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▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

 ▪ How to live among the living?

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When we feel overwhelmed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

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The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

Life can be bearable or peaceful for a long time.
Until the moment when it places the soul in front of the test.
The one that from an another plan she wanted to replay .

  « The walls are gray, the weather is sad and we are alone despite the crowd, without projects, without support, without faith. Everything is crumbling around, what we leaned on, what seemed solid.
 We curse God, and life, and others.
 It's the bottom of the abyss, the end of the roller, where one feels confusedly that something must be destroyed. So, depending on the temperament, one wants to destroy in others, or one destroys oneself.

 That's life.
 Or at least a turning point.

 And if…

 If the path you took was only a dead end, and your accompanying entities (guides, guardian angels...) realize this, what can they do?
 Who are you ? Do you have the ability to backtrack, are you strong enough to change course, do you have the necessary humility, do you have the courage to question everything?

 Who do you accuse? Others, God, fate or yourself?

 Because everything depends on this analysis. If blocked by pride, you can only blame others, your despair is tragic. You will harm others or kill yourself. You are in the position of an unmanageable ship that can only sink or crash against the reefs. And no one can help you, since the other is the enemy.

 But if, after doing all you can, you manage to forget yourself, to surrender yourself, then the entities that love you can act. Freed from the inertia of your false certainties, you become manoeuvrable. »

[ "To those who seek" ]


An illustration of the above

 « We are in a department store in Rio de Janeiro (describes the medium) . On an escalator leading to the exit, a woman in her fifties carries a heavy shopping basket that pulls on her arm and shoulder.
 I perceive his thoughts with incredible clarity:

 « I have to hurry otherwise Juan will be there before me and as usual there will be shouting and blows. I'm tired of serving him meals that he throws in my face. Besides, I'm disgusted, I don't have the courage to leave because I don't know where to go, I'm a coward. At times, I want him to find me dead, there on the kitchen floor, he will see what life is like without me and then it will surely cause him trouble with the police, he deserves it. »

 Absorbed in her bitter reflections, the woman continues on her way without noticing that a silhouette of light has been with her since the beginning of her interior monologue. At the bus stop, she puts her heavy package down, wiping the sweat beading on her forehead.
 The figure of light affectionately touches his arm and whispers to her:

 « Look how beautiful the sea in front of you is, look around you at the life that goes on. You are neither too old nor too sick. You are still capable of changing your life… there is still time to act. »

 Suddenly the woman leaves her heavy basket there and walks away from the bus shelter with a firm step. His monologue continues but the tone is quite different:

 « I just had an idea! I'm going to spend a few days with Samira, my lifelong friend, and then I'll see things more clearly. After all I'm not so bad; formerly men courted me a great deal, she thinks, smiling.
 I will look for a job and take care of myself. Only children will know where I am. They are big and independent... »

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 « What you just saw (whispers the guide in the ear of the medium) is not an exception, many of us do this.
 « Each of the beings who incarnates on earth has one guide or several according to the circumstances of his life.
 But in particularly difficult times, beings, whose “mission” is more specifically focused on helping and transmitting luminous thoughts, enter the aura of those who do not see the end of the tunnel.

 We accompany these people until a change takes place in them, until we can touch and awaken the beauty and the crystal of their own heart.
 They often have no idea of ​​the light within them and their ability to resolve their own stories. They feel lost or at the end of their rope, as we say on earth, because they have simply forgotten what they are: beings of Light who experience matter
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
, each according to his life story.

 But sometimes we cannot penetrate an aura because the being leaves no doorway. It happens when the mind of the person, too important, makes him believe that it is necessary to act in such and such a way.
 The being then believes himself alone, while we are only waiting for a little relaxation on his part to come to his aid.
 Other beings who constantly emit dark and heavy thoughts surround themselves with an opaque cloud that is difficult to pass through, and again we can only wait for his guides and the circumstances of his life to begin to crack this shell. So we step in. Just a push!

 As on earth, sometimes our presence is inconsequential as to the expected result. The teachers then teach us to accept with humility that the route of this being is like this and that his life becomes even more complicated.

 Just tell the humans of Earth that never, ever are they alone. If they shut themselves up in a cloud of loneliness, they know that around them, beings that they do not see, that they do not hear, help them and love them. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

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 « Solitude is not necessarily seen from the outside. You can have lots of people around you, that does not prevent! As long as you don't have God within you, you are like an empty shell, you are alone.

 « The problem is that people no longer believe in God. They only believe in themselves, so they do their little will, and of course, it doesn't work, or not for long. So they say that life is bad, and stay in their corner. So there, you know, God does not insist. He knows how to push the door if you leave it open, or even a little ajar, or even closed and He sees light coming through below. But if you close your heart and stay in the dark, well, He won't force the lock. Because He leaves man free to choose. »
(F. Caragnon, "Jade and the Sacred Mysteries of Life")

 The withdrawal into oneself

The natural reaction to pain is to withdraw into oneself, to wait for “it to pass”.
But it doesn't happen. Quite the contrary, because thus brooded, the wound macerates. And our worst enemy becomes ourselves because if someone telling us  “You suck”,  “Nobody loves you”,  “You'll never manage to...”, we would react!
But it comes from our subconscious... so we accept it, we believe it.

 ☞ The withdrawal into oneself

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  ☞  Help and protection from Heaven


Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points
▪ The sadness

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do


You are in the dark; let me take advantage of it
to show you a path
that the gleams of life usually hide from you.

The sadness

 « Didn't Christ say in the Garden of Olives: “I am sad to die”, and he had even more: he had the nails and the cross; stop complaining!

 Do not ask for the suppression of your pain, only ask for the grace to transform it. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel
to his mother]

 « Your deep disappointments are not of My will, but if I prevented them, I would deprive you of precious experiences. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 « The days of misery and dread, the discolored days, lost in the depths of the abyss. Periods of anguish when one exists separated from one's soul.

 The period when sorrow excludes all life is one of the most favorable periods for communication with the beyond.
 Any manifestation is possible. The only preoccupation of the subject must be the observance of great recollection; he must be attentive, nothing more.

 Forge yourself day after day in the fire of your pain. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

  The thought is matter☆ Excerpt from the page: "The thought" :

 Thought has its own energy

 « Certain inner ways of being trigger certain facts, which amounts to saying that thought is capable of influencing circumstances. Thought, that invisible, indefinable thing, can have projections powerful enough to animate matter. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Emotion is energy in motion, and by manipulating energy you get matter. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 « Thought is a concrete force, it is not a 'spirit'. Well-intentioned thought helps, relieves, frees, delivers. »
[ Michèle Decker, "Life on the Other Side" ]

 « Your thinking is creative. When you express a wish, if you involve yourself in your thought, it can very quickly take shape if it is based on a realization of love. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')
,
  heavy, tottering, blind,
  drawing down.
  She is a serpent
  biting her own tail.

 « Wandering indefinitely in a round without hope, turning in the same closed circle prisoner of the world where thought dominates us. »
[ Gitta Mallasz, "The Dialogues, as I Experienced Them" ]

 « See the flower dying and you will see the flower with a sad look. But consider it as part of a whole changing tree that will soon bear fruit, and you will see the flower in its true beauty.

 Always remember that you are not the flower, you are not even the fruit. You are the tree. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 When time stretches to infinity

A pernicious feeling accompanies and exacerbates any painful situation: the maddening conviction that our suffering is bogged down in time, that it will never end (and yet, we know, everything passes!).

 « O time, you exist only in relation to the unhappy man.
 In happiness, there is no time: the consciousness is calm, the concept of time disappears.
 In unbearable suffering and torment, time stands still!
 Happiness is eternity without time and the opposite, unhappiness is endless time, infinity. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

 « (...) During this rest period , we understand that those we love those we love will join us at the end of their earthly time; which is just a few years' experience in the flow of eternity...
It's amazing how this notion of time poisons the lives of human beings, whereas from here, an earthly life seems to pass like a shooting star. »
( Christine André, 'Listen, you need to know' )  LoupeAuteurContributions by Christine André on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE ou DEATH

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The Rose is the important part

(Gilbert Becaud)


You who walk in the wind
Alone in the too big city
With the quiet cockroach of the passerby
You she let down
To run to other moons
To chase other fortunes
The important
The important thing is the rose
The important thing is the rose
Believe me
See more...
You who are looking for some money
To end your week
In the city you walk your load
Stuntman, setting sun
You walk past the banks
If you're just an acrobat
The important
The important thing is the rose
The important thing is the rose
The important thing is the rose
Believe me

You, child, that your parents
Have left alone on earth
Little bird without light, without spring
In your white cloth jacket
It's cold like in Bohemia
You have the heart like in Lent
And yet
The important thing is the rose
The important thing is the rose
The important thing is the rose
Believe me

You for whom, give-and-take
I sang these few lines
As if to give you a sign in passing
Now it's your turn to say
That life only matters
Through a flower that dances
On the time
The important thing is the rose
The important thing is the rose
The important thing is the rose
Believe me
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Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points
▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

Alone, blind, crippled with pain
and unable to understand,
the caterpillar macerates in its chrysalis and in time.
She thinks that her suffering is quite useless,
and that her interminable waiting is quite sterile...

The loneliness

When you miss the affection, the presence of others, when you feel abandoned, come down to yourself. Go find your soul☆ Excerpt from the page : "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
. There lies true and total Love.

 « If you are in despair, look nowhere but in yourself for consolation. Man is never less alone than when he is a. » (united with its Source☆ Excerpt from the page: "Why life" :

Our soul is connected to all others
and is one with God.

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The human soul

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  « The human soul is a part of the great soul of the world, a spark of the divine spirit. Its mysterious emergence dates back to the origins of organized matter. She had to cross all the kingdoms of nature, the whole scale of beings while developing through innumerable existences. Blind force in the mineral, individualized in the plant, polarized in the sensitivity and instinct of animals, it tends towards consciousness.

 The animic and spiritual element therefore exists in all the kingdoms, although only in the state of infinitesimal quantity in the lower kingdoms. »
 (Pythagoras (580-495 BC))

 « There is only one soul  : the universal soul, which is, like life, an attribute of the Cosmic. Everything lives and everything has a soul from the cosmic point of view; it does not mean that everything has a consciousness. Plants experience an embryonic form of consciousness. Some plants "love" those who care for them. »
[ R. Bernard, Grand Master of the Rose Croix ]

On a piece of land grow brambles, flowers, trees...
They all ignore each other, avoid each other or compete with each other.
Yet the earth unites them within.

following...
)
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

The lights dazzle, the noise deafens.
It is in the dark that we see,
it is in the silence that we hear.

 « No one in the world is abandoned for a moment. Never. » (affirms the Medium's Guide)

 - I like that idea… There are so many people who are lonely. If they knew that wonderful beings are near them at all hours of the day and night... Unfortunately, how do you let them know...
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « There is no traveler who walks alone in the land of trials, and each of you can feel the pure influence of the angels. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

 « How hard you are to understand, blind and deaf to what is not thunderous! If you knew how to listen to your life, how much easier your lives would be! So many tenuous signs mark the path.

 This voice so fine, almost inaudible, is the breeze of your conscience. In the opacity of your miseries, in the darkness of the fiercest depression, you can find this tender sweetness that whispers to you:
"Trust me! You are not alone." »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « A man can be abandoned in the midst of his family, when no heart loves him. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

  However...

 « When someone no longer interests anyone, there is always an angel to love him. »
(Karen Goldman, 'The Book of Angels')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Karen Goldman on the subject of:

The WAY , LOVE or LIFE

 ☞  Heaven's help and protection

 Loneliness, the narrow way to Heaven

 « I was alone with my mission, without a guide to advise me, as must remain alone those who wish to become independent and trustworthy collaborators in the work of the great work. Very rarely, only when I found myself at a turning point in my life, I was able to benefit from assistance and some indications emanating from the higher forces. As for my own problems, I always had to solve them alone. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

 « HERE IS NO LONENESS FOR WHO HAS ACCEPTED THE ROLE THAT LIFE HAS OFFERED HIM, without looking for the action that will satisfy his only pride. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

 An unavoidable phase for progress

 « Every important production is the child of solitude. »
 ( Johann Wolfgang von Goethe )

 « Solitude is the nest of thoughts. »
 ( Proverbe kurde )

 « Solitude is good for great minds and bad for small ones. Loneliness clouds brains that it does not illuminate. »
 ( Victor Hugo ) magnifying glassAuthorContributions of Victor Hugo on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , God or DEATH

 « Nothing can be worked out without solitude. »
 ( Pablo Picasso )

 Image flottante « Solitude is the main benefit that society provides. »
 ( Pierre Baillargeon )
 Floating picture « Solitude offers the intellectually highly placed man a double advantage: the first, of being with himself, and the second of not being with others. »
 (Arthur Schopenhauer)LoupeAuteurContributions by Arthur Schopenhauer on the theme of:

LIFE ou DEATH


Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points
▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

« When we can no longer feel the presence of God,
we must continue to know that He is there,
and wait. »

[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

The feeling of abandonment,
of infiniteness

When you're alone on your star (G. Becaud)


When we're alone on our star
And we watch the trains go by
When we're drinking with losers
When we're sleeping with some "less than nothing"

See more...
When we write to our mother again
And we think about savings
When we invent prayers
For a good Lord of comedy
It's because we need
Of someone, of something
Or a somewhere else
That we don't have
That we don't have
It's because we need
Of someone, or of a love
Or a friend
That we've been waiting for
For a long time

When we're alone on our star
we don't see the time running
we're warm and we settle down
Like a horse that's about to die
When we talk about our childhood
To people who don't listen
When you make yourself beautiful, it's Sunday
And after all you don't go out
It's because you need
For someone
Of something
Or a somewhere else
That you don't have
That you don't have
Is that you need
For someone
Or a love
Or a friend
That you've been waiting for
For a long time

When we're alone on our star
There are times when the good Lord knocks
And we're two on wer star
It's silly, but we're happy

We don't need anyone anymore
From something, or from a somewhere else
We don't care, oh yes
We don't care!
We're fine
We're fine
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 YOU ARE NEVER ALONE.

[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

If sadness gnaws at your heart, soak up these lines

 « Your current state of torpor is a gestation, it is a layer which dies so that another appears.
 The great crises of despair are most often periods of germination. Everything hatches in suffering. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « If some litigation tears you apart, let it grow, you molt. Blessed is your heartbreak which makes you give birth to yourself: for no truth is reached in evidence.

 (...) Anyone who molts knows sadness and anguish. Everything in him becomes useless. Anyone who molts is only graveyard and regrets.

 Any ascent is painful. All moulting is suffering. »
[ Saint-Exupéry ]

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 ☞ Why so much suffering on earth?

 « Darkness is a decoy, a troubling facet of human sight, an astonishing lack of knowledge of reality. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

 « A being immersed in the physical world here below is never alone. The Spirit accompanies it, for life is a manifestation of the Spirit. »
[ "To those who seek" ]

In a way, our soul comes to prove itself on earth, to experience as many things as possible over the course of a lifetime (love, injustice, betrayal, wealth...).

But even when our unconscious is agitated, disturbed or dark, the subtle part, ethereal of our being is still there, although at a good distance. Hence the importance of meditation and the sleep-wake phase to get closer to it her.

 « The mystic in me knows that he must sink to see and recognize himself; he must touch the bottom of the abyss to aspire to the peaks. The self dissolves before fulfilling itself. »
[Elie Wiesel, 'Hasidic Celebration']



Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points
▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

The feeling of worthlessness

The following messages are addressed to those who believe themselves useless and convinced of being loved by no one.

 « I was beginning to understand, during my NDE, that all that is, is literally the Self, your Self, my Self ☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
. Everything is the Greater Self. This is why God even knows when a leaf falls. It is possible because wherever you are is the center of the Universe. Wherever each atom is, that is the center of the Universe. There is God, and God is in that Void. »

 ☞  Continuation of the testimony of Mellen-Thomas Benedict.

 « The objective of the process (of loneliness and suffering) is that you discover yourself, that you create your Self (your inner self) ☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

«There is only real wealth,
that of the inner life. »

(Jeanne Guesné, 'The Consciousness of Being')

The self behind the me

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 The cult of personality

 « The finishing touch that underlines your personality  ", "  Bring out your personality  "... This is the opposite of the Way! The Joyful Race to Slavery. The empire of advertising, fashion, novels, newspapers, 90% of conversations, are a poison that kills us, that kills you, by only talking to us about living your life. »
[ Arnaud Desjardins, 'Yoga and spirituality' ]

 « Arise and free yourself now and forever from the dictatorship of your personality, weighed down by its mind and its intellect, puffed up with pride and self-satisfaction.
 For henceforth, your mind must be Your servant and the intellect Your slave. »
 ( Joseph Sieber Benner, "The Impersonal Life" -1914- )

following...
. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 The feeling of failure

  ☞  The failure

  ☞  Success in society


Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points
▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

The feeling
of not being of this world

This feeling is natural... since our soul is not of this world. Although she wished to go down there☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

The Renaissance


 « With each passage, it is an evolving soul that returns and not the previous human being. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')

 Why come back??

- Isn't it extraordinary that a world of matter can attract a soul which has known a universe to its measure? where the beautiful and the good reign?

 « Although it is active in these places, an astral body learns less there than through an envelope of flesh. Also the desire for reincarnation is at one time a real need. Anyone who has not assimilated all the teachings that the flesh brings feels irresistibly drawn towards it like a magnet, sooner or later.

 An entity reincarnates when it imperceptibly loses the joy of living in this world. She knows a kind of waking sleep and is then taken care of by the entities working here and directed to her new destination. »
(D. Meurois and A. Givaudan, 'Terre d'émeraude')

following...
, the Earth is for her a place of exile. Also, in moments of suffering or loneliness, she longs for the world she left, and of which she alone has the memory.

  That's why depression is a bit

 The nostalgia for Heaven

 « Your drama is to dream of love in a climate of ice.

 (...) The life of the inspired is in complete divergence with what surrounds them. This imbalance is earthly hell. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Many old souls☆ Excerpt from the page: "Why life" :

 The progression of the human soul

Every soul starts from the bottom of the ladder.
From instinct to consciousness, it rises.
From the satisfaction of her desires to the happiness of giving, she rises.
And the path is long and marked with suffering.

 « If different minds conceive such different truths, it is because evolution is not the same in everyone. »
(Gandhi)

 « The Spirit, like man, also has its childhood.
At their origin, the Spirits have only an instinctive existence and are barely aware of themselves and their acts. »
[Message collected by Allan Kardec]

 « If you don't feel ready to forgive someone's actions, at least forgive the person. (Tell yourself that his still animal conscience is not awake, but that his soul is nonetheless a reflection of God). »
[Doreen Virtue, "Communicating with Angels"]

experience great weariness of life. When they begin to awaken on a spiritual level, they find impressions of "between two lives", and remember that they have known better worlds. High quality men and women have said to me, "Reincarnation? Horror! I don't want to come back to this planet!"
 "Fed up" characteristic of those who have already lived a large number of terrestrial lives. Yes, but as long as they have a lesson to learn... »
[ Dorothée Koechlin, "L'univers d'Edgar Cayce" ]

 ☞  Testimonies of patients resuscitated in extremis

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 Simultaneously on earth... and elsewhere

 « Each being is a citizen of two worlds, that of time and that of eternity. Paradoxically we are in the world and yet we are not of the world.

 (...) Each of us lives on two planes, the interior and the exterior. »
( Martin Luther King )magnifying glassAuthorContributions of Martin Luther King on the subject of:

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 « You are embodied spirits experiencing matter for the time of an earth life. You do not belong to this world but to the spirit world. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet (medium) ]

 « All your life you think you are your body. At times you think you are your spirit. It's when you die that you find out who you really are☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
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[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]


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▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

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When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

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The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

The apple a little bruised, or it becomes softer than the others – or it rots.

[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

How to live
among the living

   « If you want to repel people, tell them about your misfortunes, your illnesses, your sorrows; they will have only one desire, instead of listening to you, and that is to clear off. »
( Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov, "The duty to be HAPPY")

 - My friends are moving away from me...

When we sink into bitterness, our loved ones don't know what to say or do.
Moreover, like a black abyss, a negative aura drives away, or makes any warm outburst difficult.

 « I carried my despair within me without showing it, without talking about it. One thing was clear to me: if I constantly talked about my illness to those around me, that would not fail to demoralize them and make them suffer. And as the human being instinctively tries to get rid of what is unpleasant to him and makes him suffer, people would have unconsciously moved away from me. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

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 ☞ A man takes himself back

See also below a unique opportunity to surpass oneself

Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points
▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

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When we're crushed

_ _

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

Surpassing yourself

The most unbearable moment
is the most important moment of our life.
It marks a bend, signals a crucial stage.

When we feel overwhelmed

 « In life, when one door closes, another often opens...but the hallway between the two is dreadful. »
(Ronnie Kaye, "Spinning straw into Gold")

 « A "desert crossing" purifies people, but this passage is an extreme intensity of suffering. »
( Messages from Isabelle - Lights from Beyond )

 « When all your own reasons for being are annihilated by the fatality of an implacable destiny, when tenacious bad luck condemns you to an existence outside the ideal line glimpsed, if you live this ordeal in God, the reviviscence is total. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « Know that what you do in your greatest trial may be your greatest triumph. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 « I can assure you that the most impetuous experience that humans can have is their passage through an environment dependent on evil, and that when they hold the power of good and maintain it, their evolution is lightning. »
(R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')   magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Rosine Terral-Meyer
on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE or DEATH

 « Any spiritual transitory period is accompanied by heavy internal and external upheavals. »
[ Sylvie Lorain-Berger, "The messengers from beyond" ]

 « I think the ultimate ordeal of a man is not where he stands in times of good, but where he stands in times of difficulty and adversity. »
( Martin Luther King )magnifying glassAuthorContributions of Martin Luther King on the subject of:

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 « It's when things are the worst that you forget who you are (a spirit before being a body). It's time, more than ever, to enter your divine space☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
. First, it will bring you great inner peace. And from a peaceful mind come great ideas, solutions to the problems you think you have. In your divine space, you will know and understand that everything you experience now is temporary. »
[Inspired message to Neale Walsch]

 Total disillusionment is a turning point

When a ordeal crushes us,
when our values, our hopes collapse,
it is that we begin a programmed test
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 Decision, life plan

- How and when are the spiritual goals that we must achieve defined?

 « You all live a more or less long period of wandering in the spiritual world between two incarnations. It is relative to your efforts to progress. When your degree of evolution allows it, you choose the outline of your next life on earth, with the approval of your guides. A life plan is established, with the choice of your family and its social environment, your professional, sentimental, friendly, material and financial lines, as well as your health.

 Part of the life experiences are determined in advance according to your achievements or weaknesses of past lives. They will become unmissable events, highlighting the main weaknesses to be eliminated. Nevertheless, the majority of your experiences will reveal themselves through the free choice of your attitudes and behavior. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

following...
of our life.
Do not revolt , do not withdraw into ourselves.
Let's be patient and attentive, we will be helped .

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 ☞  The collapse, misfortune or turning point?

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 « I realized that every time my life seems thrown to the winds, that I feel lost and distraught, it means that I have lost my own identity. I'm no longer connected to who I really am
☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live (among earthly torments). Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
, nor that I came to live here☆ Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

 Decision, life plan

- How and when are the spiritual goals that we must achieve defined?

 « You all live a more or less long period of wandering in the spiritual world between two incarnations. It is relative to your efforts to progress. When your degree of evolution allows it, you choose the outline of your next life on earth, with the approval of your guides. A life plan is established, with the choice of your family and its social environment, your professional, sentimental, friendly, material and financial lines, as well as your health.

 Part of the life experiences are determined in advance according to your achievements or weaknesses of past lives. They will become unmissable events, highlighting the main weaknesses to be eliminated. Nevertheless, the majority of your experiences will reveal themselves through the free choice of your attitudes and behavior. »
[ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]

following...
. »
(Anita Moorjani "Dying to be me")

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 « At the end of their life, most people do not regret their bad experiences, because they have learned something from each of them. All the events of your life occur so that the perfect being☆ Excerpt from the page: "Taking-back-control" :

Every being is connected to their inner Self,
which is connected to God.

 Our inner being

 « In you there are two characters, one terrestrial, stuck to matter, mired in its heaviness, and the other celestial, letting itself be carried by the light. The moment you conceive your two poles, you become greedy for unity and begin your quest for purity. But that's also where the trouble begins! In the innocence of unconsciousness you found a certain tranquility, operating in the same patterns for generations, fit to taste the pleasures of the flesh.
 However, as soon as your consciousness opens to greater lucidity, your thirst for clarity comes up against the shadows.
 In the grip of an existential despair, your mind then plays monumental tricks on you. You become the prey of grief, terrible doubts, loneliness and your impatience.
 We are with you more than ever in these wanderings. Because then we recognize in you the flame, the inner fire.

 Then begins an interior dialogue between your soul, which has already recognized us, and us who are your servants, your companions on the way. At your side, ready to support you in the difficult passages, smiling at your stammerings as a child of light.

 In your heart of hearts, ego of earth and soul of light manifest themselves to each other and show themselves in turn. There is no point in adjusting them with a master's hand, there is no point in wishing for their fruitful friendship. Their role is not to oust each other. Thus you grow, by making in you the union of your part of incarnated man and your part of brilliance of light. It is there, in the balanced axis between these two aspects of yourself, that you touch the new dimension that allows you to Over-Live. Then your personality of light irrigates your being incarnated in matter for a happy birth: that of the new Man in you, an incarnated reflection of the Creator Father. »
[ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages"]
following...
who is in you can be born into the world. »
[ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]

 « Events against you can sometimes make you realize what your mind refuses to accept. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « I always thought my blindness was a gift from God. There I had the opportunity to think about the spiritual, you understand? I would never have cared about God if I had my eyes, I'm pretty sure. My life would have been different. »
(Patricia Delvin)

 « We understood the reason for our child's illness, necessary for our development, to question ourselves and shake up our lives. »
[ Maguy Lebrun ]

A man who committed suicide expresses himself through the medium:

 « I would like to tell everyone who reads you that there is no point in escaping the earth and its teachings. Me the rebel, I now know that a contract signed with oneself is lived until the end and that there are always solutions. Behind the greatest despair, there is always a solution that can only appear when the void is total. When we let go of our masks, whatever they are, then everything becomes possible.

 Life is often less complicated than you imagine. How many times do we hear yours complaining in these terms:  « How sad, complicated, unlivable is this life… ” and so many other similar words that make you believe in the illusion of the sad and the ugly, the heavy and of the insurmountable obstacle.
 »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

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  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

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When we're crushed

When living becomes a ordeal

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

Surpassing yourself

When continuing to live
becomes a ordeal

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 « When the universe seems to you to darken, it is not because the doors are closing in front of you, but because your gaze is hiding from the light. »
(F. Caragnon, "Jade and the Sacred Mysteries of Life")

Let's preserve our soul from earthly turpitudes

 - Why am I so quickly desperate? Lili asks

 - What makes you fall into despair?

 - Rather the small things than the big ones.

 - In there is the answer.
   The little things look at "little Lili".
   You don't have to watch them.
   Let little Lili fix them!
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

 « The worst of weaknesses is to let the tumult that comes from outside grow in you. Your depths in any circumstance must never be reached. »
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

 « You have let perishable things invade your existence. Your souls themselves are interested in what cannot survive. »
[ Celestial Messages from Pierre Monnier ]

When anguish grips it,
  the soul is a bad adviser

  « I locked myself in a bubble of suffering from which I did not perceive the outcome. No one mattered to me anymore.
 All my efforts seemed to me in vain, which reinforced even more in me this feeling of incapacity and uselessness.
 And then this God, how to consider him as good and merciful? What had I done to deserve this?
 The questions swirled in my head without finding an answer and each day I sank deeper into hopeless despair.

 I felt like a heavy weight on everyone.
 Trying to get interested in my family, I realized that what they were going through no longer affected me.
 Neither friends, nor time, nor distractions, nor signs of love, friendship or affection could penetrate this dark shell in which I had involuntarily made myself an impenetrable shelter.

 This is how one day in “my world”, I conceived the project of committing suicide. »

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 « How many people who commit suicide believe that they are not loved, that they will not endure the ordeal that is theirs...

 Hell: A world of suffering from which no one can extract her if she herself does not open the door. »
(A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Anne Givaudan on the theme of:

The WAY , LOVE , LIFE , HEALTH or DEATH

   ☞ The suicide

Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points
▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

Depression: danger

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A problem crushes us. Let's ask God☆ It doesn't matter what name you give it. Prayers addressed to Him are first and immediately heard by the loving spirits who accompany us. to protect us from evil influences.

Indeed, when the soul sinks down, our vibration decreases; our defenses fall. And this represents an unsuspected danger: the spirits of the lower astral, on the lookout for any failing mind, are attracted by this... depression.

Not necessarily the worst spirits, but certainly the most depressed; those who inspire the worst resolutions.

   ☞ Wandering Spirits

     ☞ The weakening

Home and site MAP > The depression >  Points ▪ The sadness

  ...when time never ends

▪ The loneliness

  ...a narrow way to Heaven

 ▪ The feeling of abandonment

  ...of uselessness, failure

  ...of not to be of this world

▪ How to live among the living?

☞ Failures, shocks, unfairness

_ _

When we're crushed

When living becomes a a ordeal

☞ Heaven's help and protection

_ _

The danger of depression

How to get out of it

 ☞ What to do  

    ...and not to do

How to get out of it

 What to do ?

 "What can I do ? says the one who despairs. » Nothing ! he answers to himself. All the error lies in this "nothing".
[Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

How to continue living when all seems lost?

 ▪ Consider the test from a radically different angle
  (all the chapters on this page are devoted to it)

 ▪ Relieve its physical repercussions: oppression, panic attacks, chest pain, poor sleep... see this page.

 ▪ ☞
Get rid of what's suffocating you!by walking, shouting, laughing...

and remember

EVERYTHING PASSES, you have to know how to wait

We sometimes sink into sadness to understand a passing melancholy.

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 ☞  How to go on living??


 Infinite distress is a unique opportunity to

Surpassing yourself

 To surpass oneself in the face of adversity

 « We can refuse to rise on the step, which is very often that of suffering; we can refuse this effort, but then it will have to be done later, sometimes even in the dark spheres of the beyond. »
[Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]

  There are no chasms so dark,
  there are no cliffs so high,
  there are no wanderings so tortuous
  that are not PATH.
  May the terrible fears not lead you astray!
[ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

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 « I have to put up with seeing my one and only child, the person I cherish the most in the world, living in an unheated room, without a blanket, with practically nothing to eat, while the temperature outside has remained for weeks at 20° below zero (Her son suffered a terrible disappointment and, from disappointment to disappointment, no longer believes in life, suppresses his faith in God). I could easily find him a warm room, feed him, get him everything he needs. But I don't have the right. I know it 's better for him to save his soul than his body. For love of him I must be cruel! I must lead him back to God.

 In the dark I pray:  « Be with him, O God! Make him find You and find himself. Allow him to find the path that leads to You. Wake him up, wake up in him, my strength is no longer sufficient. He is lost and You know the only way that can lead him back to You: he must feel abandoned by everyone and be convinced that I too have abandoned him. He must be disappointed by everyone, he must lose all hope. You know, my God, that I have no alternative to save him. »
[ Elisabeth Haich, "Initiation" ]

A magnificent victory over oneself

If while I cross a stony and arid desert as far as the eye can see, I draw my relatives into my melancholy, I lose the terrible ordeal that presented itself to me to probe myself.

 ☞  A man overcomes his distress

 « Like all men, Jesus had two consciences within him. The earthly one deluded him and said to him: "Who knows? Perhaps I would avoid fate"; the other, divine, repeated implacably: "The path to victory passes through the door of anguish". »
(Édouard Schuré, 'Death and beyond')magnifying glassAuthorContributions by Édouard Schuré on the theme of:

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