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It is not illness, conflicts, loneliness
or death that lead to despair.
It is incomprehension, refusal.

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If life despairs you,
it's because you've been deceived about the meaning of life.

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To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 
▪ The harshness of this world
▪ A deceptive vision of life
▪ A salutary but brutal awakening
▪ Hear this celestial message
▪ The spirit must master the mental
▪ It can transform a disaster

 in opportunity

▪ Life scares me
▪ My life is a long wait

Loneliness  
...a (narrow) way to Heaven
...an unavoidable path
But we are never abandoned

Sadness, a long desert  
▪ Time never ends
▪ An endless tunnel
 ...yet EVERYTHING PASSES

▪ The feeling of abandonment,

 of infinity

 ...of uselessness, of failure
 ...of not being of this world

☞  Failures, shocks, injustices

When we feel crushed

Living becomes a test  
▪ Let us not allow our soul

to become involved in turpitudes

She would be a bad advisor
▪ How to live

 among the living

The Danger of Depression

How to get out of it?  
The psychoanalysis
Get back on track
An opportunity for self-victory
 ☞  What to do

   ☞ ...and not to do

 ☞ How to reduce anxiety

☞  Help and protection from Heaven

"Darkness is a decoy,
a disturbing trick of human sight,
an astonishing misunderstanding of reality."

[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

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To you who despair of this world or of your life

The Earth is an arena where plants, beasts and people confront or tolerate each other.
The soul, however, has chosen to descend there
to grow and to help.
So, whatever happens to you, whatever you feel,
keep in mind that every experience is good for her.

  " We are here to bear witness to what we see on earth: a veritable kaleidoscope of moving beings, walking in groups, often turning in circles; a grayish mass, unconscious and formless, from which sometimes rise colored islands, points of light and life.
 These rays emanate from the auras of those who are awakening, of those who have discovered in the silence of their soul the murmur of the spirit.

 This chaos of grayness, this mass of people who think and reflect only to establish their power and wealth, resembles a magma that slowly turns in circles, creating a slow vortex that attracts the masses of those who let themselves be carried away without thinking about what makes up their life.
 Their freedom is nevertheless intact. Intact the choice they make not to listen to what the soul and the spirit that constitute them tell them. All these people let themselves be guided, preferring to rely on the abundance of false ideals and the materialism exacerbated by the reigning consumption.
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « I saw the globe spinning in space. A number of beams, like those of a lighthouse, sprang from it. Some, very powerful, pierced the sky, others seemed to come from a small flashlight, and a few were just simple sparks. To my immense surprise, I was told that they represented the prayers of earthlings. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

 « We should not complain about this so dark world. We are responsible for making it brighter. This realization comes to me from the time in the dungeon of Bruchsal prison, with the Bible in front of my eyes. "You are the light of the world". This is not a request, it is a reality. As the light of the world, it is up to us to shine. If we do not, our corner of this world will remain a dark place. It is only when love shines through us, for others, that the place where we are right now can become a place of light. »
 ( Wilhelm Buntz, "The Bible Smoker" )

 « The evil we knowingly do is rare. At the end of our lives, all the missed opportunities to do good, to make the world around us a happier place, will present themselves to our conscience. »
( Mother Teresa )

A misleading view of life

A situation can be experienced as a never-ending nightmare.
But the aim of this site is to help you understand that a nightmare, however terrifying, oppressive or despairing it may be, is only a dream. A dream that we'll wake up from at the end of our earthly lives. Our attitude towards the situations we have faced will then come back to us.

A salutary but brutal awakening

Only an exceptional event can tear us away from our blindness.. And unfortunately, it is most often a misfortune. Which stops us dead. Life, time, freeze. We lose our bearings, and we sink to the depths of ourselves.

 The way that leads to perdition is broad.
  Narrow is the true one.
  Narrow because man can only pass through it alone,
  and it is he himself who clears the way.
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « If we are not ready to question ourselves or change our habits, life always ends up reminding us of it and opening our eyes: illness, death, the deterioration of objects, everything we see, all what we touch is bound to disappear. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]


Hear this heavenly message


  " The walls are gray, the weather is sad and we are alone despite the crowd, without plans, without support, without faith. Everything collapses around us, what we were leaning on, what seemed solid.
 We curse God, and life, and others.
 It is the bottom of the abyss, the end of the roll, where we feel confusedly that we must destroy something. So, depending on our temperament, we want to destroy others, or we destroy ourselves.

 That's life.
 Or at least, a turning point.

 What if…

 If the path you took was just a dead end, and your accompanying entities(guides, guardian angels...)have become aware of this, what can they do?

 Who are you? Do you have the ability to backtrack, are you strong enough to change course, do you have the humility to do so, do you have the courage to question everything?

 Who do you blame? Others, God, fate or yourself?

 Because everything depends on this analysis. If blocked by pride, you can only blame others, your despair is tragic. You will harm others or commit suicide. You are in the position of a ship unable to maneuver that can only sink or crash against the reefs. And no one can help you, since the other is the enemy.

 But if, after having done all you can, you manage to forget yourself, to abandon yourself, the entities that love you can then act. Freed from the inertia of your false certainties, you become maneuverable
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An illustration of this message

 « We are in a department store in Rio de Janeiro(describes the medium). On an escalator leading to the exit, a woman in her fifties carries a heavy shopping basket that strains her arm and shoulder.
 I perceive her thoughts with incredible clarity:

 "I have to hurry up or Juan will be there before me and as usual there will be shouting and hitting. I'm tired of serving him meals that he throws in my face. Besides, I'm disgusted with myself, I don't have the courage to leave because I don't know where to go, I'm a coward. Sometimes, I want him to find me dead, there on the kitchen tiles, he'll see what life is like without me and then it will surely cause him trouble with the police, he deserves it."

 Engrossed in her bitter thoughts, the woman continues on her way without noticing that a silhouette of light has been with her since the beginning of her inner monologue. At the bus stop, she puts down her heavy package, wiping the sweat that beads on her forehead.
 The silhouette of light touches her arm affectionately and whispers in a whisper:

 “Look at how beautiful the sea is in front of you, look around you at the life that goes on. You are neither too old nor too sick. You are still capable of changing your life… there is still time to act.”

 Suddenly the woman leaves her heavy basket there and walks away from the bus shelter with a firm step. Her monologue continues but the tone is completely different:

 "I just had an idea! I'm going to spend a few days at Samira's, my lifelong friend, and then I'll see things more clearly. After all, I'm not so bad; in the past, men used to court me a lot, she thinks, smiling.
 I'm going to get a job and take care of myself. Only the children will know where I am. They are big and independent... »

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 « What you just saw(the guide whispers in the medium's ear)is not an exception, there are many of us who act in this way.
 "Each being who incarnates on earth has a guide or several depending on the circumstances of his life.
 But in particularly difficult moments, beings, whose "mission" is more specifically focused on helping and transmitting luminous thoughts, enter the aura of those who do not see the end of the tunnel.

 We accompany these people until a change takes place in them, until we can touch and awaken the beauty and the crystal of their own heart.
 They often have no idea of ​​the light that is in them and their capacity to resolve their own stories. They feel lost or at the end of their rope, as we say on earth, because they have simply forgotten what they are: beings of Light who experience matter, each according to their life story.

 But sometimes we cannot penetrate an aura because the being leaves no way in. This happens when the person's mind, too important, makes him believe that he must act in such and such a way.
 The being then believes himself to be alone, while we only expect a little relaxation from him to come to his aid.
 Other beings who constantly emit dark and heavy thoughts surround themselves with an opaque cloud that is difficult to cross, and there again, we can only wait until his guides and the circumstances of his life have begun to crack this shell. Then we intervene. Just a helping hand!

 As on earth, it happens that our presence is without consequence as to the expected result. The teachers then teach us to accept with humility that the journey of this being is like this and that his life becomes even more complicated.

 Just tell the humans of Earth that never, ever are they alone . If they lock themselves in a cloud of solitude, let them know that around them, beings they do not see, they do not hear, help them and love them.
( A. Givaudan, 'The breach of contract' )

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[ "To those who seek" ]


 Let the mind control the mind

When it encounters a problem, our mind seeks a solution. That is its role. But when "everything goes wrong", it turns on itself, faster and faster, colliding with all the doors it finds closed.

We must then break this loop. We must rely on Heaven, or if we do not believe in anything, stop rebelling. Let us courageously bear the cruelty of our situation. Everything passes ...

A scorpion that sees itself surrounded by fire commits suicide.
Our mental also thinks about it when it sees no way out.

 But the spirit must dominate. And transform a disaster into an opportunity.

Misfortune does not end a life.
It sets it on another path.

A life that "falls apart" is an opportunity, never a punishment or bad luck.

See chapter below When we feel crushed .

Life scares me

 « I am broken. I have lost all faith in life. So I am afraid of her, she can do whatever she wants to me; take my wife, a child, my job... »

No upheaval is due to chance. Life has meaning☆

 « Life has meaning. The life of every man on Earth has meaning.
 Life on Earth has a purpose, a meaning; that of loving and progressing spiritually, of developing one's consciousness.
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(Message collected by Daniel Robin, 'Death and beyond')

. This misfortune was sent to you to tear you away to the lethargy into which your existence was sinking.
 And if you show signs of awakening, if you start to ask yourself questions, to search
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A deep trauma pushes a man to revolt.
However, it is in the bitterness of frustration, indignation in the face of success denied or happiness lost, that’s where the (real) questions arise.

 « If today you're questioning yourself, it is that the work has already begun in you, it is because your conscience has already been touched by its light. A dozing life form does not wonder about its sleep, it is completely absorbed in it. »
(message received by A. Givaudan, medium)

 ♡ May God guide you and support you along the path you are embarking on, my friend. ♡

 « You who read, and whose Soul understands, you are blessed and your task is all laid out before you. »
(Joseph Benner, The Impersonal Life-1914)

 « Some messages will speak to you more than others. If ever certain points resonate in you, if it makes sense in your life, stop, think about it, and let it mature in you. It is a beginning of questioning which begins, which will have to be taken forward. »
(Patricia Darré, medium)

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Conversely, if you're not ready to hear them, you'll reject them.
Because
« An answer without a question is devoid of life. »

( Abraham Heschel, 'God in Search of Man' )

... then fear nothing: you are on the path. A path whose entrance is cluttered with brambles. You're in. Don't try to turn back!

  ☞ Waking up is difficult.

 « I realized that many of my experiences had been orchestrated by guardian angels. Sad or wonderful, all were designed to increase my perception of myself, to elevate me to a higher level of understanding. »
[Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"]

My life is a long wait

 « Waiting for time to pass is my only occupation... »

Finding life boring is abnormal in a society where "time is money" and we must seek pleasure at all times.

Yet! What a source of suffering to ignore that existence on Earth is a test for our soul. Because it is not of this world (Cf. "below"). So,
 Soak up the excerpts of texts collected on this site; already. To understand.
 And if you still don't know what to do with your life, instead of thinking about destroying it, make it useful. And believe it, everything will change for you.



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To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 

Loneliness

Sadness, a long desert  

☞  Failures, shocks, injustices

When we feel crushed

Living becomes a test  

The Danger of Depression

How to get out of it?  

Alone, blind, crippled with pain
and unable to understand,
the caterpillar macerates in its chrysalis and in time.
My suffering is quite useless, she thinks,
and the interminable wait quite sterile...

Loneliness

...a (narrow) way to Heaven
...an unavoidable path
But we are never abandoned

  « In many ways, loneliness is worse than material poverty. »
( Mother Teresa )


  « The greatest poverty is to feel useless in one's heart, in that terrible, heart-rending sadness of not being loved, of no longer coming across a face that smiles with affection. »
( Mother Teresa )

 « Loneliness is not necessarily visible from the outside. You can have lots of people around you, but that doesn't stop you! As long as you don't have God inside you, you are like an empty shell, you are alone.

 The problem is that people no longer believe in God. They only believe in themselves, so they do their own little will, and of course, it doesn't work, or not for long. So, they say that life is badly made, and stay in their corner. So there, you know, God does not insist. He knows how to push the door if you leave it open, or even a little ajar, or even closed and He sees light coming through. But if you close your heart and stay in the dark, well He will not force the lock. Because He leaves man free to choose. »
(F. Caragnon, “Jade and the sacred mysteries of life”)

« She [Mother Teresa] exhorts us to love people who suffer from loneliness and who are in our families, on our path. She will often say that the greatest poverty is in the West, because it is spiritual.
 Nevertheless, Mother Teresa will have lived for decades a night of faith which manifested itself by the feeling of the loss of God, the aridity in prayer, the spiritual dryness (she sought God, and He did not answer her. She will have to act as if He did not exist). She will thus be in solidarity with her century marked by unbelief. She thus quenched his thirst of Jesus by sharing a little of his agony and his cry on the cross: "I thirst". »
( Jacques Gauthier - Mother Teresa )

 Solitude, the narrow path to Heaven

 « The chains of the body are often the wings of the spirit. »
( Nelson Mandela )

The lights are dazzling, the noise is deafening.
It is in the dark that we see,
it is in the silence that we hear.

"To the solitary is given the grace to approach more easily this supreme dimension which exists outside of time.
 Convince yourself of this truth: solitude, that which succeeds in extinguishing the external tumult within oneself, is indispensable to this state which can put you in communication with the supernatural, this interior infinity which communicates with the beyond."
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Allow to decant

Visualize a dark pool.
Calm its waves, smooth its wrinkles.
Let the mud that troubles it, soils it, descend.

 « The agitation makes waves in you. How do you want me to land on these eddies ? »
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel to his mother]

 « I was alone with my mission, without a guide to advise me, as all those who want to become independent and trustworthy collaborators in the great work must remain alone. Very rarely, only when I found myself at a turning point in my life, was I able to benefit from assistance and some indications emanating from higher forces. As for my own problems, I always had to solve them alone. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

A difficult but unavoidable path

We are made to live in community and in psychological harmony with others. Also, feeling cut off from it (a handicap, prison, retirement home, etc.) is very hard to bear. This maceration in ourselves (most often involuntary) is nevertheless aessential passage ; because, let us remember, we came to Earth to evolve☆

The realization of our being

“Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

 In evolution, the mineral will become vegetable, the vegetable will become animal and the animal will become human. This is the long chain of life.
(Hélène Bouvier, medium, “Mission of souls in the afterlife”)

 « The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, and then after our death, in the different worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
 The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations (Cf. Frequencies & vibrations ) through more or less difficult life experiences."
( R. Terral-Meyer, 'Letters of the Invisible' )

suite...
 ; and thefirst stepof this essential mission for our soul is to descend into oneself...

 « Every important production is the child of solitude. »
 ( Johann Wolfgang von Goethe )📗

 « Solitude is the nest of thoughts. »
 (Kurdish proverb)

 « Solitude is good for great minds and bad for small ones. Solitude troubles brains that it does not illuminate. »
 ( Victor Hugo )📗 Magnifying glass authorContributions by Victor Hugo on the theme of:

The WAY , LIFE , God or DEATH

 « Nothing is developed outside of solitude. »
 ( Pablo Picasso )

 ☞  Isolate yourself

 Floating image « Solitude offers the intellectually advanced man a double advantage: the first, to be with himself, and the second, to not be with others. »
 ( Arthur Schopenhauer - 1788-1860)📗 Magnifying glass authorContributions of Arthur Schopenhauer on the theme of:

LIFE or DEATH

But we are not abandoned, on the contrary

 « No one in the world is abandoned for a single moment. Ever. »

 - I like this idea… There are so many people who are lonely. If they knew that wonderful beings are near them at all hours of the day and night… Unfortunately, how to let them know…
[Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "Messengers from the Beyond"]

 « How hard you are to understand, blind and deaf to what is not thunderous! If you knew how to listen to your life, how much easier your lives would be! So many tenuous signs mark the path.

 This voice so fine, almost inaudible, is the breeze of your conscience. In the opacity of your miseries, in the blackness of the fiercest depression, you can find this tender sweetness which whispers to you:
“Have faith! You are not alone.” »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « There is no traveler who walks alone in the land of trials, and each of you is able to feel the pure influence of the angels. »
[Heavenly messages from Pierre Monnier]

 "A man may be abandoned in the midst of his family, when no heart loves him."
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

  However...

 « When no one cares about someone anymore, there is always an angel to love them. »
(Karen Goldman, 'The Book of Angels') Magnifying glass authorContributions by Karen Goldman on the topic of:

The WAY, LOVE or LIFE

 ☞   Help and protection from Heaven

December 31, 1952: "Mam, I'm glad you've lost what you might call holiday sensibility and are finally ceasing to feel sorry for yourself in these days of family rejoicing."
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « When you are too lonely, seek the company of animals . »
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]


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To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 
Loneliness  

Sadness, a long desert

☞  Failures, shocks, injustices

When we feel crushed

Living becomes a test  

The Danger of Depression

How to get out of it?  

Sadness

▪ Time never ends
▪ An endless tunnel
 ...yet EVERYTHING PASSES

▪ The feeling of abandonment,

 of infinity

 ...of uselessness, of failure
 ...of not being of this world

  You are in the dark; let me take advantage of it
  to show you a path
  that the shimmerings of life hide from you.

When you are alone on your star(G. Bécaud)

 « Your deep disappointments are not of My will, but if I prevented them, I would deprive you of precious experiences. »
[Inspirational Message to Neale Walsch]

 « Days of misery and terror, days faded, lost at the bottom of the abyss. Periods of anguish where one exists separated from one's soul.

 The period when sorrow excludes all life is one of the most favorable periods for communication with the beyond.
 Any manifestation is possible. The subject's only concern must be the observance of great recollection; he must be attentive, nothing more.

 Forge yourself day after day in the fire of your pain. »
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

  Thought is matter,☆ Excerpt from the page: "The thought" :

 Thought has its own energy

 « Certain inner ways of being trigger certain facts, which amounts to saying that thought is capable of influencing circumstances. Thought, that invisible, indefinable thing, can have projections powerful enough to animate matter. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Emotion is energy in motion, and by manipulating energy you get matter. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 « Thought is a concrete force, it is not a 'spirit'. Well-intentioned thought helps, relieves, frees, delivers. »
[ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]

 « Your thinking is creative. When you express a wish, if you involve yourself in your thought, it can very quickly take shape if it is based on a realization of love. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

  heavy, swaying, blind,
  which draws down.
  It is a snake
  that bites its own tail.

 « Wandering endlessly in a hopeless round, turning in the same closed circle, prisoner of the world where thought dominates us. »
[Gitta Mallasz, "The Dialogues, as I experienced them"]

 « See the flower dying and you will see the flower with a sad look. But consider it as a part of a whole tree that is changing and will soon bear fruit, and you will see the flower in its true beauty.

 Always remember that you are not the flower, you are not even the fruit. You are the tree."
[Inspirational Message to Neale Walsch]

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"The important thing is the Rose"(symbol of love)

(Gilbert Bécaud)

If sadness eats away at your heart, soak up these lines

 « Your current state of torpor is a gestation, it is a layer that dies so that another may appear.
 The great crises of despair are most often periods of germination. Everything blossoms in suffering."
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 "If such a dispute tears you apart, let it grow, you are changing. Blessed is your tearing apart which makes you give birth to yourself: for no truth is attained in evidence.

 (...) Whoever sheds his skin knows sadness and anguish. Everything in him becomes useless. Whoever sheds his skin is nothing but cemetery and regrets.

 Every ascent is painful. Every molt is suffering.
[Saint-Exupéry]

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 ☞  Why so much suffering on earth?

 « A being immersed in the physical world here below is never alone.☆

The Angel affirms it

   YOU ARE NEVER ALONE.  [ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

However, often in life, we feel terribly alone.
As alone as a young child "thrown" in the middle of a playground can be.
His mother loves him and thinks of him but she cannot avoid him jostling and harassment.

. The Spirit accompanies him, because life is a manifestation of the Spirit  .
[ "To those who seek" ]

Our soul comes in a way to prove itself on earth, to experience as many things as possible during a lifetime (love, injustice, betrayal, wealth, etc.).

But even when our unconscious is agitated, disturbed or dark, the subtle, ethereal part of our being is always there, although at a good distance. Hence the importance of meditation and the sleep-wake phase to get closer to it.

 Time never ends

 « When some days are worse than others, I wait like a little child for the storm to calm down. »
( Mother Teresa )

A pernicious feeling accompanies and exacerbates a situation from which we can imagine no way out: the frightening conviction that our suffering is stuck in time, that it will never end. And yet, we know, everything passes ... .

 « O time, you exist only in relation to the unhappy man.
 In happiness, there is no time: consciousness is calm, the concept of time disappears.
 In suffering and unbearable torments, time freezes!
 Happiness is eternity without time and the opposite, unhappiness is time without end, infinity. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

 « Time is a regulator that gives events their real value. Respect time, love it. »
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Is this why pleasure passes like lightning - because it is not productive for the soul?☆

The realization of our being

“Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

 In evolution, the mineral will become vegetable, the vegetable will become animal and the animal will become human. This is the long chain of life.
(Hélène Bouvier, medium, “Mission of souls in the afterlife”)

 « The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, and then after our death, in the different worlds of the beyond, is an increasingly complete realization of our being. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

 « The important thing for you is to evolve in order to modify your vibrational state.
 The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to modify its vibrations (Cf. Frequencies & vibrations ) through more or less difficult life experiences."
( R. Terral-Meyer, 'Letters of the Invisible' )

suite...
, and that a sentence drags on - so that she can learn from it?

The feeling of a well or an endless tunnel

Sometimes we feel as if a leaden sky covers our lives. Dark, oppressive. No light is visible at the end. We feel alone, without any help.
Let us then think of crossing a long road tunnel. So long that theGPShas lost us. What should we do?
Continue to follow the road without him. The tunnel will inevitably end.

See chapter below When we feel crushed .

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"When we can no longer feel the presence of God,
we must continue to know that it is there,
and wait."

[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

Gitta Mallasz asks the Angel:

- I'm in the dark, what should I do?
(My question is, in reality, a desperate cry for help.) »

  MARK ON YOUR OWN PATH!
  ALL ELSE IS MISGUIDEMENT
 [Dialogues with the Angel]

 (The Angel evokes the journey of the soul ).

 « Intervals of drought are only truly educational if their severity plunges the being into such distress that he is convinced that he will never be able to escape from it.
 If there were room for hope, the ordeal would not be total.

 The body, too, is affected by this aridity. Accept the long sleepless nights, your anxieties. At the center of your suffering, the divine union can be accomplished.

 Mom, you have to wait. Practice patience. Don't try to escape, there is no way out. »
[Heavenly message from young Roland to his desperate mother]

 « The mystic in me knows that he must sink to see and recognize himself; he must touch the bottom of the abyss to aspire to the heights. The self dissolves before it is accomplished. »
[Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']

 yet EVERYTHING PASSES

Yes, everything passes.
This certainty is a great consolation for those who suffer.
It is also an opportunity to acquire that unsuspected strength, patience .

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 « Life is but a night spent in a bad inn. »
(Saint Teresa of Avila)


The feeling of abandonment,

of infinity

The feeling of uselessness

 “I began to understand, during my NDE , that all that is, is literally the Self, your Self, my Self. ☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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. Everything is the Great Self. That is why God knows even when a leaf falls. This is possible because wherever you are, that is the center of the Universe. Wherever every atom is, that is the center of the Universe. There is God, and God is in that Void.

 ☞  Full testimony of Benedict Mellen-Thomas.

 "The objective of the process (of loneliness and suffering) is that you discover yourself, that you create your Self(inner being)☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

«There is only real wealth,
that of the inner life. »

(Jeanne Guesné, 'The Consciousness of Being')📗

The self behind the me

_ _

 The cult of personality

 « The finishing touch that underlines your personality  ", "  Bring out your personality  "... This is the opposite of the Way! The Joyful Race to Slavery. The empire of advertising, fashion, novels, newspapers, 90% of conversations, are a poison that kills us, that kills you, by only talking to us about living your life. »
[ Arnaud Desjardins, 'Yoga and spirituality' ]

 « Arise and free yourself now and forever from the dictatorship of your personality, weighed down by its mind and its intellect, puffed up with pride and self-satisfaction.
 For henceforth, your mind must be Your servant and the intellect Your slave. »
 ( Joseph Sieber Benner, "The Impersonal Life" -1914- )📗

following...
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[Inspirational Message to Neale Walsch]

 The feeling of failure

  ☞  Failure

  ☞  Success in society


The feeling
of not being of this world

This feeling is natural... since our soul is not of this world. Although it wished to descend there☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

The (Re)naissance


 « With each passage, it is an evolving soul that returns and not the previous human being. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

 Why come back??

- Isn't it extraordinary that a world of matter can attract a soul which has known a universe to its measure? where the beautiful and the good reign?

 « Although it is active in these places, an astral body learns less there than through an envelope of flesh. Also the desire for reincarnation is at one time a real need. Anyone who has not assimilated all the teachings that the flesh brings feels irresistibly drawn towards it like a magnet, sooner or later.

 An entity reincarnates when it imperceptibly loses the joy of living in this world. She knows a kind of waking sleep and is then taken care of by the entities working here and directed to her new destination. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')📗

following...
, the Earth is for her a place of exile. Also, in moments of suffering or solitude, she sighs for the world she left, and of which she alone has the memory.

  This is why depression is a bit like

 The unconscious nostalgia for Heaven

 « Your drama is to dream of love in a climate of ice.

 (...) The life of the inspired is in complete divergence from what surrounds them. This imbalance is earthly hell."
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « A lot of old souls☆ Excerpt from the page: "Why life":

 The progression of the human soul

Every soul starts from the bottom of the ladder.
From instinct to consciousness, it rises.
From the satisfaction of her desires to the happiness of giving, she rises.
And the path is long and marked with suffering.

 « If different minds conceive such different truths, it is because evolution is not the same in everyone. »
(Gandhi)📗

 « The Spirit, like man, also has its childhood.
At their origin, the Spirits have only an instinctive existence and are barely aware of themselves and their acts. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

 « If you don't feel ready to forgive someone's actions, at least forgive the person. (Tell yourself that his still animal conscience is not awake, but that his soul is nonetheless a reflection of God). »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

feel a great weariness of life. When they begin to awaken on the spiritual plane, they find impressions of "between lives", and remember that they have known better worlds. Men and women of great quality have said to me: "Reincarnation? Horror! I don't want to come back to this planet!"
 "Fed up" characteristic of those who have already lived a large number of earthly lives. Yes, but as long as they still have a lesson to learn... »
[Dorothee Koechlin, "The Universe of Edgar Cayce"]📗

 ☞  Testimonies of patients resuscitated in extremis

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 Both on earth... and elsewhere

 « Every being is a citizen of two worlds, that of time and that of eternity. Paradoxically we are in the world and yet we are not of the world.

 (...) Each of us lives on two planes, the interior and the exterior. »
( Martin Luther King )📗 Magnifying glass authorContributions de Martin Luther King sur le thème de:

La VOIE, L'AMOUR, La VIE ou La MORT

 « You are embodied spirits experiencing matter for the duration of an earthly life. You do not belong to this world but to the world of the spirit."
[Alain Joseph Bellet (medium)]

 « All your life you think you are your body. At times you think you are your mind. It is at the moment of your death that you discover Who You Really Are. »☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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[Inspirational Message to Neale Walsch]


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To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 
Loneliness  

Sadness, a long desert  

☞  Failures, shocks, injustices

When we feel crushed

Living becomes a test  

The Danger of Depression

How to get out of it?  

The most unbearable moment
is the most important moment in our life.
It marks a turning point, signals a crucial stage.

When we feel crushed

 "In life, when one door closes, another often opens... but the corridor between the two is dreadful."
( Ronnie Kaye, "Spinning straw into Gold" )

 "A 'crossing of the desert' purifies people, but this passage is an extreme intensity of suffering."
(Messages from Isabelle - Lights from Beyond)

 "When all your reasons for being are destroyed by the fatality of an implacable destiny, when stubborn bad luck condemns you to an existence outside the ideal line you have glimpsed, if you live this ordeal in God, the revival is total."
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Know that what you do in your greatest trial may be your greatest triumph. »
[Inspirational Message to Neale Walsch]

 « I can assure you that the most impetuous experience that a human being can have is his passage through an environment dependent on evil, and that when he holds the power of good and maintains it, his evolution is lightning fast."
( R. Terral-Meyer, 'Letters of the Invisible' ) Magnifying glass authorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH

« It took cancer to put my life into perspective
  and open me up to the concept of death as a growth experience. »
[ A patient of Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « Every spiritual transitional period is accompanied by heavy inner and outer upheavals. »
[Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "Messengers from the Beyond"]

 "It is in times of great tension that the soul progresses the most. »
(J. Van Praagh, 'Dialogues with the Beyond')📗magnifying glassAuthorContributions by James Van Praagh on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

 « I believe that the ultimate test of a man is not where he stands in times of well-being, but where he stands in times of difficulty and adversity. »
( Martin Luther King )📗 Magnifying glass authorContributions of Martin Luther King on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH

 « When things are at their worst you forget Who You Are (a mind before being a body). It is time, however, more than ever, to step into your divine space.☆ Excerpt from the page: "Getting Back on Track" :

Every being is connected to his inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our deep being

 « In you there are two characters, one earthly, stuck to matter, stuck in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. At the moment when you conceive your two poles, you become eager for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that is also where the troubles begin! In the innocence of unconsciousness, you found a certain tranquility, functioning according to the same patterns for generations, able to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to a greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity is confronted with shadows.
 In the grip of existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become prey to sorrow, terrible doubts, solitude and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an inner dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and we who are your servants, your companions on the road. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your babbling as a child of light.

 In your inner self, the ego of earth and the soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnate man and your part of burst of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension which allows you to Survive(among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, incarnate reflection of the Father Creator.
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]
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. First, it will bring you great inner peace. And from a peaceful mind come great ideas, solutions to the problems you think you have. In your divine space, you will know and understand that everything you are experiencing now, is temporary. »
[Inspirational Message to Neale Walsch]

 Total disillusionment is a turning point

When a trial crushes us,
when our values, our hopes collapse,
it is because we are beginning a programmed trial
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 Decision, life plan

- How and when are the spiritual goals we must achieve defined?

 « Vous vivez tous une période plus ou moins longue d'errance dans le monde spirituel entre deux incarnations. Elle est relative à vos efforts de progresser. Quand votre degré d'évolution vous le permet, vous choisissez les grandes lignes de votre prochaine vie sur terre, avec l'approbation de vos guides. Un plan de vie s'établit, avec le choix de votre famille et son milieu social, vos lignes professionnelles, sentimentales, amicales, matérielles et financières, ainsi que votre santé.

 Une partie des expériences de vie est déterminée à l'avance en fonction de vos acquis ou faiblesses des vies passées. Elles deviendront des évènements incontournables, mettant en avant les principales faiblesses à éliminer. Néanmoins, la majorité de vos expériences se révéleront par le libre choix de vos attitudes et comportement. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues avec le monde des esprits' ]

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of our life.
Let us not rebel , let us not withdraw into ourselves.
Let us be patient and attentive, we will be helped .

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 ☞  The collapse, misfortune or turning point?

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 "I realized that every time my life seems to be thrown to the winds, that I feel lost and helpless, it is because I have lost my own identity. I am no longer connected to what I really am.
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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, nor to what I came to live here☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 Decision, life plan

- How and when are the spiritual goals that we must achieve defined?

 « You all live a more or less long period of wandering in the spiritual world between two incarnations. It is relative to your efforts to progress. When your degree of evolution allows it, you choose the outline of your next life on earth, with the approval of your guides. A life plan is established, with the choice of your family and its social environment, your professional, sentimental, friendly, material and financial lines, as well as your health.

 Part of the life experiences are determined in advance according to your achievements or weaknesses of past lives. They will become unmissable events, highlighting the main weaknesses to be eliminated. Nevertheless, the majority of your experiences will reveal themselves through the free choice of your attitudes and behavior. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

following...
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(Anita Moorjani "Returned cured from the beyond")

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 "At the end of their lives, most people do not regret their bad experiences, because they have learned from each of them. All the events in your life happen so that the perfect being
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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that which is in you may be born into the world.   »
[ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « Events that go against you can sometimes make you understand what your mind refuses to accept. »
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 "I always thought that my blindness was a gift from God. Now I had the opportunity to think about the spiritual, you know? I would never have been interested in God if I had my eyes, I'm pretty sure. My life would have been different."
( Patricia Delvin )

 « We understood the reason for our child's illness, which was necessary for our development, to question ourselves and shake up our lives. »
[ Maguy Lebrun ]

A man who committed suicide speaks through the medium:

 "I would like to tell all those who will read you, that there is no point in escaping the earth and its teachings. I, the rebel, now know that a contract signed with oneself is lived to the end and that there are always solutions. Behind the greatest despair, there is always a solution that can only appear when the void is total. When we abandon our masks, whatever they may be, everything then becomes possible.

 Life is often less complicated than you imagine. How often do we hear yours complain in these terms: “ How sad, complicated, unlivable this life is… ” and so many other similar words that make you believe in the illusion of the sad and the ugly, the heavy and the insurmountable obstacle.
 »
( A. Givaudan, 'The breach of contract' )📗 Magnifying glass authorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

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 ☞  Other testimonials

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To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 
Loneliness  

Sadness, a long desert  

☞  Failures, shocks, injustices

When we feel crushed

Living becomes a test

The Danger of Depression

How to get out of it?  

When continuing to live
becomes a test

▪ Let us not allow our soul

to become involved in turpitudes

She would be a bad advisor
▪ How to live

 among the living

 "When the universe seems to darken, it is not because the doors are closing before you, but because your gaze is hiding from the light."
(F. Caragnon, “Jade and the sacred mysteries of life”)

Let us preserve our soul from earthly turpitudes


 - Why do I get desperate so quickly? asks Lili

 - What makes you fall into despair?

 - Rather the small things than the big ones.

 - In there is the answer.
   Little things are the business of "little Lili".
   You don't have to look at them.
   Let little Lili sort them out!
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 "The worst weakness is to let the tumult that comes from outside grow within you. Your innermost being must never be touched under any circumstances."
[Heavenly message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 "You have allowed perishable things to invade your existence. Your very souls are interested in that which cannot endure."
[Heavenly messages from Pierre Monnier]

When anguish grips it, the soul is a bad counselor

  “I locked myself in a bubble of suffering from which I could not see the way out. No one mattered to me anymore.
 All my efforts seemed in vain, which reinforced even more in me this feeling of incapacity and uselessness.
 And then this God, how could I consider him good and merciful? What had I done to deserve this?
 The questions turned in my head without finding an answer and each day I sank deeper into a hopeless despair.

 I felt like a weight weighing on everyone.
 Trying to take an interest in my family, I realized that what they were going through no longer affected me.
 Neither friends, nor time, nor distractions nor signs of love, friendship or affection could penetrate this dark shell in which I had involuntarily made an impenetrable shelter for myself.

 So one day in “my world” I conceived the plan to commit suicide.

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 "How many people who commit suicide believe that they are not loved, that they will not be able to bear the ordeal that is theirs...

 Hell: A world of suffering from which no one can extract her unless she herself opens the door.
( A. Givaudan, 'The breach of contract' )📗 Magnifying glass authorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

   ☞ Suicide

The apple is a little bruised, or it becomes sweeter than the others – or it rots.

[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

How to live
among the living

  "If you want to push people away, talk to them about your misfortunes, your illnesses, your sorrows; instead of listening to you, they will only want to run away."
(Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov, "The duty to be HAPPY")📗

 - My friends are moving away from me...

When we sink into bitterness, our loved ones cannot truly help us. Simply because they do not know what to say or do.
In addition, our negative aura instinctively pushes away, or makes difficult, any warm impulse.

 « I carried my despair within me without showing it, without talking about it. One thing was clear to me: if I constantly talked about my illness to those around me, it would not fail to demoralize them and make them suffer. And since human beings instinctively try to get rid of what is unpleasant and makes them suffer, people would unconsciously distance themselves from me. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

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 ☞  A man pulls himself together

 ☞ A unique opportunity to surpass yourself

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To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 
Loneliness  
To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 

Loneliness  

Sadness, a long desert  

☞  Failures, shocks, injustices

When we feel crushed

Living becomes a test  

The Danger of Depression

How to get out of it?  

Depression: Danger

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A problem is crushing us. We see no way out, but before we give up the fight, let's ask God☆ It doesn't matter what name we give Him. Prayers addressed to Him are first and immediately heard by the loving spirits who accompany us.to protect us from bad influences.

Indeed, when the soul sinks, our vibration collapses; our defenses fall. And this represents an unsuspected danger: the spirits of the lower astral, on the lookout for any failing mind, are attracted by this... depression.

Not necessarily the worst, but certainly the most depressed; those who inspire the worst resolutions.

   ☞ Wandering Spirits

     ☞ The weakening

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To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 
Loneliness  
To you who despair

 of this world or of your life
 

Loneliness  

Sadness, a long desert  

☞  Failures, shocks, injustices

When we feel crushed

Living becomes a test  

The Danger of Depression

How to get out of it?

How to get out of suffering?

Accept it... but react


   The psychoanalysis
Get back on track
An opportunity for self-victory
 ☞  What to do

   ☞ ...and not to do

 ☞ How to reduce anxiety

☞  Help and protection from Heaven

The psychoanalysis

 - Psychoanalysis bothers me so much. What's wrong with it? I sense something wrong, but I can't say why.
  She takes things apart, but can't put them back together.
  That's what's troubling you. Taking things apart is easy.

 - Those who understand it better than I assure me that psychoanalysis reconstructs.
  Yes, they rebuild, but like children do
  for no reason with their block game.
  They play with the most sacred task,
  and deceive those who trust them.
[ Dialogues with the Angel ]

 ☞ Understanding life. Its reason for being...

Get back on track

 « Our mindset and victimization reflexes make us waste a lot of energy dwelling on what is wrong in our lives. When this happens, we have to ask ourselves: " Am I not going around in circles with my worries? " Some of us, constantly tuned into "radio misfortune", need to become aware of this. »
[ Patricia Darré (medium) ]

If we are in a deep rut or the road has collapsed in front of us, it is very difficult to get out of it - in fact impossible. We stand there, prostrate, watching the disaster, waiting for a miracle, thinking about the past. We make excuses, we feel sorry for ourselves...

The Spirit within us
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Father Creator. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
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has put a stop to the way we have been living our lives or to make us take a step forward. Because he has judged that we are ready and therefore able to overcome the test he has set before us.

So here we are at a turning point in our lives, and what is happening to us is neither chance nor bad luck. It is an... opportunity .

To support you in this ordeal

 ▪☞ Relieve its physical repercussions: oppression, panic attacks, chest pain, poor sleep... see this page .

 ▪☞
  Get rid of what's suffocating you!by walking, shouting, laughing...

 ▪☞
 Avoid what will sink you further.

  Infinite distress is a unique opportunity to

 Surpassing oneself in the face of challenges

 « We can refuse to rise on the step, which is very often that of suffering; we can refuse this effort, but then it will have to be made later, sometimes even in the dark spheres of the beyond."
[Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]

  There are no abysses so dark,
  there are no cliffs so high,
  there are no wanderings so tortuous
  that are not the WAY .
  Let not terrible fears lead you astray!
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

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 « I have to bear seeing my one and only child, the person I love most in the world, living in an unheated room, without blankets, with practically nothing to eat, while outside the temperature has remained at 20° below zero for weeks (His son has suffered a terrible disappointment and, from disappointment to disappointment, no longer believes in life, represses his faith in God.). I could easily find him a warm room, feed him, provide him with everything he needs. But I have no right to do so. I know that it is better for him to save his soul than his body. Out of love for him I must be cruel! I must lead him back to God.

 In the dark I pray: “ Be with him, O God! Make him find You and find himself again. Allow him to find the path that leads to You. Wake him up, wake up Yourself in him, my strength is no longer sufficient. He is lost and You know the only path that can lead him back to You: he must feel abandoned by everyone and be convinced that I too have abandoned him. He must be disappointed by everyone, he must lose all hope. You know, my God, that I have no alternative to save him.   »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

An opportunity for self-victory

If, while I am crossing a stony and arid desert as far as the eye can see, I drag my loved ones into my melancholy, I lose the terrible ordeal that presented itself to me to probe me.

 ☞  A man overcomes his distress

 « Like all men, Jesus had two consciences within him. One earthly, lulled him with illusions and said to him: "  Who knows? Perhaps I will avoid destiny  "; the other, divine, repeated implacably: "  The path to victory passes through the door of anguish  . »
(Édouard Schuré, 'The Great Initiates')📗 Magnifying glass authorContributions by Édouard Schuré on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE or DEATH



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