of this we wanted and needed. » [Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]
« We choose our parents, our husbands and our children who will be necessary for us to progress before being born. All the important people in our life, we have chosen them before according to their qualities which will be necessary for our growth. »

[ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
following... , long before being born into this world. » [Lorna Byrne, 'My Life With Angels']
Reflection of a Guide to whom a child who is dying is pointed out:

Some "Children of Light" manage through their ordeal to comfort their loved ones, to emit vibrations of love so pure that they transform even the most hardened of adults. They are our Little Princes, those who know how to console, wherever they are.

Continue to like it, because it will receive what you emit. » [ "To those who seek" ]

Die young

« You may not know, but I tell you, how essential purity is. It is an immense grace for a being to leave the Earth young. He is immediately in God, immediately in contact with beings of light.

As a child among you, I sensed no danger except something in the days and hours leading up to the accident, but I didn't know what.

(...) I slipped, I was scared and then the LIGHT...

- Did you suffer?

« No, at no time; that's why it took me a long time to understand what had happened to me, I thought I was still on earth! Quickly, very quickly, a being of light came to get me. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« O my friends! do not pity those who die prematurely; it is a grace that God grants them to spare them the tribulations of life. » [ Message received by Allan Kardec ]
« Mom, tell yourself that the earth is a place of trials, and that those who live a short time are privileged. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

What meaning can such a loss have?

« Sometimes it is difficult to understand the merits of a lesson. It is difficult to grasp, for example, that a child who dies at the age of two came here to teach his parents compassion and love. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

Testimonials, exchanges

A mother finds her child in the afterlife:

« How many tears, how much misery, how much ignorance overcome, to finally find my child, who had never abandoned me. » [ Message collected by Maguy Lebrun ]
Excerpt from a session between a medium and a mother who has lost her child:

« Christelle was four years old. She drowned six months ago in the swimming pool of a holiday home. Why did Nathalie turn away from her daughter's attention to go get her swimsuit which was drying further away? She cannot forgive herself for this moment of inattention...

She stares at me behind an uninterrupted stream of tears. Her dark glasses do not leave her. She finds it unfair that she, her mother, has the chance to see the dawn. Only her love for her parents and her husband prevents her from committing suicide. However, it is a struggle every day... every hour... every second...

Nathalie had faith before this ordeal. But it's over... How can you believe in a God who lets children die, his child?

I respectfully remain silent, because I know from experience that despair is not nourished by words. Only communion and compassion can calm this inner fire. The tortured soul thus feels less lonely. Words spoken without this feeling can provoke an opposite reaction... The mind does not know how to console. He only knows how to analyze and pronounce empty sentences.

My soul bows to the courage of this woman who chose, without knowing it, the worst of trials.

Christelle finds her parents at night, but Nathalie is unaware of these nocturnal meetings. It's normal, her earthly body and her mental are really separated from her little girl's soul... Moreover, she only sleeps with sleeping pills and doesn't remember any dreams.
These meetings with our dearly departed exist in another reality. The memories of these particular dreams do a lot of good: "I assure you, I was talking to grandfather, he was in great shape, we were laughing...", or " My mother and I were walking along the little river. It was sunny..." These are not dreams, our etheric body went visit a missing loved one.

I take Nathalie's hand, as her guide does at this moment.

- Nathalie, listen to me, your child is doing well, she was taken in by your husband's best friend, who died two years ago.

- But how do you know?

- We all have a guide, a guardian angel near us at all times. He's the one who told me.

- But... if Christelle had a guardian angel, why did he let her die? She was just a child, she never did any harm...

- Death is not a punishment, Nathalie. It is only a ordeal for those who remain on earth. Christelle woke up in a heavenly world. She is not aware of being separated from you. At night, when you sleep, you will join her. Your daughter has even found her little white cat, you see which one?

Nathalie's eyes round in amazement.

« You always pampered your daughter. She never lacked attention.

- Yes, but there..., she begins.

- Yes, but there, it was not the chance. You were taken away for a few moments... You yourself never understood why you had gone to get your bathing suit when you had others that were dry. Do you remember ?

Nathalie remains pensive.

- Yes, it's true what you say... I had this thought to myself. I didn't need that bathing suit at all... » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
« Here is the life of Benoît, as his mother was kind enough to entrust it to me (excerpts ):

With her pretty healthy blond baby in her arms, Joëlle left the clinic. But as he passed the pediatric ward on his way out, an icy shiver ran through his body. She heard herself thinking: " One day we will come back here." Following... (Jeannine Van Camp, 'You will tell them')

Here is a direct exchange, between a father and his 19-year-old son who recently died after a long and painful lymphoblastic leukemia:

« (...) Although it is difficult to admit, I can assure you that my death was useful for you, very useful even.
Before, you were wrong, Dad. But my death was for you a sort of salutary « shock” which awakened you to spiritual life. Without this painful event you would have remained the same. On your own, you would never have taken the right path.

- I cannot admit that your death was necessary for my spiritual elevation. I can't accept that all the pain you've been through could have done me a favor. For me, your illness and your disappearance represent, on the contrary, an intolerable suffering and an unfair ordeal.

« Life on Earth is fleeting, Dad. Compared to spiritual life, earthly bodily life is almost derisory. The human body is the vehicle of the spirit, which uses it to experience new situations and progress.
You know, I suffered a lot in my physical body, but now all that is over. You don't have to cry anymore for this.

In the end, this suffering was beneficial to me as well. The illness I suffered gave me the opportunity to make great spiritual progress. It gave me the opportunity to take a big leap forward. I know this is not easy to accept, but I can tell you that if I had to relive my ordeal I would do it without hesitation.
My new life is infinitely richer and more beautiful than anything you can imagine, Dad. Here everything is beautiful, everything is grand and wonderful, everything is love, harmony, peace, calm, and serenity. You must rejoice in knowing that I am happy, satisfied, and eager to pursue my path towards horizons of which no man on Earth can suspect the magnificence.

Have no regrets, and don't be sad. Act on what you know now. I can assure you that we will be together again when you come back here, definitely.
Time on Earth passes quickly, Dad, and it must not be wasted in vain pursuits. Don't bemoan the past, but move in the right direction and keep faith until the end. Have no fear for the future, and do not doubt, whatever happens in your life.

- I will follow your advice my son. Everything is changed now. The joy of knowing you are alive, and the certainty that we will see each other again have eased my pain.

« Everything has a meaning, everything points in one direction, everything converges towards a single goal. This goal is so extraordinary that it justifies everything else. It even integrates misery, injustice, disease, suffering and death. Everything, absolutely everything, has a purpose, a meaning, and blends into the global harmony, even what seems unacceptable. » (Message collected by Daniel Robin, 'Death and beyond')

Contributions by Daniel Robin on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

The following poem-message was inspired by the medium Léo Rosenblum for a devastated father. It is borrowed from the marvelous site of the Cyclamen association (http://asso-cyclamen.fr ).

Let in the sun, the music and the flowers
And soothe your heart.
Regain a taste for life and dry all your tears,
Rediscover happiness,
Soothe your resentment.
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If the charge of my body for me is over
For I am delivered from it
And I feel light,
I must rise higher, towards the soft light
By successive planes traveling in the ether.
Such is my destiny,
It was well traced.

Do you know my dear Dad that your suffering soul
Brakes my flight?
I see you unhappy and your sorrow tempts me
Not to leave you,
Not to evolve.

Also, I implore you by inspiring these verses
To our friend Leo,
So smile at life, change your austere face
And that as soon as possible.

Progressing towards the world of Divine Light,
You temper my happiness by meeting your eyes
All filled with distress.
Be helped by faith in God and prayers.
If you really love me, emerge from the fog
For spiritual osmosis fills us with joy
And not with sadness.

If you want to listen to me - and in this I insist -
cling to life and don't be so sad.
Space separates us but love unites us.
You stay on earth, I am in infinity.
So continue on your way.
Go on, fate has decided so
From your heart dispels doubt.
I see that it invades you, and you move away from God:
This doubt is very painful and makes me unhappy,
Because I have faith in Him.

Here are a few verses. You will read it
With all our love.
The ordeal is difficult, human life is hard
Over the nights, the days,
It must be accepted
With courage, patience and then humility.
The ordeal grows us, the sorrows purify us.
Let me fly to the brilliant azure.
After the fleeting life, I go to the future.
Our bonds will always hold
There is no distance
Time is only appearance
In sublime love.
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Thank you medium friend working in joy
Thank you for transmit to the parents a little of our faith,
You are always very available and always benevolent
Translating our thoughts while versifying them
By listening to our voices.
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Another message received by the medium for a desperate mother:

Mom, I don't want to see you cry often anymore.
Dry your tears of pain and soothe your heart,
Do not have this harsh resentment against my death any longer;
My soul is now in bliss.

Of this karma

Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

karma

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I am there near you, conscious and alive,
Separated by a veil, in a whole other world
That the divine light dazzles and floods
In harmony, love, we bathe outside of time.

I am no longer flesh and you no longer see me.
Very close to you however, by my vibrant soul
I feel you feverish, unhappy and trembling.
If you could understand, how moved you would be!

If you could know, how your life would change!
But, you isolate yourself in vain; you suffer and you beg
And your sorrow leads you astray; you do not hear my voice
Which cries out to you with force: " Mom listen to me,
I have not left you, believe me, I still love you,
You are not separated from me whom you adore. "

In this cruel world where you despair,
know that my affection for you and for my father
surrounds you both with strength and prayer.
I ask my guide so generous and so right
To influence you to pray with me,

And to have the courage to bear the ordeal
Until the day when your souls will finally have the proof
Of a quite different existence, but which is not life
As you conceive it, but that of Spirits
Separated from their bodies turning to dust.

We will meet again and we will be united
Together and for a long time in this invisible world
We will be in osmosis in indescribable joy
Death does not exist, I certify it to you.

But some, undermined by pain, in their sad ignorance
Do not want to admit the laws of survival
Known by so many so-called less evolved peoples
Who prepare in their lives their near eternity.

Evolutionary cycles are laws of the universe
As summer succeeds, autumn and then winter
And spring returns and then everything begins again
After life, death and then rebirth
To gradually gain the Divine Light.
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« Weep over your human pain, but rejoice to know they are more alive than ever.
Your children are asking for it. Do not be heavy chains for them by your despair. » [Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]

« Don't be impatient. Every minute that passes shortens your life and brings you closer to me. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel to his mother]

Parental disconnect

« If one member of the couple is in therapy and the other is not, that in itself can contribute to the breakdown of the couple.

Among parents who have lost a child, the stay-at-home mother remains in a state of shock and denial, while the father, who goes out to work and sees other people, quickly moves on to the stage of anger (stage 2 - cf. 'The five phases' ). This is why 75% of parents who have lost a child plan to separate in the year following the death. The mother must be brought to express her revolt, so that the two parents find themselves at the same stage and cross the others together. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

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We reject the very idea
The death in society
Prefer ignorance

A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

Early deaths

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

Early deaths

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« We must say a word about a great mystery: the mind can try several bodies and take definitive possession of only the strongest. In the death of toddlers, there is not always a return to the divine spirit, there is a essay of different bodies, which is quite another thing. It can generally be said that this essay rarely exceeds seven months. » (Dr. Gérard Encausse, known as Papus (1865-1916))
« It always scares us when we see an unprepared soul leave. The soul must therefore accumulate Love well before descending, otherwise it risks being lost. Hence the stillborn children or children who died in infancy, who understand their mistake and come back to us. » (A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")

Contributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« We came into the world in conscience, to realize ourselves and accomplish what we had planned. This goes for miscarriages, babies who died at birth or soon after. It is often the spirit that animates the fetus or the baby that decides to back down. I happened to enter into communication with the spirits of dead people a few hours after birth:

- Why did you leave ?

« I didn't have the courage to face my plan »

« It was planned like this to change my parents' vision, they needed to experience this in order to evolve

The fulfillment of our being

These are examples among many others, but whatever the answer, it is always a matter of choices motivated by the needs of evolution. These are neither injustices nor punishments, but engines to move us forward, to make us look beyond ourselves to understand. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« According to the regressions carried out by certain psychologists (notably by Doctor Hélène Wambach), regressions where the patient is asked to recount his birth, it seems that certain souls become discouraged by earthly difficulties from the very first minutes.

The reception is, in general, unwelcoming: violent light, noise... The souls who do not really want to incarnate and who arrive in this coldness, this atmosphere of lack of love or refusal, sometimes leave immediately. » [ Dorothée Koechlin, "L'univers d'Edgar Cayce" ]

« Many souls seek to return (on the earth plane), but not all are attracted. Some can be postponed. Some are attracted and then suddenly repelled. And, in this case, their life on Earth only lasts a few days; often the baby's death is attributed to disease, neglect of care, or whatever. » [a reading by Edgar Cayce]
« (...) The soul in question changed its mind prematurely. Already traumatized by multiple experiences of his past life, this soul has recoiled. You know, before being reborn, the trials that we will have to undergo pass before our spiritual eyes. It's scary when you think about it and fortunately at birth we become amnesic. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
« ...Despite the advice of his guides and in order to progress more quickly in the refinement of his being, he had resolved to accumulate the trials in the life that awaited him. He felt so strong, so aware of what had to be done inside him and the mistakes he had to fix. But when the hour of his birth came, he felt the weight of his destiny and this life that he already glimpsed soon turned into a fright that led him to a kind of suicide: when he came out of his mother's womb, he had the umbilical cord tight around his neck... It was his way of saying: "No, I don't want anymore." » (D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Les neuf marches')

Contributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH
« At any time during pregnancy, the soul can renounce its chosen life. At first, walking away will be called a miscarriage. If it becomes incorporated (into the fetus) in the final months and realizes the difficulty of its choice, its birth may pose a problem. » ( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )

Contributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE ou DEATH

☞ Hesitations...

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We reject the very idea
The death in society
Prefer ignorance

A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

What meaning can such a separation have?

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

« These messages

Supports and testimonies addressed to us from Heaven by those we love. are not addressed
to human reason,
but to hearts broken by grief. »

[ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

What meaning can such a separation have?

The separation of two beings who love each other has a deep meaning

« After his death (tells the medium), my father stayed with my mother most of the time and when I visit him, I know he is there too. However, he tells me not to betray his presence:

"I want her to continue to have both feet on the ground and her freedom of thought, it's very important for her development

The fulfillment of our being

In a message, his (deceased) brother adds:

"Dad could stay on a higher plan, but he chose to stay with mom. He waits for it before climbing higher. He sometimes goes to recharge his batteries on brighter plans, but he comes back very quickly. Their bond of love is very strong, you see! I learned that they had lived multiple existences together". » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
« Why the innocent child? He can be one of those who have decided to "give their life" so that the world becomes aware and wakes up. » [ Maguy Lebrun ]
An old man who committed suicide speaks through the medium:

« I had not been able to honor the Life in me and to respect this body which had been entrusted to me. I had changed the play. The last act was not played as it had been proposed to me nor as I had wanted it to be and I had to accept the consequences by replaying this last part.

« Look now and you will understand! »

Soon a new episode in the life of Arthur W appears to me.
In fact, it is not a part of Arthur's life, but a slightly different story...

A blond, fair-skinned little girl, a few months old, is in a crib. Parents with worried faces watch over the child.

" It's me again (this child) , whispers near me the entity (who in his previous life was Arthur) , my new parents have just learned that I have leukemia. Regardless of the circumstances that brought about this illness, it was consented to and accepted by both sides. My parents had fortunately erased it from their memory.
I will only live a year and a half but during this time my parents and I will learn Compassion, Letting go and Faith.
Not faith in any divinity but Faith, the one that remains when all that could be done on a human level has been accomplished.
When in the empty space in which nothing seems to exist and which scares us so much, the Essence of our being begins to be reborn, the Self that sleeps deep inside each of us

Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

Our inner being

In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Father Creator. » [ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"] following... .
For the three of us, it was the ordeal of total acceptance of what we could not change. An act of infinite Love, without rebellion and without condition. So far from the resignation that sounds like a defeat in our ears and that the three of us had so often approached in other lives.
In my fragile little child's body, I came to heal my death and help two beings to heal their lives.
This body of course suffered, but when the pain was too strong, my soul then flew to this world that I had just left.
I knew that soon everything would be over and this time I no longer wanted to escape my story.
During all these months, my parents lived in their soul and in their body all the emotions that are attached to beings who must let go of what they think is a part of them. My suffering was theirs and I could not tell them in words, how much during these few months, their souls and mine were freed from old disputes that still suffocated our hearts.
They were both reliving an old and dark story of attachment, the death of a loved one they had never accepted.
They suddenly understood that to love unconditionally was also to accept that « the other”, the loved one, would follow an itinerary that we would never have envisaged either for him or for us.
I died one night, while Mom, exhausted, had fallen asleep at the foot of my crib in an old rocking chair. I wanted to be alone for this departure and I knew that the anxious presence of my parents would have made the task much more difficult.
The morning of my death, I stayed with my father and my mother for a few moments, just long enough to tell them that I was very much alive and that death was not the opposite of life.
I knew they were going to take a big step and that this death was not useless. It was obvious to me that nothing, not a pebble on the road that is ours, is there by chance and my heart fills with gratitude and Love for Life. I tenderly placed a kiss on everyone's forehead in gratitude for this body they had allowed me to have and for all the love they had given me in such a short time. I would so much have liked them to see me and hear me to ease their pain… I finally accepted that it would be different. »

(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')
« Without a doubt you have lost all earthly happiness, but the accident has thrown you into your second being

Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

Our double

A previously agreed separation

« The people who accompany us (share our life) are the guardians of our life, they leave to allow us to grow without this support (their presence) and to strengthen us. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Steve's picture (firefighter died in a fire) is there, enthroned on the fireplace in the common room and in the parents' bedroom. Steve's mother, her head in her hands, has no more tears to cry.

« They too came to learn an essential lesson through my death. My death will be the necessary shock for both of my parents, in their own way, to open a door to the subtle worlds. They will seek to understand and ease their pain and through this search they will walk a path that they would otherwise never have taken in this life. » (A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')

Contributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH
Marcel Belline, who is a medium, begs his deceased son:

- Michel, can you help us to live?

« No, but you must live. My death has meaning only through your suffering and your survival.

- So our suffering has a value, a utility?

« Yes, all suffering carries within it the seeds of life. » (Belline, "The Third Ear")

Contributions by Belline on the subject of::

LIFE or DEATH
« When those left behind accept that death is only a stage in personal development, they can send all their love and good wishes to the person or animal that died. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]

Home and site MAP > The death >

We reject the very idea
The death in society
Prefer ignorance

A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

A new life (for those who leave)

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

"(...) So, if one can come into contact with the soul of a deceased person, it is that he is still alive...
(But) If he still lives, beyond or beyond human appearances, then what is his life? » (A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")

Contributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

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A new life
(for those leaving)

A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

A completely different view of things

« How does death affect our individuality, our identity?
Once on the other side, we are no longer the individual that we were. It is still part of us, of our history, but it fades and the spirit mingles with a whole

Excerpt from the page: "Why life" :

Our soul is connected to all others
and is one with God.

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The human soul

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« What is the soul? We can replace this word with "inner being", "inner master", "little voice", "higher spirit"... The soul is the consciousness which persists throughout incarnations. It emanates from the Source. To learn and evolve, she chooses to have experiences in matter by incarnating in a human body.
The human personality, with its mind, its ego, its feelings, its emotions and its beliefs linked to its education and its environment, tends to move away from the soul and from what it truly expects. »
« See the soul as an eagle. It flies above your head. Its vision is 360°. It sees everything, anticipates, warns you of a future obstacle and would like to guide you. » ( V. Bobée et V. Germont, 'Follow your soul, it knows the way' )
« The human soul is a part of the great soul of the world, a spark of the divine spirit. Its mysterious emergence dates back to the origins of organized matter. She had to cross all the kingdoms of nature, the whole scale of beings while developing through innumerable existences. Blind force in the mineral, individualized in the plant, polarized in the sensitivity and instinct of animals, it tends towards consciousness.

The animic and spiritual element therefore exists in all the kingdoms, although only in the state of infinitesimal quantity in the lower kingdoms. » (Pythagoras (580-495 BC))
« There is only one soul : the universal soul, which is, like life, an attribute of the Cosmic. Everything lives and everything has a soul from the cosmic point of view; it does not mean that everything has a consciousness. Plants experience an embryonic form of consciousness. Some plants "love" those who care for them. » [ R. Bernard, Grand Master of the Rose Croix ]
following... . On the other hand, we become this individual again as soon as we approach the terrestrial worlds. The closer the deceased come, the more they reclaim their earthly identity: their bad character, their nervous or very calm side, this way of being that they had during their lifetime and that the medium feels when a communication is established. » (Dr. Michael Newton, "Days Beyond")

« It is hard to imagine this immediate welcome from people we had lost sight of, or from our long-deceased parents; then nothing was planned for such an afterlife. I was lost to people who wanted to bury me, I was alive to those who had been buried. We are not warned of such a thing, and this is what prevents man from consciously living his existence.
By leading our existence without the consciousness of being alive after death, we cannot change our infantile behavior. »

(Testimony collected by Maddly Bamy, "To love without expecting in return")

Contributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH
« When you arrive here, you realize that you continue to exist. Accustomed to the Earth, we think of material objects, and as the thought maintains this information we see them taking shape around us. Moreover, we stay in contact with the beings we love and we are initially unaware of only perceiving things through them. So it may be difficult to realize that you are no longer among the living. » (Testimony collected by Jean Prieur, "The country after")

Contributions by Jean Prieur on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« There is a real interaction between those who leave and those who stay. The feelings and state of mind of some influence others. When a deceased relative maintains a feeling of guilt and remains in our entourage, it influences our thoughts , our feelings. If he feels serenity, this greatly helps the living to find the path of appeasement. Similarly, when the living shut themselves up in sadness, guilt, they retain those who have just left. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« My dear parents who suffer from being separated from me, remember that we are separated only by the flesh. Accept out of love the idea that we can be happy differently and independently of a common life on earth. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« The world where I am (the beyond) can make me disdain the earth, but not the spirits who are incarnated there. I often see my loved ones; I enjoy their joys; their sorrows sadden me, but it is not this anxious sadness of human life, because I understand that they are only temporary and are for their own good. » [Message collected by Allan Kardec]

Regrets

« I am alive and my life is here. We are almost all happy. I say almost for those who only receive tears or those who are forgotten and especially those who have to live with repentance. » ["Karine after life"]
« While it is true that for some people dying is a brilliant reward, that finding their heavenly home after all these years of exile is a pure pleasure, it can happen that we have regrets for not having carried out our mission.... » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
« Our starting point for this existence is totally dependent on what our earthly life was like. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

☞ Regrets and remorse

« At the moment of death, the soul returns to the level at which it has reached. There are several levels of development, and we always reach the one where we feel the best. » [Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

Testimonies collected by mediums

"Don't think about my age. My life on earth was short, but thanks to you I had everything, and now I have another life, which is the real life, for which everyone should prepare. This is the purpose of our passage on earth. » ["Karine after life"]
« (...) I listened to the others doing their best to get me out of there, but I also heard that they didn't believe it. I jumped up in rage, but no one moved.
I was found dead. I was still alive. I only knew the reality of my position by asking: What is this story? It looked like a science fiction movie, and there I felt that there was no camera to see me play the living dead. I listened to the voices of the others and I recognized Georges and Jacques, and at the height of my astonishment, I laughed. » (Testimony of a former actor collected by Maddly Bamy,
"To love without expecting in return")

Contributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

The feeling of "coming home"

« Coming home often gives rise to a party, with kisses, laughter and a lot of humor. » (Dr. Michael Newton, "Days Beyond")

« It's a big party; the soul very quickly feels that it is at home, except those who have plunged so deeply into the material that they are lost. The soul sees its life through its new understanding. Nobody judges her, we help her to watch, with love, the basket that she goes up(his life, his actions on earth).
But then, what a disappointment often, what a surprise to have attached so much importance to trifles during his earthly mission and to have lost all that time. »

These witnesses [of experiences at the borders of death

Excerpt from the page: "Contacts with the afterlife" :

The considerable progress made in the field of resuscitation has elicited fantastic testimonies. Except that at the same time, the advent of the Internet has not only made it possible to confront them, but to reinforce them with a continuous stream of authenticated cases.

It is also remarkable to note that these testimonies corroborate what the religious texts and mediumistic messages assure us .

NDE, EMP, EMI... What is it?

« The NDE (Near Death Experience) or in French EMI (Experiencing Imminent Death) or EMP (Experiencing Temporary Death), a subject well known to the general public today, are experienced by people (« experiencers. ») who, following an accident or health problems, find themselves clinically dead for a few seconds or minutes before being revived. If some don't remember anything, others make strange testimonies of what they experienced during this period of time. What is interesting and what has drawn attention to the phenomenon is that these experiences, reported by people of different cultures and religions, have commonalities
following... ] do not lie. They tell the truth which, the simpler it is, the more it frightens men drenched in pseudo-intellectual alluvium of all kinds... (A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")

Contributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« It also happens that less well-intentioned spirits are waiting, those who have suffered because of you - in this matter, the spiritual world and the material world are closely linked. Not everyone is inclined to forgiveness and compassion. » [ "To those who seek" ]

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We reject the very idea
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Prefer ignorance

A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

A reason for suffering

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

« Don't cry if you love me. »
(Prayer of St Augustine)

A reason for suffering

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« Once on the other side, people are often ready to let go, but they can be held back by the worry created in them by the anguish and sadness of loved ones. »[ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]
« Dead souls don't cry, strictly speaking, but I have sometimes felt their hearts sink when trying to get in touch with their friends or family. Suffering to see them shed so many tears. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
- What do you expect from me, Eric? (the medium asks)

"It's mom, responds the spirit of the child.She is still on earth. And she cries! That hurts me. No matter how much I call her, she doesn't hear! » [ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]
« Shortly after his 'departure', a mother passed on to her son:"You're crying for me, but my little one, it's me who's crying to leave you. I'm so well, so happy, and I'm leaving you in pain!"

It is human to mourn one's relative, one's friend... even if we only mourn for ourselves. » [ Maguy Lebrun ]
« For our evolution

The fulfillment of our being

« We must let the person who dies leave his carnal envelope in peace. For loved ones, accepting this letting go means not retaining the subtle levels of the dead man's consciousness, not forcing him to remain invisibly in this earthly world. Give those who are leaving the possibility of experiencing the stages that will lead them from one world to another.

Helping a being to be born and helping a being to die are two equally important actions. » [ Dalai Lama ]
« Some (whose body is dead and whom Heaven is calling) hesitate when they see the pain of those who remain. Crying is normal, but we shouldn't overwhelm ourselves, especially when we know the harm it does to us. On the contrary, we must wish for a good path towards the light. » ["Karine after life"]
« Those who left are not always available for those who stayed. However, our emotions affect them, and the calmer we are, the calmer our dead are; on the contrary, our sadness tortures them, weighs them down.

It is necessary that the living continue to love the deceased while respecting their freedom, that they think of them with serenity and keeping a smile, and that they dedicate to them the beautiful things that they live without them. I refuse to see the same person twice for these reasons. The race for the medium is unhealthy and moreover, it disturbs the dead. Protect the dead from the living! » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« […] Yes, how true that is: it is we who kill our dead, wanting to bring them back to this earth by force. How weak our faith, how great our fear!
They are there, close to us, to show us the way. » (Letter left in 1943 by a young hostage shot)

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If we believe in the afterlife, we know that the being we love above all is not "dead", that he is (finally) happy. We must no longer dwell on his sufferings and our regrets; if we have things to say to him or to be forgiven, we just have to think about them while talking about him. He hears us.
On the other hand, if we were linked to him, yes, our life would never be the same again.
This is not necessarily a bad thing; One day we must leave the road marked by nonsense and lies, stop believing that existence was given to us to “profit” or “succeed”.

☞ Misfortune or crucial step?

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We reject the very idea
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A question of point of view
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Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

Life from now on (for those left behind)

If life drives you to despair,
it's because you've been deceived about the meaning of life.

Life from now on
(for those who stay)

A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

« What is based on love survives even after death, the ties woven by interest dissolve by themselves when interest disappears. » [ "To those who seek" ]

A selfish pain?

When changing the baby's diet, the breasts, which are swollen with good milk, become painful and leak on their own.
Death is a bit like that. Worse. A cold wall suddenly cuts us off from our loved one. However, love continues to fill our hearts; which can no longer flow, flows in a trickle of tears.

We often read that our loved one is there, close to us and hears us; that he is happy, and that we must therefore be happy for him.
But even if we know that he is well, and even better where he is now, we suffer. And even if we know that our tears pain him, we suffer. And it's not selfishness. The pain that overwhelms us comes from this heart that overflows, that calls, stretches out its arms.

As a medium testifies:

« (Even for those who know, the physical separation from a loved one is not without tears. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

Dismay, anger, arguments

« In the event of sudden death, and very often right up to the funeral, one finds oneself in a state of paralyzing shock and refusal to believe it; and this state can last for weeks. Parents who have lost a child go through the stages that the dying go through (Cf. the five phases identified by Dr. E. Kübler-Ross) . But the mother who stays at home is still in a state of shock and denial, while the father who goes out for work, who sees other people, quickly goes on to the next stage, anger. This is why more than 75% of parents who have lost a child are on the verge of separation.
If we can get the mother to express her revolt, then the two parents would find themselves at the same stage, and move together to the following stages (bargaining, depression and finally acceptance). » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

Remorse, guilt

« You are always thinking about the minor disputes that so often occur in living together. Your heart is swollen under the fine wound of a lively or unjust word. It is one of the sufferings which accompany, on one side of the grave as on the other, souls who love each other. But when you think so painfully: « Why did I have this attitude? Why didn't I say those words of tenderness? » remember that we know the bitterness of your repentance, and that our enlarged love, stronger and deeper still than when we were in the flesh, immediately erases the scars of these involuntary wounds. It's your turn to do this work of tenderness! for we have the same thoughts, and similar regrets.
My dear mother, this is a message that you must pass on to those who cry and who suffer from their helplessness in the face of regrets which they believe to be irreparable. » [ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]
« Many people are gnawed by guilt the day they lose a loved one. If I had taken my mother to see a doctor, they say to themselves, if I had known it was wrong, I could have avoided the tragedy...
To everyone, I want to serve as an example: I knew that my father was going to die, and I knew from what. And I can assure you that I did absolutely everything to prevent that from happening. In the end, I discovered that some things are beyond our control. » (Allison Dubois (medium))

Contributions by Allison Dubois on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH
« What we have done has only one time, and our Ego cannot eternally make us react as culprits.
You will learn, in your new life, to lay down the burden of old stories, so that the vessel within you can be filled with new and clear water. This, too, takes courage. » (D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')

Contributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH
« Don't worry about what my earthly torments were. Me alive, they did me a lot of harm; me in the afterlife, all I have left of them is your torment. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Forgiveness (reciprocal)

« It's easy to say, ' I've forgiven ' when you still feel resentment and sometimes hate. But with the dead, you can't cheat. Forgiveness is not distributed lightly, it is a responsible, heavy, well thought-out act, which has value only through the path it takes, which can be long, thought out, evaluated. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« My mother lived (although in the afterlife) unhappy and prisoner (she still couldn't forgive her husband for abandoning her while he was alive) until she came to accept that in life everyone does their best given everyone's limited consciousness

Excerpt from the page: "Why life" :

The progression of the human soul

Every soul starts from the bottom of the ladder.
From instinct to consciousness, it rises.
From the satisfaction of her desires to the happiness of giving, she rises.
And the path is long and marked with suffering.

« If different minds conceive such different truths, it is because evolution is not the same in everyone. » (Gandhi)

« The Spirit, like man, also has its childhood.
At their origin, the Spirits have only an instinctive existence and are barely aware of themselves and their actions. » [Message collected by Allan Kardec]
« If you don't feel ready to forgive someone's actions, at least forgive the person. (Tell yourself that his still animal conscience is not awake, but that his soul is nonetheless a reflection of God). » [Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]
. My father, like many people, was a captive of his fears and struggled to learn his own lessons in life. She then managed to stop judging him and was able to experience forgiveness and personal liberation. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]
Message from an alcoholic husband from beyond:

"I didn't know how to give, so I'll be back!"

(...) Without your forgiveness, souls remain in a place of gray loneliness. Only your love or in any case your forgiveness can bring me back to the Light. » (A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")

Contributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« The girl assured me that she had forgiven, but I often noticed that there was a misunderstanding about the meaning given to forgiveness. It is not a question of a simple word, with the deceased, one cannot cheat. And if there is resentment, they can be blocked. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Do you have any regrets? Look inside yourself and see if it is for yourself or for others that you're in pain. »[ Franchezzo Farnèze & Pierre Jovanovic "The explorer of the beyond" ]

☞ Forgive ?

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We reject the very idea
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A question of point of view
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Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

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A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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Turn the page ?

Turn the page ?

Can we rebuild our lives?
Make a clean sweep ?
Consolations & oblivion
Keep in touch

Can we rebuild our lives?

« I assure you, our dear departed ardently wish to see us regain a taste for existence. If it involves a remarriage, they don't mind it at all. You would be wrong to imagine that you would lessen your feelings for them by falling in love with someone else. Physical embraces don't interest the dead. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Mr. Simth had met a lovely woman, but to consider spending the end of his life with her, he wanted to obtain the consent of his late wife. Not only was Mary delighted, but she told me that she felt like she had been lifted from a huge burden. "I worried a lot about him. I had only one wish: that he find a woman who could love him and take good care of him. Tell him to be happy like I am." » [ R. Altea, "A long ladder to the sky" ]
« On this plan, the notion of fidelity is not the same as on Earth. The dead do not know jealousy; on the contrary, they fervently wish their survivors to rebuild their lives and be happy, even without them. Only the fidelity of the thought counts. Forgetting, on the other hand, can be perceived as an abandonment, a real rupture. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

Make a clean sweep ?

« In a fit of desperation, do not erase all traces of our passage. Keep the toys and things we loved the most, but don't turn them into relics. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« Dads, moms who have "lost" (as you say!) a child, do not strike us out of your civil status. For the men of the world we no longer exist, but for you we are very much alive, so alive that we can still, yes still - and even more than ever! - be happy or suffer by you!. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« The greatest proof of love that one can give to a deceased person is to always act as if he were alive. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
« You who remain on Earth, do not get stuck on repetition: "I won't see him again, I won't hear him again, I won't touch him again.", but say to yourself with the greatest conviction: "He is ALIVE !" » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]

Consolations & oblivion

Beware of trips to "forget". Projects and memories add up to cover the embers of grief with cold ashes...

Wounded man, beware of entertainment that takes you away from the real journey that is yours, that of the heart and the spirit. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« When a being can no longer bear the weight of his pain, he tries to deceive it, to distract himself from it. Rather, he should transmogrify her. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
« What is spiritually malevolent is to aid oblivion between beings branched out by love. Understand me well: we desire with all our energy of love that your suffering ceases but that the memory remains.

It is not the memory of our past that we want to maintain but day by day, our present, parallel to yours. Your palpitations are ours. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« The consolation will not come from outside, and if it was, tell yourself that you are backsliding. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Keep in touch

« There are so many suffering beings here seeing the continued pain of their families. They too send messages, but they are never received because of great sorrow and especially lack of faith in eternal life.

(...) Doubt prevents us from manifesting ourselves. If you (my parents) receives so many proofs, it is thanks to your faith and your open mind. » ["Karine after life"]
« I had the case of two young people who killed themselves in a car accident. Both families couldn't believe it, left in shock and deeply saddened. However, one of the children had information about the afterlife. This state of consciousness allowed him to accept the situation more easily than his friend. His mother, for her part, being convinced that he would continue to evolve, gathered family and friends, and sent him a collective message of love. This effort helped him to welcome this radical change and was then able, in turn, to express all his love to them, before going into the light to be welcomed there by the spiritual guides.

On the other hand, the family of the other young man, lacking knowledge in this area, did not manage to accept his death quickly, nor to send him support. Their very strong emotional reaction made things particularly difficult for the boy, because he felt guilty for being the cause of such great distress. It took more than two years before he managed to accept his accident and let go.

My guides define grief as an inability to accept what is. » [ Ellen Tadd (medium) ]

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We reject the very idea
The death in society
Prefer ignorance

A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

_ _

A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

_ _

A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

_ _

A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

The mourning

The mourning

« Lthe subject loses the taste for existence. Only the memory of the one who is no longer there animates him. Thoughts of suicide cross his mind.
The necessary treatment is to agree with him and say: your grief is immense, it is greater than you, you can only endure it without trying to free yourself from it. Your tears must be welcomed and almost desired. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

☞ Evacuate what is choking you!

« (...) His grief must not smother him. The tears will help him evacuate. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
« Absence creates pain because presence is life seen not only through its own personality, but through the personality of the one who looks at it with himself. The loved one, by his presence, increases tenfold the value of the things observed. He who is thrown into isolation will have to relearn the whole world; the world according to itself, and no longer the shared world. You had to recreate your universe without me.

(...) Mom, if someone said to you: "In such a time, you will see your son Roland again, he will come back", then you would prepare the house, you would arrange my room, you would combine a thousand and one things to make me say: "How beautiful!" Well ! all these preparations, make them in your soul, everything must be ready within you. » (for the day you will join me) . [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

The "grieving process"

The expression, created by Sigmund Freud, invited to detach the psychic energy invested in a precious object or the links with a deceased.
The idea was to break a suffering which, if not understood, can drag on and spoil a life; perhaps also to let the spirit of the deceased rise in peace.
But this "work", supposedly indispensable and supposed to help us, misunderstood, invites us to forget the deceased; to consider it henceforth absent from our lives.

But the messages, all the messages, reject this approach.

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« You think of us as brothers separated by the ocean and living their lives apart. That's not it at all! Our life unfolds close to yours. The only cause of complete breaking of the link is forgetfulness. The disembodied spirit, no longer finding the atmosphere of love it needs, then moves away; for love is the atmosphere from which spirits draw life. » [ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]
« Mom, listen to me carefully: the main thing is that you are sure to find me again. And how can you doubt it?... It's not because you don't see me that I don't exist. Think: if you were blind, you would also stop seeing me.
Finish your time with dignity on the planet of men.

How to explain to you that the link is not broken between us and that, just as if I were alive, we are attached to each other? Have you analyzed what a feeling is? even separated from the loved one, the chain does not break.

Stop saying "He is dead", but in the contrary : "I feel it in my thoughts, like the movement."
Can you say that there is separation if the loved one is on the other side of the world? If you forget him, yes! If, on the contrary, you are thinking of him, no. The exact term is: we are no longer together. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
« It's terrible to ignore us or tell us to rest in peace. We don't want to rest in peace, we want everyone to know we're alive. In another dimension, but alive. » ["Karine after life"]
-Doesn't the love that I bear for you risk delaying you, hindering you?

« The love you have for me, far from hindering me, propels me forward, because it is the nature of love to bring out the best in ourselves. The love on our plane, immense and radiant as it is, would not be complete without the love we receive from Earth. » (Jean Prieur, "The country after")

Contributions by Jean Prieur on the theme of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH

The corpse

« All the cemeteries are empty. It cannot be repeated enough: the graves contain only old clothes in the process of decomposition. » (Father François Brune)

« Do not seek among the dead those who are alive. » (Luke, XXIV, 5)
« She arrives at my grave, I join her there coming from the air and not from the Earth. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« Don't take so much interest in the physical body, I'm not in the graveyard, I'm much closer to you. I know you can understand that now; you have entered the path of truth and true life. There is a higher power guiding us, our relationship is a wonderful thing. » ["Karine after life"]
« "Tell mom not to go to the cemetery. I can't stand this place. Many desolate souls wander around their graves. I really don't like this place!" he said grimacing.

"Likewise, I don't need flowers, your tender thoughts are 'my flowers' " » [ Message received by Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
"I'm not there, but thanks anyway!" » [ Message received by Alain Joseph Bellet, medium ]

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But some deceased are interested in the maintenance of their tomb:

« Tell her that I thank her for coming to my grave. It is good for me to see my grave full of flowers... so I know that I am not forgotten... I need it, I am not of a very high plane... A lot of souls, very close to the Earth, constantly visit the cemeteries and are jealous of the attentions that are brought to certain graves. It's not my case... but I'm still disappointed when my grave isn't in bloom.

You see, we remained big children! Higher souls, on the other hand, don't care at all. I envy them for being so detached from all that... I'm not there, unfortunately. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

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We reject the very idea
The death in society
Prefer ignorance

A question of point of view
The fear of the Unknown
Another vision of death
Should we always be distressed about it?
The unbelievers

Display a false optimism
A phase not to be neglected
The passage
The violent death
Moorings

Our thoughts help them
Difficulties that we do not suspect
The importance of even a small amount of help

A suffering
...from either side
Messages from suicide victims

How do they feel?
A disease of forgetting
What to do with the patient?
The importance of kindness

_ _

A feeling of indignation, of injustice
Die young
What meaning can such a loss have?
Parental disconnect

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A completely different view of things
Testimonies collected by mediums
The feeling of "coming home"

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A selfish pain?
Dismay, anger, arguments
Remorse, guilt
Forgiveness (reciprocal)

The importance of life

It's not death you should be afraid of,
but having misused your life.
« What have you done with your life
that you can show Me? »

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The importance of life

« I am often asked: "Where do we go after death?"
Wouldn't it be better to start by asking what we are doing here? » [ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]
Death matters
only to those who have not completed their task.[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]
« My loved ones reject the idea of my death and cannot resign themselves to seeing my physical abilities deteriorate. How to explain to them that the essential is elsewhere? » [ "Annaëlle Chimoni's book" ]
"I'm beginning to understand that the passage to the afterlife is not a break, but a continuity, a change of plan, where we are helped to watch with love what we go up in our basket of our apnea earthly.
It is we who then understand our shortcomings, our mistakes, our successes, our progress... (no one is judging us)

Those who run only after material success, do they realize that during the great passage, they will not understand? They won't understand anything. Their soul will be lost in this place of "gray solitude".

How many knows that? How many are wasting their time here on earth chasing after futile "importances"? » (A. Ray-Wendling, "A Sun Too Late")

Contributions by Anne Ray-Wendling on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« Death is less sad and painful than thinking of these unfortunate people who waste their days wondering what others think of them. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Danger, evil, are not in the march (natural) towards death, but in dispersion. » [Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']

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When we are dead we can no longer interact with those we love,
we then realize the importance of life.

« "We must hurry to work," said Jesus, "because, when night comes, we will no longer work."
Yes, when death comes, the essential is over. Unfortunately, you will no longer be able to work much for your salvation because a spiritual being works more with difficulty to save himself than a human being. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
« We must not believe that we arrive, immediately after our passage, at a state of perfect joy. The regrets of our imperfections not only remain, but are even much more poignant than on earth; they kind of has to be redeemed… and we're working on it. If you understood this during your earthly life, you could avoid many sorrows in our sphere. » [ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]
« To incarnate is an extraordinary chance. On Earth our time is running out, the hourglass was turn over. The manifestation of the soul is action. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
« Religious people should teach that when we die, we will have to account of each of our thoughts , each of our words , each of our actions, because everything has a consequence. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« I need, to enter into God, to undress of myself (of my ego) . » [ Saint-Exupéry ]
« My life on earth was short, but I had it all, and now I have another life which is real life, for which everyone should prepare on earth. »

To a mental question from a journalist who had problems and said he wanted to join her, Karine said to him: "You have to fight". ["Karine after life"]

As a summary

« All our sufferings will lead us to transform ourselves, to be stronger. The death of a loved one is a difficult ordeal. We lose a person who will no longer be physically by our side, but we have to realize that they continue to be with us in another way, and that this other way is a strength. The force moves, it goes from matter, which disappears, to the spirit which rises and which comes back to us. Our dead are coming back to help us.

The hardships we go through are not punishments, but an engine to move us forward, to bring us to the next level. Until we understand that, we stay in lower levels, where we cling to photos, memories, the past, and that mind that keeps repeating its refrain: 'My God, I'm unhappy . [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Let us think of this immense good that awaits us, death. » (Victor Hugo)

Contributions of Victor Hugo on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE, God or DEATH

"Listen to this record"
(Be careful, every word matters in this song)
by Sheila

Listen to this record
And it will tell you:
no, don't be sad,
I'm near you.

Tell yourself that your pain
will not last;
Because every week
brings me closer to you.

Through the sorrows
encountered today,
there is a path
where the sky clears.
And despite the detours
that life brings you,
we know that one day
we will be reunited.

Listen to this record,
and you will understand
that love exists,
because I am thinking of you.

Others before us, yes it's true,
saw themselves separated,
they forgot each other

« Our life unfolds close to yours. The only cause of complete breaking of the link is forgetfulness. » [ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]
« Can you say that there is separation if the loved one is on the other side of the world? If you forget, yes! If, on the contrary, you are thinking of him, no. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
« On this plan, the deceased do not know jealousy. Only the fidelity of the thought counts. Forgetting, on the other hand, can be perceived as an abandonment, a real rupture. » [ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]
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But what can happen,
since all our thoughts never leave each other.

Listen to this record,
and it will tell you:
no,don't be sad,
I'm near you.

And when your hopes
are dashed sometimes,
Oh yes, you can believe me,
I'll be with you.
Because despite the detours
that life brings you,
we know that one day
we will be reunited.

Listen to this record,
keep it to yourself.
A love exists,
and thinks only of you.

Listen to this record,
and it will tell you:
no, don't be sad,
I'm near you.

We'll meet Again
(Colette Dereal)

We'll meet again
At the end of the night

One day one night
The reason for hope
It's there
Looking at the sky
It is there
That eternal image

We'll meet again
I believe in the stars
That don't move
I believe in the sun
In the sun that surrounds me
To the mysteries of love
I believe
That we will meet again
One day

We see again well every year
We see well spring again
Why not you
And why not me

We'll see each other again
At the end of the night
We'll meet again
One day one night
The reason for hope
It's the eternal return
So we'll meet again
We'll meet again
We'll meet again
One day